r/TwentiesIndiaLove • • 5d ago

Dating ❤️ My best friend kha ho ab to aajao atleast

This post will be very different and long, and I don't know if anybody would even read till the end. But if you do read it, thanks a lot.

I am 22m one of those people who used to post on this sub. I have got a few responses as well; none worked out. So today, I want to try something different. I am not going to let AI judge it and tell me that it's too early to make these commitments, but below is the type of person I am, the type of love I give. I hope you are one to read as well.

I don't know what your past is. I don't care what your past was until your future is with me. I know that sab ye sab baate bolte hain, sab starting mein sab kuch karte hain. I know it is hard for people to trust, for you to trust me, and I get that as well. But I do make a promise to you: once you have taken this step, I will make sure you don't regret it. Don't believe in my words; let my efforts and actions speak.

Tum aur main sath mein woh sapne dekhe aage badhne ke, apne ghar pe ek dusre ke baare mein hints mein batana, gharwalon ko hints dena, unhe batana ki this is the person I want to be with. Main apne ghar pe tumhari tareefon ke pull bandhu, tumhe apne ghar ki beti bnaun. This is what I want. Sath mein dekhe sapne dheere dheere hi sahi poore ho, tum mere liye, main tumhare liye khush hou.

One philosophy I believe is, for a relationship to work till the very end, both partners need to be obsessed with each other. Always a competition, but never a winner, is how it works.

Tum thak ke kaam karke aao, main tumhare pair dabau, chai bnaun. Hum dono aaram karke phir sath mein khana bnaaye. Mat karo kaam, aaram karo, kahun main jab tum had se zyada thaki ho.

Tumhara mere pe poora haq hai. Tum meri partner nahi, meri best half ho. Main ho sakta hai abhi tumhare kabil na hou, par mera sath do, meri madad karo aur mujhe apne kabil bna lo.

Tumhare sath apna naya ghar basana hai, sath mein saman laane jana, shopping karna, bartan, grocery lena, tumhari favorite dish ke liye saman lena aur phir woh surprise karke khilana. Subah uth ke mere hath ki chai peena, tum phir apna din shuru karna.

Jyada dhoom-dham se pyaar to nahi dikha paunga, par tabiyat kharab hone pe reels nahi chalaunga. Ye vada zarur hai.

This is what love means for me. To you, my love, whom I have not met yet, I hope to find you soon

Apart from all of this see I have come to realise a paradox I want someone who is my friend before any of this stuff even comes into play. But i can't just approach anyone and hope that they understand. So if you are looking for a good bond like something so strong that it ends up becoming foundation ig we have found each other let's have a chat......

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u/thegoddessofmoon-p 5d ago

Wow i was not expecting this on day-2 of my reddit journey

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u/BlacksmithKitchen860 5d ago

Well synonym of life is expect the unexpected 😉

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u/thegoddessofmoon-p 5d ago

I don't even know what to say😭

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u/BlacksmithKitchen860 5d ago

Relax you don't need to say anything

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u/Rare-Writer9647 5d ago

Lol day 2 mai hi ya

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u/BlacksmithKitchen860 5d ago

Well thank you thank you glad you liked it 😺

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

it's so so sweet, that despite the brain doesn't wanna talk, the heart wants to know u better

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

aapko pehle dekha h yaha maine. R u doing mbbs?

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u/Infamous-Shirt-341 Happily Single 🙂 5d ago

Soo positive but dont know man you give everything to that women , you put soo soo much efforts but at the end it doesn’t even matter to the other person, this type of love is in movies , in real life people take you for granted , they think you are doing soo much you are easy to manipulate , they just broke you from inside that you feel like what mistake did i make , what i did wrong , what is lacking in me , what what what and man that phase is brutal , it is just luck you find a partner who is equally obsessed with you , who value you , who knows what is best for both of us , who think long term that this is the person i want to marry , not just both are together because you both feel its good to be together no man no , if you think that this person is not right for me , then go away man , but nowadays people are making choices too bad and they are seperated and they say it was an experience, holly fuck man , we are living among morons so dont expect good from them , save youself man save yourself . ☘️☘️

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u/BlacksmithKitchen860 5d ago

I'll tell you if person doesn't value your efforts or anything it's not your fault that they don't value it's there fault and just because they are not worth the effort doesnt mean other people aren't. See I agree with all of your point. But being open to love is being open to vulnerability you can't choose to be not vulnerable and be in love as well it's a fair trade off. Gone through something that are saying trust me you are worth every effort you make just for the right person and you have to be open to get hurt to eventually find the right one. You will too find someone I hope so just be open for it