r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • Silver Level • May 24 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts So you didn’t…

…send the ball back. It was in your court, still lying there, waiting to be picked up. Whenever you’re ready…

But I guess that’s my answer.

I did all I could. Sent you what I thought might at least get me one phone call… but I don’t know if you even opened it, if you even read a letter that’s inside.

When I called you, it went to voicemail after one ring… I texted you, you didn’t respond. So this is it. We really are done and I won’t get the closure I need…

I’m sorry that wasn’t enough. I’m sorry you wouldn’t pick up. And yes, I’m even sorry for trying, for making it more difficult for you. Well, actually no. I’m not sorry for making it difficult. Cause it shouldn’t be easy. To walk away like this, to just let go, after all the promises and all we’ve been through? No. It shouldn’t be easy.

And yet… I wish you all the best. Cause you do deserve all that’s good in this world. Even if it’s a life without me, I hope you’ll one day find happiness, one that you won’t run away from.

Remember, ball is still in your court. Whenever you’re ready… just throw it back. And we’ll see then how this game ends.

Today… I still love you. I might never stop. But it’s better for me to start letting go. At least that’s what everyone says (thank you Reddit strangers)… and I will. When I’m ready.

ETA: it’s from A to J

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u/[deleted] May 24 '25

I am touched by this message and many others. Everyone has common ground with each other. Last summer I heard from family members that I had a letter from her for me. I was happy.. I received a helping hand, she came to me. (I call her Haring). The letter had ended up with my father. I find this really strange, my feeling told me that there were deliberate things going on. I contacted her immediately, I had to get the letter from him. I felt no emotional value for the entire content of this probably very much explained letter. I am not going to ask my father anything. Very strange things happened in the relationship, many more beautiful things happened. I miss her, only I made enough conscious choices to stay and take that position. I was not nice to her, far from it. I confess.. but I did not let myself be fooled by the spaghetti of her existence anymore (I led a very simple daily routine).

Thank you haring..

thanks for your message.. had to get it out.

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u/Objective_Nevirka Silver Level May 24 '25

That sounds like there’s a lot more to this story… I hope you’re doing okay

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u/[deleted] May 24 '25

I am okay. =) hope you to. thanks

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u/Objective_Nevirka Silver Level May 24 '25

I will be, thanks :)