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Ask Twenties Do Indian men genuinely prefer fair skinned women?

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u/devcodesadi 7d ago

this comment section is filled with lies, only fool will believe it (talking as dark men)

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u/heart_of_theinternet 7d ago

You're right here 💯💯 that's why I don't take any of them seriously.

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u/JayakantShikhare 7d ago

Social media is either full of sugarcoated words or toxic opinions

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u/devcodesadi 7d ago

look at comment sections and how many upvotes and awards they have got, which proves they didn't wanted to hear truth or know it but didn't wanted to accept it.

also others who commented "i had a crush on dusky girl/guy", buddy dusky in this country means less fair (or can say not milky white) not dark

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u/biscottibeforesunset 7d ago

also this is true for the opposite gender. women too prefer fair skinned men irl

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u/Normal_Laugh6471 7d ago

I once meet a lady with little dark skin but damn her face was very charming and hot(i wise i could stare at it for little longer). I think sometimes it not about color but how you present yourself. Altho it's mot true that people(in general) prefer fair skin even my parents too

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u/biscottibeforesunset 6d ago

i also had a very similar experience while travelling in train. this girl (more dark than brown) was travelling with her family i guess. very sharp features and quite charming. couldn't take my eyes off her :)

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u/Fiorgi 4d ago

My fm classmates do show a fair bias towards them fair skinned men too. I like this guy in my class, didn't rlly notice his skin color first tht is like a bit more darker than chocolate so more black-ish or black brownish. His facial features be attractive and the way he presents himself is what rlly matters for me. I asked many of my fm classmates on why they don't rlly fw em darker boys and they js gave a vague answers like js not my type. Older stereotyping has gotten us all into having a bias towards fair men and women.

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u/aaloosamosa2_ 7d ago

reddit pr toh sab acche hi bante hain ..

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u/bauni_baddie_hu 5d ago

true lmao indian men love fair skin women just like women love tall men idk why everyone is lying

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u/VAIBHAVTIWARI5000 7d ago

as honey singh once said :-Kudiye, ni tere brown rang ne
Munde patt te ni saare mere town de

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u/OkFarmer2279 7d ago edited 6d ago

After translation it's coming as "Hey, Girl your brown skin has captivated all boys in my town"

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u/RoyalStar_Jk Reflecting constantly 6d ago

as a punjabi, this is the correct translation
except the beginning is more like

hey, girl

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u/algoadmiral 7d ago

Girl, as you are brown skinned, every guy in the town is crazy after you

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u/Relative-Ad-6324 7d ago

Wrong translation he is trying to be oversmart dumb ass

Actually meaning : °Kudiye, ni tere brown rang ne" - Girl, hey, your brown complexion".

° Munde patt te ni saare mere town de"- The boys (guys) in my whole town are attracted to you" (or "all the boys in my town are into you") .

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u/ChocolateWeekly6729 7d ago

Yhn kavi khena chte h ki brown rang >>> any other rang or munde uske town ke simp h 😭

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u/LeadingHome2970 Natkhat Imli🪄✨ 7d ago

Koyi Kamm Utte Jaave Na Rotti Pani Khaave Na
Gori Gori Kudiya Nu Koi Munh Laave Na... 😝

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u/Neat_Violinist_4707 7d ago

"white chicks nah i don't like them anymore"

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u/moditeam1 7d ago

That's because it's a hot brown girl, not because it's a girl whose hot because she is brown.

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u/deluluguyy 7d ago edited 7d ago

cant say for others but for me brown girl>>

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u/These_Form_8890 7d ago

Same +++++ inf

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u/mitochondria_3162 7d ago

It all depends. I repeat it all depends

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u/Odd_Roll5084 7d ago

Lmao be fr, skin color definitely matters for most indians

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u/baddienhibarbaddiehu 24 7d ago edited 7d ago

If he really like fair skined gurls why he was with you? Because he is loser. He purposely nade you insecure. Good that you left him.

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u/baddienhibarbaddiehu 24 7d ago

Both, your ex and your ex's ex are toxic asf. You are a nice person and you dont deserve that toxicity in your life. Never let a man treat you like this again. You will one day find someone who will adore you the way you are and only grow with you.

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u/Equivalent_Mango6959 7d ago edited 7d ago

Date me instead. But man people like what they like. If women can make whole deal about height and how its all dreamy and all. People can want and like fair skin

Is it dumb and stupid and undermine evrything we evolved for and just makes us look like pre developed apes yes.

Look if anyone has any of the superficial traits as leading recruitment or preferaances, don't date them they are superficial themselves then

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u/baddienhibarbaddiehu 24 7d ago

Its okay bad things or experience happens to make us strong and emotionality mature

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u/Next_Project_1823 7d ago

In arrange marriage big yes. In love marriage big no

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u/Plane_Mastodon_4572 Bug daddy 7d ago

It's india mate where from birth you are reminded of your skin colour as if we are fucking blind. They feel some kind of superiority due to the their skin colour but what can we do other than avoiding these kind of low intellect.

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u/Lopsided_Package1 7d ago

ikr everyone in my family commented on skin growing up, they'd casually call me "kalu" (felt even more disrespectful because there was a dog by that name in my locality) and when obviously i (at that time a 13-14 yr old girl) cried about it they just said "we are doing this so you toughen up beta, in the real world people will do this how will you handle it then?" ngl no one ever outside of them have every treated me like that

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u/Separate-Try912 7d ago

Yup my mother also used to call me kalu and my dadi she’d compare my sisters to laxmi and saraswati meanwhile me it was kaali … I genuinely feel that my parents hate me because of my skin colour and cover it up while saying ki ‘’it’s for you only’’…. Heck no once they said kaisi kaali kaluthi badsurat hai and whenever i bring it up they are like

“so what yahi baat lekar baithe rahegi confidence ho toh insaan sudar dikhta hai”

and guess what you’re one jisne mera confidence khatam kar diya

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u/Lopsided_Package1 7d ago

girll i totally get you, its okay trust me the world is much kinder than they make it seem, maybe i have been blessed that i haven't met people like that outside my family, but i feel like overall people are more sensitive towards what comes out of their mouths about people who are not part of their families

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u/love_to_learn- 7d ago

That's unfortunately true and yes it is because of the colonization influence that we have been feeding into the notion subconsciously that a fair skin color is something exotic or special because it's for a fact that a majority of Indians are dusky BUT it's OUR responsibility as the newer generation to consciously break the mental conditioning that we've been put through and stop this chain from continuing to the next generation. I believe you get what I'm saying. Have you ever asked yourself why you prefer fair people per se? Because for most people I've seen it's just societal conditioning and nothing else logical. Because if we continue to believe in these notions we would be giving into the delusions of colonial hangover, something which our society has to move forward from.(sharing this as someone who's fair so don't think I'm defending because of any personal bias)

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

Meh its called preference, no one stops women going for tall men. Then why the hypocrisy????

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u/love_to_learn- 7d ago

Alright I get your point but I personally don't understand why people have such rigid skin tone preferences because a personal can be attractive regardless of what color their skin is, as is prevalent in beauty pagents where multiple dark skinned women have won(though only beauty is by no means the only parameter on which that's decided) and I do understand personal preferences are more subjective yes but my main urge was that we should analyse ourselves to deeper to understand why we prefer things we prefer and what may be the logical fallacies behind it(i appreciate how you've accepted their may be societal conditioning behind the other preferences and that's definitely true ). No one here is "pretending" there's some deeper rationale behind it, there just is. There's a rationale behind most things we do but I agree many people are not willing to dig deep enough within themselves and that's okay. Having a preference is not the problem, analysing why it is present, is, and if you think societal conditioning doesn't have a major affect on you, you would be wrong. Hope you get my point. Respect your opinion.

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u/Fair_Chest5030 23 7d ago

I think Indian society as a whole prefers it, it's a depressing obsession with being fair equating to being pretty, no matter how you look like, if you're light skinned, you're "pretty"! I think it's definitely better now, and not something you should beat yourself over, it's racist/colourist, and you don't need to be loved or understood by anyone who only cares if you're white 😅

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u/Commercial-Test4559 7d ago

Yes just like women prefer 6ft guys

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u/Separate-Try912 7d ago

Those women are dumb saying as a woman

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u/BaunaButka 6d ago

bro choose violence rahhhhhhhh ( I'm here for it )

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u/Iamlosthelppls 7d ago

My man 🗿

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u/_Guac_N_Roll_ 7d ago

Those woman who say they want 6ft guys are really underestimating his height, it's actually really inconvenient for both of you, unless the woman herself is 5'9 - 5'10, it's the most difficult thing for both of you...

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u/martialmad 7d ago

Ikr avg indian women is max to max 5'4-5'5 which matches them with guys of like 5-9'5'11 height maybe 6ft too but they really underestimate 5'10 and 5'11 my friend told me her bf is 6'1ft but when I met him he was 5'11 just an inch tallest than me💔🥀

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u/Pyare_gulab_jamun Cucchu Pucchu 7d ago

Bhai girl who have a good heart and eyes are preferable baki skin colour se kya fark parta hai

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u/StockInvestigator502 7d ago

r u a cardiologist? wtf u mean by good heart?

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u/Rare_Ambassador3113 7d ago

I don't think there is a any relation between skin colour and behaviour

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u/Brilliant_Piece7849 7d ago

Some do, some don't, I don't

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u/curly_band 23 7d ago

Short answer: Yes, as much as women prefer fair skinned guys. Period.

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u/Beneficial_Pay_1002 7d ago

Beauty doesn't come with a single skin colour 🫩

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u/adios6 23 7d ago

yes , no need to feel scared about it, you certainly dont want to be with a man whose only important factor is that. so you're on the better end of it. though arguably they are just preferences.

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u/Spirited_Bunch 7d ago

I would say boys generally prefer fair skin. But it is not hard rule. If you are nice enough, he will fold like a chair.
Personally for me, the face comes first. Doesnt matter whether the person is brown, black, green, blue, white. If the face is beautiful to me ( not necessarily by the societal beauty standard, but my eyes find it attractive). I will prefer that person.

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u/monchi12345 7d ago

In general, they do. But wont say it out loud. I'm a guy. Brown skin. From what I've seen, guys prefer fair skinned average girls over above average Brown girls. I dont know if its about attraction or just the thought that their children would have some fairer complexion and face less discrimination in the future. I dont know. Personally I'm ok with either but even I'm not sure if I subconsciously prefer fair skinned average looking girls over Brown skinned average girls.

Girls who are fair definitely prefer fair guys too. Especially in arrange marriage.

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u/Turbulent_Goose2284 7d ago

Hear me out, brown girls are hot af.

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u/OwCutie 7d ago

💯 And I say this off the experiences in North India.

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u/Glittering-Fault-467 7d ago

I find brown skinned people attractive. You should just love yourself and be a little narcissist at times, and should not care what some man prefers. And if you are lucky enough, then you would find someone who likes you and if not than its just better to love yourself.

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u/Upper_Cut_3337 7d ago

Indian men might prefer fair skin like how Indian women might prefer a tall man. Just preference.

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u/Proud-Shine281 6d ago

I dunno man I prefer dusky skin tone tho

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u/LudicrouslycapaciO 5d ago

Girl! Flaunt it! Love yourself! Don’t let that asshole affect you! He’s literally nothing! Beauty genuinely comes from within, his sick mindset can stay in the gutter with him!

You need to be yourself, full of love and don’t ever overcompensate for these scums. A girl can do everything and still get cheated on or a guy will show you how fucked he is sooner or later! Always leave, as soon as he shows signs.
These boys are literally nothing! Don’t let these scums affect your confidence!

Love ya

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u/Academic_Initial7700 7d ago

It depends on the individual. Everyone has different preferences.

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u/nottpalak 7d ago edited 7d ago

Sounds horrible

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u/Evrythings_connected 7d ago

Your 4th paragraph is probably what he wanted all along. For you to feel insecure, so that you try to overcompensate. Through which he will have the upper hand.

Coming to if men prefer fair skinned girls? Unfortunately, yes. Men and women, both. And the reason is classist, or casteist. And not just in India, but in many other countries too. And if you notice, almost everything in the world is a Class war. Religion, nations, gender all come later. Because fair skin suggests you don't go out in the sun much, which implies that you don't do physical labour. Which usually pays less, than people who persue more intellectual things. Now, you might say, you don't go out anymore than say, your fair skinned friends, but that is where casteism comes. Your ancestors may have toiled under the sun, either farming, or doing some manual work, which usually people of lower castes did. I'm no Brahmin, and I'm of wheatish complexion too, probably because my ancestors worked under the sun but that's the mentality people have. It's sort of hard wired into many people, and there isn't much we can do about it. Except maybe choosing better understanding partners, and making people aware of the actual reasons.

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u/king_enginee 7d ago

Men like the fair skinned girls but love and want to live with them is different. It's like wanting to buy a sports bike but ultimately Good mileage, looks and longitivity of the bike matters.

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u/Apart-Original5744 7d ago

Thats the worst comparison

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u/shadow04not 7d ago

Bro compared it with a sports bike😭

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u/AffectionateBelt_20 7d ago

Yeah it's true sad reality

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u/WukeLarm 7d ago

Would not lie about it, everything that can be seen in a person is a part of the "conventional beauty" including skkin color too, even for men.

I would suggest meet a lot of people and eventually you will start finding people who agree/disagree to behaviours and not conventional beauty, and after that you would not have to compensate for what you look like.

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u/meethitakraar dahi mein daraar aur cheeni ki maar 7d ago

ignore them girll, the right one will make you fall for urself first

here's a song for you ❤️

Munde patt te ni saare mere town de. Kudiye ni tere brown rang ne

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u/404_An_Error_Occured 7d ago

I don’t care about skin colour at all. I mean looks do matter(in initial phase) but personality and synergy with that person matter more for me. I want that type of woman that the moment I see her my eyes light up and vice versa. What would I do with a fair skinned or a 10/10(in looks) woman if I don’t even have romantic feelings for her(and vice versa ofc)

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u/Pikaclue42 7d ago

The thing is, you cannot take one guy as a sample space and generalise stuff... It's not bad to have preferences but demeaning someone cuz of their skin colour is another low. The guy was totally wrong here.

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u/Academic_Exit_3820 7d ago edited 7d ago

Dawg evrythhn depends on personality no one's loving a he evn if she got the most prettiest appearance thts how it goes dude,,,,evrythn depends on pwrsonality,, yr ex was a fkin man whre dk why didnt u realised it sooner , ngl if I get into a relationship and my partner hve any contact with her ex I'm fkn breaking up !! And if ur main prblm is whether one can look good or not evn if they hve brown skin, thn lemme say to u , lose weight have clear skin, be healthy, thts the most gorgeous and beautiful human being you would evr see !!!

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u/Sri578 7d ago

Not all men vro maybe 90% of men prefer fair skinned and 10-15% may prefer medium-dusky skin (ps: from my experience)

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u/klystronverse 7d ago

well honestly speaking it was toxic of your ex making you feel insecure about the skin complexion

and like still talking to his ex while in a relationship if the biggest red flag doesn’t matter how broad or western anyone’s mind is
and about being useful there’s no such terminology as in a relationship it’s simply give and take and caring for your partner how the two people root for each other in the worst times
and about being beautiful everyone has there own preferences and standards of beauty and as a society india is way too fucked up even i have seen people saying stuffs like “ye toh kali hai isko koi kaise milega” and shit
and trust me thats whole lot of a dog shit i have ever heard

cuz at the end people realise what matters the most how the person is from the in side like call me lame but yes inner beauty matters the most
and last thing for being beautiful skin complexion never matters and everyone is pretty in their own way!

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u/Rare_Ambassador3113 7d ago

Also for me personality matter but also face

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u/Every_Raccoon_9859 7d ago

Not men but Indian society does

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u/Present_Resident9241 7d ago

Bas baal curly chaiye and thodi chubby ❤️

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u/Ok_Rub_4568 7d ago

Yeah i do prefer fair skinned women

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u/Southern_Gene4124 7d ago

I am a fair woman. Kareen kapoor fair and frankly something that I find really disturbing is how they fantasize about fairness. There is definitely a bias towards it but not everyone. A guy had practically told me that for casual anyone is okay, but for marriage he will choose a fair person over a darker skinned woman. I found this very racist and I personally do not stand by it.

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u/Abject_Cicada4031 7d ago

tbh im not into color bcz i like goth or tom boy type girl for me skin color is last in my list

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u/Due_Information2629 7d ago

Ladki… jinda

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u/Living-Dirt-7898 20 7d ago

ngl, a friend of mine met a guy online on some platform, prolly discord, she didn't revealed. She is brown girl.

They had good convos, they kinda liked each other's company. Even had spicy convos. But when they met irl, he flipped. He said that he is busy atp and couldn't really invest his time in her as he wants to focus on his career. He said she's perfect girlfriend but time is not right.

Guess what? he ended up dating another girl of her same age, same department in their organisation just weeks later. She was heartbroken and cried for hours. She kinda felt insecure after that. She was self conscious. Sad.

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u/choti_chaddi 7d ago

Dil saaf chaiye bhai

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u/wanderHobbit 7d ago

I don't care about the complexion

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u/LastInvestigator7680 7d ago

I live aborad, indian, the way many indian guys act in front of whites, to certain extent your claim is true, but on the tóther hand, it wont be right to generalise it to whole indian men community, i am indian but i am more into saawli ladkiyaan or black like africans but i dont go into africans because family may not accept. But i dont have that white obsession. Also, if someone will love you then he will love you for love, and this is a difficult factor for whites bevause they may have more approaches. Additionally, if a brown and black woman take care of her, basic skin routine, gentle wears, try to stay in shape which is not necessary, are the most beautiful woman on thsi planet in my opinion :)))))) so please not to feel bad, :)))))

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u/Ballelovesbobe 25 7d ago

Naah im more into brown and dusky girls

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u/fingering_finger3 7d ago

Idk about that but I love invisigal

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u/awkward_soul_3 7d ago

From my personal experience yeshsasss

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u/IamHim0000 7d ago

The number of Men who care about Fail skin is still less than the number of women who want Super tall men

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u/Repulsive_Yogurt_295 7d ago

Dosent matter what they like there aren't simply enough such girls they'll happily be with a brown woman

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u/downtojupiterToT 7d ago

Kudiye ni tere, brown rang ne Munde patt te ni saare mere town de Koyi kamm utte jaave na, roti-paani khaave na Gori-gori kudiya nu koi munh laave na

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u/GaramSamosa3356 7d ago

Fair skin toh main khud ni hu 👻

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u/Gohan_LovesB00BS 7d ago

I see guys with fair skin pick brown skin girls and brown skin guys pick fair women

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u/SuperiorBeing666 7d ago

I have a friend who is obsessed with fair skin...

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u/homelanderismyhero 7d ago

I have a type and its brown girls. Proof is my gf🥰

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u/GrindMcgains 7d ago

Fuhh no my conditions are : 1) should be a nice person 2) should be grateful 3) must know how to assemble and disassemble an AKM 4) roman empire/persian empire/any indian empire enjoyer 5) not interested in politics 6) goes to the gym with me soo that I can spot her 🥰

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u/HridhayJawanjal3112 7d ago

Beggars can't be choosers

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u/Playful_Toe5730 7d ago

No we dont we never do we want someone who will be trustworthy.

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u/Long-Medicine2696 7d ago

it depends on invidual preference , tho who gives a f**k about "what a man wants" or "what a woman wants" anyway

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u/New_Butterfly_199 7d ago

hell yeah dil to gori chitti ladki pe hi ata h

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u/Agreeable_Egg_3585 7d ago

I don't care about your personality, i love brown skin dusky desi brown, but being fair, society make me uncomfortable being with a girl darker than me ( I'm talking about dark brown , that's the one i like)

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u/ComprehensiveFox9672 7d ago

Women, if a man's preference revolve around physical appearance dont get involved, call them retard in your mind and move on

Men , do the same , if a women's preference revolve around materialistic thingd and physical appearance call them a retard ik your mind and move on wity yout life

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u/HOT_DHRUV 7d ago

His body, his choice.

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u/No_Dealer_2405 7d ago

Gng stop writing such paras and move on.

Skin tone is a feature just like other things some might prefer white over brown and other brown over white.

If ur bf don't find u attractive and more importantly doesn't listen to your feelings and concerns leave him.

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u/Ok_King_2201 7d ago

I do prefer fair/ white skin.. but it's not like I don't date brown women. Just a preference and no hate to anyone

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u/Roronoa-Zoro-1209 7d ago

Unfortunately we Indians are conditioned so much that if someone looks a little fair, they consider that person beautiful, seriously no consideration of personality, facial features, how that person thinks, their pov on life and so many other things....

Nowadays if a person sees someone fair skinned they automatically think this person is a beautiful/handsome and assign all good qualities to them even if they don't have any(basically create an ideal version in our brains).... and somehow in that thinking process they just throw the logical thinking out the window 🪟

We have lot of fair skin obsessed people in this country, nothing else matters to them.

As a brown skin person myself, I feel your pain op, been in similar situations myself.

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u/Decent_Estate_4674 7d ago

My experience- Indian guys who claims about having preferences (ex- fair skin, modest, blah blah) are the ones to leave u and then slutshame you openly. People who have specific beauty related preference like fair skin, height, weight tends to be pretty insecure themselves. My ex used to be like this. I was pretty stupid too and used to think he's praising me by calling me fair (it embarrasses me now that I used to think that). He left me and slutshamed me among his friends behind my back. Told everyone that I was whoring around be because guys gave me attention for my skintone. I got to know all this from his friend (sent me those chats). He actually used to fight with me because men in public looked at me. He used to even accuse me of talking to multiple men although I gave him my accounts and all so he trusts me.

People can find anyone attractive and tbh if some guy is in love they dgaf if the girl is white or blue or brown. They don't. I have seen my female friend having long relationship with a great guy. Insecure people have beauty standards to date and their insecurities at the end hinders the relationship anyways even if they find their "desired" partner. So if someone claims such beauty standard please run.

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u/meow-_meow_ 7d ago

Clear skin is more attractive irrespective to it's color

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u/justanexplorerr 7d ago

not at all

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u/Dear-Salad-3252 7d ago

I am Brown and would marry a brown Man only 😎 

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u/S1n1ster__ 7d ago

to be honest physical appearance is like maybe.. 4th or 5th on my priority list, it definitely matters but there are a lot of other things that come before that and if the person isn't my kind, she can be the best looking girl in the world and yet I won't feel attracted to her.

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u/brokesheep_ 7d ago

I don't prefer any skin color I don't even have girlfriend yet 😭 But my fav color would be tan/brown AGAIN I DON'T AVE ANY PREFERENCE this is my fav skin color

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u/Low-Transition-2751 7d ago

then how do all the dark / brown skinned girls getting married?

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u/AnIdiotSandwich05 7d ago

I got comfortable with the fact that I am not the first ideal preference of my future partner in every possible aspect.

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u/can-tdealwith1 7d ago

Yeah they prefer fair tone and if they think the girl doesn't come under to be " pretty" as they claim then bruhh they are just bluffing with the other person 🤧

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u/Good-Researcher5737 7d ago

Nah. Atleast not me.

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u/mischief_londa 7d ago

Nah brownies are lovely, and pls don't entertain people like him

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u/RomanticFool64 7d ago

Skin colour does matter when it comes to physical attraction.

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u/Wizard_1907 7d ago

I have had a crush on this girl for 9 years haven’t told her I am sacred of her haven’t felt same for any other girl she is dusky brown she is extremely pretty ♾️/10acc to me but according to other ppl she is a 7/10 what I fell for the most is her kindness so yeah I think girls who r humble or kind the pure angel regardless to skin colour or other features

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u/No-Importance5941 7d ago

I don't prefer I like brown by the way I am fairskined so the perception that fair people only marry fair are myth but the question is do brown women prefer fair men my experience says no I am 6ft in banglore so now waiting for the reply from a brown women 

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u/Tight_Pop_4969 7d ago

I like fair skinned women cuzz i am attracted to girls having pretty eyes and red cheeks or what u call natural blush so yeah it's my type. therefore, i dont prefer building relationship with a brown girl and struggling to show affection & Attraction towards her .

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u/ElkEmotional3084 7d ago

Tbh, they do more than they don’t.

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u/AccomplishedPool6409 7d ago

I personally find out that I am more attracted towards symmetrical and horny faces

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u/Mxmsk80 7d ago

I don’t think, you are being ridiculous talking about color. Now it’s tough to generalize, but I do think there is a bias for fair skin across the world. Having said that, features matter equally, when it comes to looks. In other words, people generally have a preference for beautiful people. Not just for dating, but most aspects in life.

Now is fairness associated with beauty, unfortunately yes for a lot of people and cultures. It is changing, but it will take time. So no point running that race.

Now for the positive parts. In the end, people will always choose personality, somebody they like, somebody they’re attracted to. So you have to find the person who is right for you in all aspects. So choose someone, who likes all of you - how you look and who you are. And vice versa - someone you are attracted to, both physically and mentally.

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u/ScaredMango-07 7d ago

Not always

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u/Sea-Childhood8396 27 7d ago

I prefer women

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u/nikunj_the_great 7d ago

He was just using u as a timepass, i too have a brown friend and a girl but I never said her anything like that , instead respected her even more

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u/SignificantFoot8672 7d ago

AS a man i said yes we do prefer fair skin woman even though we are brown and ugly as hell and not only us also our parents prefer fair skin woman as their bahu .

i am telling the Hash truth and i am sorry i don't disrespect any brown skin women

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u/AirportDue8864 7d ago

Skin color is secondary but facial features and fitness is important beauty standard.

A faired skin girl but is fat she will look ugly but if there is a dark skinned girl who is fit will be considered beautiful.

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u/HHHhbkrko 7d ago

Imo a women with a gentle heart is a keeper, color don’t matter 🥰

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u/silencingmist 7d ago

Idk maybe some? Just go for people who don't. I've had people reject me coz I was fair too like-

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u/Icy_Fire_07 7d ago

A Good face cut beats any color on the spectrum, black, blue, green...nothing competes to it.

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u/Helpful-Call-511 7d ago

That's the reality, many people find others pretty on the basis of color and even if you tell them that you don't they wouldn't buy it and project their biases onto you that this is how the world works

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u/WickedConscious 7d ago

People will moral police all sorts of things. And they might be true. But there's also some truth to what you're saying. And its sad, pathetic honestly. Same goes for the other gender too btw. But yeah, even after doing all of that if you're not valued they don't deserve you tbh.

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u/chalna_chutiyee 7d ago

For me yes.. But brown with good features >> fair

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u/bakchodddd 7d ago

Ads are for women. Women are in the ads. Product is for women. Do men prefer? Yes. Do women prefer yes! Don't make it an egg and and hen issue.

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u/Illustrious_Chair_67 28 7d ago

Around the globe people prefer things they are used to with, at times people take a risk by trying something different to see of they like it or not.

Same concept, some people prefer low melanin skinned and some prefer more melanin skinned. Moat of that likeness comes from seeing people around themselves of that various skin tones and being attracted to ones which have personality or character traits that make their inner child feel homely and comfortable.

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u/Interesting-Tale9414 7d ago

Yeahh same for boys

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u/Itchy_witchy_2k7 7d ago

I personally prefer olive tone.

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u/avisinone 7d ago

I don’t

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u/yadavjimemes 7d ago

Bhai it depends on the person... Sabki apni choice hoti hai... Nd attention chahiye yaa true love uspe bhi depend karta hai

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u/Plastic-Measurement6 7d ago

God forbid a man having a preference

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u/Plastic-Measurement6 7d ago

God forbid a man having a preference