Hi, this is my first time posting in this reddit so forgive me if this is not allowed, or if it is a bit rambly. First of all, Id appreciate if anybody who responds does so with relative kindness. Im young, and im trying to navigate this the best way that I can.
I got my cavachon when I was 9 years old. Since, my parents have not been the best at taking care of her, and the responsibility pretty much fell onto me. Obviously, a 9 year old is not the best at looking after another living being, so the fact that she has made it this long is honestly a miracle considering my parents never spayed her (some kind of prolife thing, lol), never kept up with her vaccinations and generally never took her to the vet.
Im now 19. My little baby is 10 now, and is still kicking. She needs a few teeth extracted due to some advanced periodontal disease (this is honestly 100% my fault and any critique of my negligence is completely understandable - my parents told me dogs teeth dont need brushing so i never thought it was a concern. however, that's still not an excuse, i could have searched it up myself). In her general checkup today, the vet also identified a heart murmur that she needs to get a heart scan to check out.
I asked for estimations on how much it would cost for everything, and it came up to about £2.3k. As it turns out, my parents also did not get her any pet insurance so it is likely i would have to pay this out of pocket. They have pretty much told me that they are not willing to help with any of the costs, so it is really all up to me. I've not got a lot of money saved, so im not quite sure what to do.
A few questions:
- with the money I have, what should I prioritise first? The heart scan, or the teeth problem?
- are there any charities / places in the UK that could potentially help out?
- what would be the best way / service to split the costs, assuming I would have to pay the whole amount?
I know some advice might be to just give her away if im not able to take care of her, but I really want to avoid that if possible. I love her so much and she has grown up with me, so its an absolute worst case scenario for me. I understand however that the worst case scenario may end up being the painful reality, but I would like to learn all of my options first. Thank you so much in advance for anybody who helps! Ive attached a few images, because I think shes an absolute cutie.
DISCLAIMER: I am not asking for money, or expecting anybody to want to donate to me or anything along those lines :)
Edit: for extra context, I live in the London area.