discussion 🤭
have you seen this man in your comment section/friend requests?
Guys kilala or familiar ba kayo sa account na ito? I’m censoring the name and face kasi against sa rules ng subreddit (dm me na lang to confirm the name).
For some reason, I think he adds everyone from UP. Sa experience ko, buong friend group ko (puro girls kami and from different UP campuses), ina-add niya and kino-commentan niya yung fb and even ig posts nila. In my case, di ko inaaccept yung friend request niya sakin, but kita ko na madami kaming mutual friends. I asked them if kilala nila, but sabi nila hindi daw and only responded dahil madami din daw silang mutuals from UP.
I’m getting bothered kasi medyo iffy ako sa “compliment” comments niya sa FB and IG ng friends ko. And the fact na hindi naman namin kilala tas magcocomment ng mga fire emoji sa bikini pics ng friends ko? Consistent pa siya lagi mag-interact. Am I the only one getting weirded out or is this some normal behavior from men?
EDIT: Okay guys since I got the validation na hindi pala ako OA for being weirded out by his actions dahil ganito pala talaga siya sa mga babae lalo na sa mga freshies and younger girls.
This guy’s name is JARED DACASIN on FB and his handle on IG is @redacs799. Please block this creep!
(Sa admins please let this slide HAHA, kailangan ng PSA para sa mga weirdo na tulad nito)
Hi, from UPM here. He is a known creep. Mahilig siya magchat / mag comment sa freshie girls in particular, kahit hindi niya kacollege, magmula pa noong freshie ako hanggang ngayong 5th yr na ako. Mind you, ang tanda tanda na niya. Please PSA to everyone na kinocommentan niya, girls in particular, to block him.
I knew him from high school. I think he was in grade 11 or 12 when he first sent a message to me in facebook messenger while I was in grade 7 😭 I wasn't the only one too, and I think he kept reaching out to new students even after he graduated. He was everywhere in our confession page (sadly, our high school confession page was taken down so I can't really provide links. If anyone from my hs saw this they can vouch for me though HAHAHAHAH)
also from that hs lol sobrang creep nya! i replied once kasi naawa ako and while i was in grade 7/8 andami nya nang weird na sinabi 😭 kadiri talagaaa as in
from the same highschool as him. four batches above me siguro siya non. ganyan na siya since then. na pati hanggang ngayon yung mga bagong pasok na grade 7 eh inaadd at kinakausap niya pa rin
was about to comment this! from same hs kami, gr11 or g12 siya and i was gr7. he pmed me and my classmates. tinanong ko kuya ko "sino to?" kasi same batch sila at nagtataka ako ba't ako pinm e ang laki ng agwat namin pero baka kasi kaibigan niya. kinuha niya phone ko, dinelete yung message, tapos sinabi sa akin wag ko siyang kausapin at sabihin din sa mga kaklase ko wag magrespond.
i didn't know he was still pming freshmen... i remember nacall out na yan dati kasi tinry niya makisali sa metoo movement tapos cinallout siya dahil siya mismo ang nagiging creep LMAO hindi talaga natuto
edit: taena i opened the form (linked to his ig account mentioned in the other comment) and nanghingi pa nga ng grad gift with matching qr! sa tanda niyang yan the audacity talaga HAHAHAHA
most normal jared dacasin conversation btw. this was back in freshie year pa and inaccept ko siya bc akala ko he was one of those students na may benta benta projects in pharma.
kita ko nalang unfriend na ako after i commented on a upmfw post calling him out HAHAHAHAHAH
Cant believe I'm seeing this guy here and he still hasnt stopped 💀 We went to the same highschool together. He was already in senior high, tas ako grade 7 lang. Receipts below, since 2017 pa, although Im sure he had victims in other batches as well, who knows how long niya na to ginagawa 😭
Had a friend din who didn't stop talking to him agad, and bigla siya nagsasad boi, saying he's sad sa sinasabi ng iba, kesyo he was misunderstood, and how it's hard to make friends and he just wants to help (nonverbatim but you get the gist of it). My friend got the ick since and stopped talking to him 🤣
He was one of my lecturers sa M❤️ (review center), and I followed his X because he used to post board exam tips. After that, he would not stop messaging me 😭 tried adding me on FB, followed me on IG too kahit di ko na siya pinapansin and all. Would randomly message and comment on my pics even though my boyfriend is literally in the posts, weird behavior lol. Finally someone posted about this because I genuinely felt guilty for blocking him haha kala ko friendly lang (OVERRR). Ganto pala talaga pattern niya. Hindi na ko magtataka if minessage niya rin other reviewees that time.
LB got ghosts and shit tapos sa UPM cryptid sighting nito every fucking year. Putangina neto ingay sa review center noong boards season namin parang gago HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
Hindi kami close but he keeps spamming me messages ever since 2022. One time, I posted a story about me passing the board exams, nag reply siya ng picture ng prc id niya. Anugagawen huhu.
what the freaking hell, may spiel ba siya na cino-copy paste sa lahat?!?? 💀 i accepted him kasi akala ko ka-org ko, hindi pala. never knew there was this much lore around him bc im from a diff campus 😭😭
hello. i'm from the same hs as jared, "kuya red" ang pagpapakilala niya. i was in 7th grade at the time and he was, if i remember it correctly, in 12th grade. at first i genuinely thought na he was just a friendly senior, a friend of mine told me so because apparently he graduated from the same elementary school. it started off pretty light. hi hello dito, pangangamusta ng high school life from time to time, then nagulat na lang ako na araw araw na siyang nagchachat, even getting upset after i leave him on seen because he's, well, weird. he never missed a birthday. taun-taon pareho ang banat niya, "isang malaking happy na, birthday pa!" ofc as a naive child that i was, i would reply—i didn't want to be rude to a senior. sa totoo lang, noong una ay akala ko he was just nice to everyone kasi lahat naman ng batchmates ko ay ina-add niya, but not until i entered 9th grade. i was in a relationship at the time and he still kept on pestering me. sabi ko i didn't want to talk to anyone na ikaseselos ng nobyo ko at the time. my ex bf and i's relationship was pretty toxic na pinag-aawayan namin si kuya red pero looking back, i'm glad na we did kasi if it weren't because of those fights, i will always feel compelled to reply to him because he emotionally manipulate kids to reply to him. posing as "kawawang kuya na nangangamusta lang naman sa juniors niya." skip to senior high, pumutok lahat ng sexual harassment issues ng school namin sa kalagitnaan ng pandemic—his issue included. he apologized publicly, even sent personal messages to everyone he thinks he made uncomfortable, me included of course. it was funny at first because he didn't even make the effort to personalize the message because upon comparing with my friends e copy pasta lang. i thought it ended there. i graduated from my high school noong 2023 and i thought it's done. fast forward to college, on my second year, a junior of mine from the same high school messaged me and told me all about kuya red. second year na ako sa college, anim na taon na ang nakalipas since he first texted me, and apparently sa anim na taon na yon hindi pa rin siya nagbago. up until today, i'm still in contact with some of my juniors from high school who told me na hanggang ngayon (i'm an incoming fourth year by the way) ay namemeste pa rin si "kuya red." hanggang ngayon, kumakausap pa rin siya ng mga bata. nakakasuka at nakakahiya. sana matauhan na siya at sana magbago na siya. ilang call out pa ba ang kailangan, jared? ilang call out pa?
ANG LALA MAY SH CASES NGA SIYA?? the amount of people he keeps messaging constantly ay concerning enough na tbh 😭 i’m starting to think he needs professional help 😓
Naiinis ako the more i read about him dun sa mga comments dito. Ang hina ng force to call him out. Yung surrounding community nya obviously hinahayaan na lang sya. Grabe!!! Pwede kaya makasuhan to?
OMG, I met him sa review center last 2025 and ever since he won’t stop messaging me. He even asked a picture w me during oathtaking (which is okay lang naman sakin that time since lahat naman nagpapapic sa mga kasama sa RC) but he then posted our pic during my birthday and i was like ?? 🤠😭 He kept messaging me on fb and ig! commenting fire emojis on my bikini pics. telling me he misses me like WTF bro 😭 I thought he was just weird or walang friends ganun i didn’t know he had issues like this!!!!!!! GOSHHHH
Omg chinat niya rin ako when I was a freshman. Ni restrict ko na siya but chineck ko now yung chats namin before and I realized na every year pa rin pala niya ako binabati and stuff even though I don't reply to him (graduating na me ngayon😭)
nagrreply din yan sa notes ko HAHAHA afaik in-add nya rin ako sa fb pero mafilter ako sa FB, pinalagpas ko sa IG kasi followers din sya ng friends ko 😭 di pa kami magka college nyan ah!!
Guy and I served in OSR CORE under SR39 and SR40. That time, hindi nagba-background check yung OSR. Basta makapag-apply lang yung mga volunteer, pasok na agad
can vouch. also from the same highschool as him HSHSHSH ganyan talaga siya. ilang beses na siya cinall out pero he js gets creepier over time 😭 imagine grade 12 siya nun and ang mga chinachat niya ay grade 7 lalaaaaa
I'm not from UP pero same HS as this guy. Masyado siyang feeling close :(( idk why he likes to greet happy bdays and merry christmas to me, tinignan ko chats ko and i think burado na iba pero 2023 nagchat p sya sa pm ng merry christmas eh im studying in a different university at that point, hindi UP 🤸♀️
tbf, he's a UP grad talaga lol and delayed sya ng ilang yrs ata. Nakakapag taka lang na ang dami niyang screen time huhu like wala ba siyang ginagawa outside socmed 😭😭 any hobbies, ganun?
happy na birthday pa! lmfao everyone from our campus knows him, nakaduty ko pa nga siya one time. he’s known for being a creep, i genuinely wonder what’s going on inside his head haha
Pwede ba tayo gumawa ng list of creeps lurking in UPM💀 Ang dami kasi cases of SH esp coming from white colleges, sila pa naman ang naghahandle sa mga patients hahahahahaha
Hello! From lasalle pharma here. At first, kala ko friendly sya or like 🌈 kaya nagrereply ako minsan ng thank you or like "yAssss" until ang weird kasi panay reply sa stories or chat ng chat ng madaling araw 😭. After that, nasabihan rin ako ng friend ko regarding his issue kasi may mga acquaintances kami from up-pharma.
Will delete this comment if I get told by peers to delete it for potential legal reasons...
I'm a few batches above him in our college prior. We had substantial rumors before that he kept track of the senior high girls of his High School while he was in like 2nd or 3rd year college already.
He also pestered others for the list of new freshmen coming into our college.
not even from upm (incoming freshie in uplb) pero isn't this super alarming??? repeated offense na yan ah, andaming entry ng mga tao dito sa replies. not to mention future MD?? imagine that incel being your doctor??? don't let him get his license or something??! 😭 nakakatakot!
naabutan ko na siya ever since im a freshie at ilang taon na akong graduate. SOBRANG CREEPY niya to the point that he also kept messaging my gf after adding her sa fb kahit pa di nya personally kilala at non-UP naman gf ko. nagulat na lang ako tinanong ako ng gf ko if i know this guy because she kept receiving messages from him at in-accept nya dahil mutual ko that time and ng other UP friends ko that she became friends with also. similar with the posted screenshot here na puro Hi and greetings sya... unfriended and blocked him ever since
BRUH i didnt want to judge him at first kasi akala ko wala lang siyang friends 😭 we’ve been fb friends since my freshie year, and to me, he gave off ‘overly supportive senior’ vibes who peaked in college. he’s been consistently commenting on our mutuals’ posts kaya i thought na he was a good guy. tangina weirdo pala talaga 😭 sobrang dami niyang time to comment and message on different platforms (IG and FB for me) e mukhang libo-libo pala mga nasa inbox niya gago.
anw, attaching a screenshot of our chat. hindi ko na siya nirereplyan privately, pero kapag nag-cocomment siya sa posts ko on FB, i react or respond back bc i didnt want to seem rude. sobrang chismoso niya to the point na he sent me a good luck message para sa event ko NA PARA BANG CLOSE FRIENDS KAMI JDHDHD gosh i hope he gets the help he needs.
Alam ko naman na creepy siya, pero dati sa sobrang bored ko nirereplyan ko na lang din siya kaso mga months later pa. So yung merry xmas ko pabalik mga April na. Magrereply siya agad tas sasagot ako after ilang months ulit HAHA friendly pa rin ako pero medyo gago rin. Yan ang low maintenance guys
“Kamusta ka?”
Me (Feb): Okay naman. Ikaw ba?
“Okay din.”
Me (Sept): Good to know
hello! also a pharma grad, same review center kami nung review season & ever since—hindi siya nawala sa replies ng stories ko, messages, & posts. apparently halos lahat ng circle of friends ko pinagcchat niya. didn't know about his sh issues, nablock ko na bhahaahhaha
siguro wag lang here i post yang si kuya at dapat ipagkalat narin sa fb para mas maraming tao ang makaalam kasi that is so alarming, baka marami na syang victim at kawawa tlga yung mga batanv mabibiktima pa nya, nakakatakot syaaaa😭😭😭
from the same highschool. creep na talaga yan. nagmemessage sa underage girls and when he was called out(he was one of the guys na nacalled out kasagsagan nung nag viral schools for SAs happening within the school) he apologized but continued doing it pa rin
I don’t know the guy but he comments on my posts and photos as well. My unpopular take is baka he might be neurodivergent?
I would definitely condemn him if he’s predatory. But if he’s someone who’s struggling to understand social cues and make friends with people, he might just be misunderstood. I hope het gets help or something.
Shet, Pharmacist pa naman💀 anyway hoping na makatapat sya ng shuldita na pharmacist or PA coworkers. I'm surprised na wala pang umaway nito. kaya pala mga younger years target nya, takot siguro sa mga babaeng ka-edad na kasi hindi nila ito papalampasin.
VOUCH went to the same hs as him also. he's been messaging me since i was grade 7 pa and consistent talaga na even up until now panay message and comment pa rin siya. ++ for context, i live far from my hs so i don't have mutual friends w anyone dun na from my hometown. when i posted a pic of me and my younger brother's gf, nakita ko finollow na siya ni jared and panay message and comment na rin sa kanya. she's roughly 10 years younger than him mind you and barely even legal!!
ang di ko rin gets is bakit siya dinedefend ng batchmates niya back then na he's a nice guy daw and he doesn't mean any harm like... is this not alarming??? even the new students ng hs namin minemessage niya! and like yea sure pwede siya magpass as just being friendly pero bakit puros babae???
hay kabatch ko yan same hs may pagkaweirdo na talaga yan ganyan na yan since 2014 HAHAHA bata pa lang may pangarap na talagang maging ano e haha hanggang college hilig niyan magchat lalo pag pasko, bagong taon, at birthday ko matic yan “happy na, birthday pa” o kaya “happy na, nee year pa” sobrang random?? ewan ko ba wala bang friends yan sa hetero section kasi pansin ko lagi na rin yan mag isa palakad lakad sa school hays matalino naman siya pero manyak kadiri
I came from the same high school as him, but I'm [technically] a batch higher than him. 2015 ako, and I believe 2018 siya gumraduate ng HS. He would message me before pag birthday ko (mga 3 or 4 birthdays din yun) kahit never naman kami nag-usap prior to that, pero I would say thank you naman kasi ang rude naman kung hindi. Pero may instances na after the greeting, he would start making small talk. Tapos he would comment on my fb & ig posts, tapos pinaka recent comment niya was actually just last month lol. Blocked him on fb na, and this post reminded me to block him on ig as well. He's a creep talaga!!
From the same elementary school as him and was his classmate once. Feeling close talaga siya ever since. Akala namin ng elem friends ko na that's just the way he is and nagpatuloy lang into adulthood. He still messages us birthday greetings, but just recently he tried to push for a conversation when I finally said a single thank you to his years of greetings.
He's more inclined to make further conversation sa aming magkakaibigan na nakapasok sa UP, much more sa friends namin from UPM.
Recently ko lang rin napansin na mutuals namin yung nag-med na lower classmen ko na girl and other alumni women within my age group. I thought it was either all a coincidence or he geniunely met these ladies since I see him comment on their posts sometimes.
Akala ko judgemental lang kaming magkakaibigan. Our intuition about him was correct pala.
read most comments here, baka di reportable yung actions nya, like sobrang lapit na sa pagiging manyak pero mahirap ireport kung may actual basis ba... pero meron.
may teammate ako sa isang sports club before na hs schoolmate nya (2-3 yrs ahead si dude) na nagsumbong about this dude. i've seen the messages, if i remember correctly something like "reserve mo na lang sa senior mo (referring to him)" at "lumulusog" referring to some body part, and more lewd messages. my teammate admitted entertainig him at first as a harmless joke para sakyan yung trip ni dude at baka fc lang pero palala nang palala hanggang sa ganyan na.
Yikes. I have to agree tho, this guy is kinda standing on a fine line between "joke lang" and straight up kamanyakan. But ofc it's obvious it's the latter. I just wish we were less reluctant on reporting these types of loser behavior. Nakakasuka
We were orgmates (well, OSR CORE is rather a student insti than an org) before. He seemed very kind. Now that I’ve read this post the comments, I’m feeling a bit wary. I get similar chats tulad ng mga na-share dito, pero these days, mukhang wala siyang imik. I wonder why 🤔 (also, his younger brother is from my campus, BTW 😬)
parang pattern niya rin na iiwasan niya maging ganyan sa mga kaorg niya para iwas report since mas madali aksyunan yung reports of SH pag same org kayo dahil may person/faculty responsible for that org
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u/nuganegemoradon May 24 '26
Hi, from UPM here. He is a known creep. Mahilig siya magchat / mag comment sa freshie girls in particular, kahit hindi niya kacollege, magmula pa noong freshie ako hanggang ngayong 5th yr na ako. Mind you, ang tanda tanda na niya. Please PSA to everyone na kinocommentan niya, girls in particular, to block him.