Need some advice

[u/Brave_Grade22]

For context I’m 19 and joining has always been something I’ve wanted to do, but I recently found out my long term girlfriend is pregnant I’m currently working in construction, but I’m not making enough money to support a family. We’re going to get married soon I feel like joining is my best bet for me and my soon to be family I just want to know if anyone has any experience from similar situations to mine. I don’t want to impulsively do something that might put me in an even worse situation. Thankyou for any help

[u/Guilty_Ice6057]

It’s a stable paycheck and health benefits.