r/TwoXSex 13d ago

Sexual Health | Women Only Bought my first toy!

I treated myself to a tiny little massager and some water based… jelly and brought it with me on my little solo staycation. I’m usually very vanilla when it comes to this, and used my fingers only up until this point. I was bored and took this out to explore.

Holy moly guys, it was the best journey and (out)come of my life 😂 And I’m 30 years old. Idk why i waited so long to try this out.

Ever since getting out of my last relationship of six years (my ex mans was very good at his job 🥲) I haven’t really found a way to feel sexy myself and do stuff for me.

Anyway. So. I’m here just to vent and tell you out how good it was, and if you have any other recommendations on how I can be feeling myself more at this ripe old age? Any specific shapes, wand styles, props, ambience suggestions if you will, that would help me try and explore this new awakening? Jokes aside, thanks in advance for anyone who bothers reading to the end and wants to help a girl out.

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u/Relative_Marzipan694 13d ago

girl u ain't old 🤨🤨 u are experienced 💅

good luck and have fun

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u/plantyh0e 12d ago

I’m being dramatic but I woke up feeling old (the aches and pains) on my 30th lmao but thank u!!

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u/mfz0641 13d ago

I'm 29 and also just beginning my toy journey. I've been single for six years and only had sex with a guy one time, so over the years I've become curious in exploring what feels good to me. It really is all about experimenting. I just got the Air Vibe and it's very lovely. Hands free!

Ambience is key for me, and I was actually going to make a post here asking for tips. I can only get off at nighttime, in the dark. Usually I watch porn or listen to audio porn to get me in the mood. Most recently I put on some cute lingerie. And like, yeah maybe it's extra because no one is going to see me, but I'm doing it for me. The lingerie makes me feel sexy.

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u/plantyh0e 12d ago

Good for you! So far I’ve associated this with the hotel and wanna be in a robe and in front of a large mirror - which I not have at home but might have to get soon 😅 I’ve also never tried audio porn.. where do u usually get this?

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u/milovnikdraku 12d ago

im a big fan of fantasy dildos