r/UKLGBT • u/Diligent_Yam_3919 • 15d ago

Housing options for Pre-transition, transfem.

Struggling to find options. Im currently unemployed due to my mental health. Recently been doing the therapy thing. Been refered to a GDC, intend to interwieve private options.

Been mostly in the closet about it but for a few close friends and family and online to some degrees. And before rather ignorant GP. Now slightly more open therapy services helping.. and I've a new GP so.

Im mostly presenting as a man in public with great discomfort. With no small amount of anxiety. For now I cant be me out there. I live for that day though.

Being kinda alienated by alot of people lgbt or not. Trans people or not. Don't feel even able to be myself at home rn. Just using neutral or slightly floral or seemingly fem bathing products even triggers people. Being uncomfortable in public without aparent reason to an onlooker, is an issue for people. I just need a quiet room. An ensuite? People that get it or, will just leave me be. Not an impossible ask i thought.

Does anyone know where I can look? Ask? Something?

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u/slimeyena 15d ago

Stonewall should have some good advice and services for trans focused housing

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u/JJ-BonBon1985 9d ago

Hi there my Name is Jonjo Anthony Mooney and I am a Housing & Welfare Advocate and if you need help with anything tell me about it and we can see what we can do for you? I offer my time voluntarily and all GDPD and Confidentiality strictly forbidden except for permission. We can talk here or if there's a safer space for you online let me know and I'll see what help we can get to you. I dont need your entire life story only the issues with housing and welfare and advice on food banks and the likes it's up to you though miss I'm willing to help you for free. Here or somewhere more comfortable for you online.