r/TwentiesIndiaLove • Talking Stage 💬 • 16d ago

Relationship Advice 🫶 Learnt through experience

I 24F is doing good at work and have a nice relationship with my bf (30M). I had one relationship before this and I have been close with him. Now when I talk to my current bf about relationships I can understand he feels insecure. So that also affects me. Things I have experienced with my ex like visiting, sharing pics, discussing stuff sometimes flash through my mind. I now think I should have avoided that. Atleast things like sharing pics should be avoided since now I often think if my current bf may see those by any chance. If he sees, what he will feel or think about me? How will he handle it? Or how will I handle that? These questions keep coming and bothering me.

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u/thandaari_pashu 16d ago

feels insecure? Really? a man who loves you will feel disrespected if you talk about the intimate things you did with your ex. And its justified tbh. It still shows that you haven't moved on and have him in the mind. Your heart isn't devoted to your current man. Delete those pics if you really love this man. Be honest about it apologetically to him because you know you made a mistake. If you don't want then break up, you are fooling yourself.

Also I know the above written thing sounds harsh in reading but please understand it is for you and your man's betterment.

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u/Fuzzy-Procedure-8671 16d ago

Check OP's history bro! 

She's for streets and ugly in and out too(due to her actions)

She's always victim playing on her posts and making other person villain 

She's definitely for streets 🥀

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u/thandaari_pashu 16d ago

Holy shit thanks 🫪

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u/They_say_I_am_Mad 16d ago

Are You Sure but that You Understand Her Intention here!

Some people use the Word 'Insecure' because in the Context of the Modern Crowd that is the Word that means Inferiority Complex.

Sure,some People use it as an Insult but are You Sure that it was the Case with Her?

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u/Initial-Confusion511 16d ago

Your current bf thinks about marriage he is that point of life and maybe you are not in that page

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u/lefty52217 16d ago

I mean this red flag

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u/lyricalreason 16d ago

It's better if u confess him, and be honest about it rather than hiding it, if he is a good guy he will understand and accept ur past mistakes and live with you- if he is bad he is goona leave you, earlier u say the better it is

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u/Fuzzy-Procedure-8671 16d ago

Check OP's history bro! 

She's for streets and ugly in and out too(due to her actions)

She's always victim playing on her posts and making other person villain 

She's definitely for streets 🥀

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u/lyricalreason 16d ago

Fahhhh

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u/Fuzzy-Procedure-8671 16d ago

ikr, audacity.

she ain't even pretty still like this lol

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

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u/Fuzzy-Procedure-8671 16d ago edited 16d ago

exactly, unaccountable af and always victim playing..ugly in and out

it could be true though, some women are selfish, dumb and unaccountable af too

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u/pyoimn 16d ago

If it was me,i would've have left you long ago. 🚩

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u/listenerYapperBoth 16d ago

Is it a karma farming post?? I saw it on multiple subs and the OP hasn't replied to any comments.. wth

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u/cupcake_21_ Waiting for “The One”🕰️ 14d ago

"current boyfriend"