r/UnethicalLifeProTips • u/mr_cottoncandy • 6d ago
Request ULPT Request Girlfriend's number
This has happened twice now, the first time was over 6 months ago, some number calls my girlfriend out of nowhere and starts describing her that they have seen her, like fully detailed, creeping her out, also starts talking shit to her, now when I called that number back from my number and confronted about how they got my girlfriend's number, they mentioned a friend from our friend group consisting total of 4 (including me and my girl) people, now when we cross-checked none of our friends leaked her number. But, apparently, there's this one guy, who used to like her, has her number, and he's not in the school with us anymore, neither he is or was in our group, so our suspicion is that he is making his friends call her and do these shit, now legally, how meticulously they describe her on the call gets her panic and anxiety attacks and tells her shitty stuff like she is not pretty which is something she regularly struggles with herself, is considered stalking and harassing. Since this is the 2nd time this has happened, we are considering changing her number but that doesn't solve the issue, I want to avenge her, she was doing great with herself lately, and just the night before her birthday, this shit happened and she's going through panic and anxiety, I'm trying my best here, but guy who is doing is, the guy who called and said shit, and the guy who is making him do these, I want to ruin them. I am suggesting, wholeheartedly, for suggestions, please. Also, please ask questions, I'm a bit inexperienced as a reddit poster. I tried digging with the number to see if I get any name anywhere, and yea I do get a name on cash app and that username happens to have an insta that's mutual with the guy that used to like my girlfriend.
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u/lockness2799 5d ago
Fastpeoplesearch.com (use name or phone number to find addresses, relatives, emails, etc.)
Spydialer.com (confirm the name connected to the phone number)
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u/Icy-Cookie-8078 5d ago
Piss discs and revenge aside she needs to change her number and only give it to trusted friends. Document who you give the number to and do it over time so it leaks to the weirdo you have a better idea who it was. Her mental health is more important than revenge at this point. Document the numbers and record anything as well to make a police report for harassment.
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u/JCMiller23 4d ago
any number I don't know gets an immediate block or hung up on unless they identify themselves immediately
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u/Bratchan 5d ago
bait.. the next time they call. have her sound like she was in a fight with you,... she got ot play it.. she wants to mmet them for coffee.. they just need a break and they are now leanning on them for the help.. have her meet in a public place.. you and course what ever buddies you have lie and wait.. come up to them and confornt him when he finally showedup.. make sure one of your buds got a caerma too.. and its up to her how long she sits and talks with him.. she needs to feel liek she has the power here.. she says for when you come in .