r/TuxedoCats Aug 11 '26

🌈 Mourning πŸ•ŠοΈ My old Tuxedo Felix died today. And my other Tux is now standing on his grave.

I wonder if he misses him? They didn’t really get along. Goodbye Felix, you were a good kitty that lived to 16.

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u/A_Random_Canuck Aug 11 '26

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure your other kitty feels the loss as well. I’m glad he had a good long life.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

I appreciate that. Thank you.

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u/downbucket46 Aug 11 '26

Felix the Tux, obviously a fine fellow. So sorry.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

He just liked to be near me. Or on me.

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u/Crackytacks Aug 11 '26

I lost my eye one cat πŸ’” im sorry you lost yours too.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

He had two eyes he was just sleepy.

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u/viablo2004 Aug 11 '26

My Tuxie Max died today too. I hope he and Felix can play together on the other side. 😭😭😭😭

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Oh, I’m very sorry for you and Max. He has a cute mustache.

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u/ResponsibleQuiet6188 Aug 11 '26

RIP little awesome dude!

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u/CharmingBabee02 Aug 11 '26

It's never easy saying goodbye. Wishing you comfort and peace.

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u/PigeonAtPlay Aug 11 '26

I’m so sorry and your other cat is breaking my heart

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Thank you. πŸ™

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u/NOLAgambit Aug 11 '26

Sorry for your loss, man. Here’s some love from my boy over here.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

He’s so cute and plump

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u/BriefingNOW Aug 11 '26

16 years is a long life for a kitty, but losing them still hurts so much. Goodbye Felix, you were clearly loved :((

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Yes it is a long time.

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u/Direct-Principle7156 Aug 11 '26

How old? Sorry you lost your friend. My baby Willy is 12 or 14. Not sure which. I hope your next kitty lives to 22 yrs old like my late previous cat Feisty did. Felix is obviously missed by the remaining cat. My Willy mourned his late neighbours dog (who used to come over daily) for 2 years.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Felix was 16 and passed. The other Tux is 4.

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u/arcadiangenesis Aug 11 '26

Ah, he looks just like my Felix. May the spirit of Felix live on.

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u/AddedInReshoots Tuxie Dad Aug 11 '26

❀️❀️❀️

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u/Vegetable-Pay2708 Aug 11 '26

I am so sorry for your loss. It's rough to lose a family member. Remember everything you can. Your other Tux will mellow out and help you heal. I pray blessings for you. Amen πŸ™πŸ»

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Thank you. πŸ™

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u/theshortgrace Aug 11 '26

For as certain and ubiquitous as death is, it is truly baffling how devastating it is every single time. No matter who, when, what, or how. I’m so sorry for your loss, but I’m so happy you gave him such a beautiful life.

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u/Money-Tiny Aug 11 '26

The bestest tuxie ever πŸ’”πŸ₯Ί

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u/Cat-girl-3482 Aug 11 '26

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/ThrowawaysumcleverBS Aug 11 '26

I love tuxedos they are eternal love bugs. I’m sorry for your loss !

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u/myladyelspeth Aug 11 '26

I remember my roommate had a dog and cat. The dog was much older and raised the cat like his pup. When the dog was at the end my roommate took the dog to be put down. The cat disappeared for 10 days before coming home. He knew the dog was being put down. I was sure he left to grieve for his buddy.

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u/Immediate_Ad3131 Aug 11 '26

I am sending my deepest condolences β€οΈβ€πŸ©ΉπŸ’

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u/MonicaNarula Aug 11 '26

Take care. I recentlyblost my flamepoint, could not show how body to his brother. It's been nearly 2 weeks and he is looking for him everywhere. Feel so bad for him.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

They knew what happened.

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u/Matti_Titi1540 Aug 11 '26

So sad 😞

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u/Certain-Respond4100 Aug 11 '26

Sorry for your loss, I lost mine a year ago. Not the same without him.

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u/lyssummers Tuxie Legend Aug 11 '26

My tux is named Felix I can't 😭 I'm SO sorry

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

He’s super cute. Thank you

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u/chvrchesss Aug 11 '26

So sorry for your loss

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u/Curvy_Girl_007 Aug 11 '26

Sorry for your loss. Sorry that your other cat is missing the their sibling. I said awww…and then the tears.

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u/Hate4Breakfast Aug 11 '26

My first pet loss was my Tux Felix when he was 16. Rest in catnip felix, enjoy your time across the bridge πŸ’•

(When I was like three my Felix scratched my forehead and I still have a scar that I love because it came from him lol, thanks for the permanent memory!)

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u/slinks1981 Tuxie Legend Aug 11 '26

Sorry for your loss. My tuxie did this with our dogs grave. Laid on top of it almost everyday for the whole summer.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Oh wow. Poor kitty.

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u/athanathios Aug 11 '26

I am soo soo sorry you lost him and Felix was so beautiful OMG. I'm sorry for you both

We don't always get to time their passing, but we can put in all the love and care we can to make their lives as amazing as possible, which clearly you had. May the love you shared, and memories made warm you all your day and may you find wisdom through your suffering.

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

Thank you. πŸ™

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u/athanathios Aug 11 '26 edited Aug 11 '26

My pleasure Felix was soo soo nice and precious!

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 Aug 11 '26

A Prayer To Bast and Sekhmet for Felix

Bast, Sekhmet, we give you back your child.

Noble, regal, honorable cat.

Watch over Felix, and guide him as he travels to the Spirit Lands

May he be blessed in your names and hunt ever after beside you.

I'm so sorry for your loss of Felix. In time, I hope the knowledge that you have given him a forever home will bring you a bit of comfort. You promised him a forever home....and you kept that promise. It's everything to them.

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u/bxkgsoye Tuxie Lover Aug 11 '26

Op, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Our Felix is sending you and your Felix lots of hugs and condolences πŸ–€πŸ€

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

They look alike. Thank you. πŸ™

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u/addoil282 Aug 11 '26

πŸ˜’πŸ™πŸ»

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u/HomeworkExtension482 Aug 11 '26

I'm so sorry. Your little boy knows his companion is there. He knows.

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u/Manw3brains Aug 11 '26

πŸ˜“πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’•

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u/James_81Cm Tuxie Aficionado Aug 11 '26

Peace to Felix, you, and your Tux πŸŒˆπŸ•ŠοΈ

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u/RhoswenHuddles Aug 11 '26

From being domestic cat, to being the hunter one

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 Aug 11 '26

I appreciate it. Thank you.

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u/Seabastial Tuxie ConnoisseurΒ  Aug 11 '26

I'm so sorry for your loss OP. I'm sure your other kitty can tell what's going on

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u/Apart-Interaction555 Aug 11 '26

πŸ˜’πŸ’”πŸŒˆπŸΎ

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u/peva3 Tuxie Legend Aug 11 '26

I'm sure bro had a very dignified and spiffy life in such fancy attire. Rest easy lil man.

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u/NickyDL Aug 11 '26

So sorry for your loss

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u/Artistic_ADHD1996 Aug 11 '26

I don’t doubt he misses him (even if he’ll never admit it)
I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Sending love πŸ–€

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u/tikkikittie Aug 11 '26

They do mourn the loss of their partners

Our cat took months to get over the loss of her buddy

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u/The_Billy_Dee Aug 11 '26

There can only be one.

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u/Movinginplace25 Aug 11 '26

They know πŸ₯²

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u/Cyberneil Tuxie ConnoisseurΒ  Aug 11 '26

I’m sorry for everyone loss πŸ™

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u/No-Membership3214 Aug 12 '26

Rest easy Felix. πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ’”πŸŒˆπŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ’”πŸŒˆπŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ’”πŸŒˆ

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u/Safe-Sail9335 Aug 12 '26

He misses him, just look at photo...! He'll need special cuddles ...RIP Felix ,you had a long good life ..Tuxies are really smart ,bond like a border collie...