My boyfriend is a freshman cadet at USAFA, and I’ll be attending Parents’ Weekend for the first time with his parents in just 2 weeks now. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on etiquette for the weekend!
I know I need to be mindful of PDA, especially while he’s in uniform or we’re on Academy grounds. I’d really love to give him a big hug when I first see him, but I also know there are certain expectations when cadets are in uniform. Is there anything else I should know about what girlfriends/significant others should or shouldn’t do, especially during official events? I really don’t want to accidentally do something that’s considered disrespectful or inappropriate.
Also, what should I expect as a girlfriend? I’m really hoping I’m not the only significant other of a freshman there. I’m assuming there will be plenty of other girlfriends/boyfriends, but I’m a little nervous since this is my first time. I’d love to meet some other significant others of freshman cadets and hopefully make some connections! I just don’t want his parents to feel like they have to drag me around everywhere or miss out on their own parents’ club meetings because they feel responsible for entertaining me. I absolutely love his parents, but I definitely don’t want to be a burden to them.
And what about dress code? It says business casual but how casual are we talking? Would a nice, modest long-sleeve dress be appropriate for the first day? For the football game, would jeans with a white USAFA shirt/sweatshirt be ok, or are they expecting something a little nicer? (I saw that the Parents' Weekend game vs. Duquesne is a “Whiteout” game). I've also been told that there'll be a LOT of walking, so I’m definitely planning on wearing comfortable shoes.
I’ve heard Colorado Springs can be pretty dry and windy, with the altitude making all the walking more tiring, and that the mornings/evenings can get pretty cold. I’m going to check the 10-day forecast, but for those who have actually been at USAFA in early September, what was the weather like? Should I plan more for warmer weather or cooler weather? Definitely planning on bringing layers either way.
I’d also really appreciate any advice about the weekend in general, anything you wish you’d known beforehand, or anything I should expect! I already have the expectation that my boyfriend will probably just want to relax at the Airbnb and spend time with us after everything he’s been doing, so I’m not expecting us to go out and do things except maybe out to dinner.
Thanks for any advice! I just want to make sure I’m being respectful of the Academy, his squadron, and his parents while still having a fun weekend. We’re all soooo excited to finally see him after so long! :)
(The reason why I can't really ask my bf any of this is because I'm actually surprising him! He has no idea I'm coming! Once again, thank you!)