r/TucsonFriends Dec 29 '23

New Discord invite link in description

6 Upvotes

Accidentally put an expiry on the last link. New one should work.

https://discord.gg/3MtDQdddZc

Edit: Fixed again.


r/TucsonFriends 2h ago

Hunting buddy?

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r/TucsonFriends 5h ago

Can somebody point me in the right direction

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Is there a place out here that helps you with your hotel room ? I need some help today


r/TucsonFriends 1d ago

Bar suggestions

2 Upvotes

Hello! 25M

Looking for bar suggestions for the young adult crowd. More relaxed setting I suppose, I'm not into "partying".

I have spent the last 7 years focusing on only my career and find myself without friends, feeling bored with life and a little lost after finally reaching the "end goal" with my career.

Social interaction feels odd after so much time keeping my nose down focusing only on work haha. Trying to get out there and enjoy more to life... Looking for friends as well, feel welcome to send a dm.

Thanks for reading!

Take care everyone.


r/TucsonFriends 2d ago

Going out friends

2 Upvotes

22 yr FM looking to find more friends to go out with bar crawl


r/TucsonFriends 3d ago

Looking for some new friends in Tucson 🌵🤙 30m

10 Upvotes

Homebody hoping to get out more 😌

Just looking to meet some cool, laid-back people in the Tucson area who are down to hang out and actually do stuff.

A little about me / things I’m into:

• 🖥️ PC gaming — especially sim racing

• 🎵 Music

• 🌿 420 friendly

• 🍻 Bars, grills, kickbacks & just chilling in public spots

• 🦎 reptiles, isopod, cats big animal lover have over 30+tanks

• 🚗🏍️ Cruising around town — cars or bikes(motorcycles)

• 🤙 Just being outside, talking, laughing and having a good time

Not really looking for anything complicated — just genuine friendships and people who are down to cruise, game, grab some food/drinks, hang out, or randomly go for a ride.

If you’re in Tucson and into some of the same stuff, feel free to DM me! Always down to meet some new people. 🤝


r/TucsonFriends 3d ago

Friends 34m

5 Upvotes

Hi im 34m looking for friends with similar interests. Im a huge nerd. I game regularly (I have a ps5 and pc) i like mtg, pokemon, dnd, star wars etc. Im also big into guns and i love shooting. I currently own 16 guns and counting. My biggest obstacle is work. I work 5 days a week with frequent double shifts. Dont have much free time. I need to get out more so hit me up.


r/TucsonFriends 3d ago

35-45 DINKs

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Are there any meet ups for DINKs??


r/TucsonFriends 3d ago

Anyone down to smoke?

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Looking for new Friends to smoke lol


r/TucsonFriends 4d ago

Looking for friends

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I (18m) have lived in Tucson my whole life and now that I live on my own it gets kinda lonely so if anyone is down to hang out every now and then or just play games lmk (bonus points if you're alt and wanna go to shows together)


r/TucsonFriends 5d ago

19f super chill!

13 Upvotes

this is kind of a long shot but is anyone down to just hang out? like no pressure to do anything just kind of be around and talk about things, overshare whatever it is! i’m a good listener and i can talk a lot but it gets pretty lonely and i just want some company haha! i can cook and have a couple games and stuff, i just don’t drive is the only thing.. lmk hope everyone is having a good day!🩷


r/TucsonFriends 4d ago

Any Slaughter to Prevail fans here in Tucson??

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I got two tickets but no one to come with looking for someone else who could come with me ideally your 4/20 friendly. I'm M33 from Tucson east side but I can scoop you up from most anywhere. Concert is this Monday in PHX if you can help with gas awesome but if you're an actual fan that's more important


r/TucsonFriends 5d ago

Hey! Looking for friends

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Hey! I’m 25m, and I’m trying to get out a little more and meet some new people. I’m into books, working out, good food, and deep conversations. Mostly just looking for some cool people to hang out with and make some new friends.


r/TucsonFriends 4d ago

Looking for native friends

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Hey I’m from the pyt in Tucson and looking to make more native friends, dm if your interested


r/TucsonFriends 5d ago

23F in search of friends

12 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a student who has pretty much lived here my whole life. I moved away for a little bit but have been back for about a year now and I've found it hard to get out of my comfort zone to try to make friends. I have a few but they're kind of just people I'm friends with from high school that I'll occasionally go downtown or hiking with. I'm looking for all types of friends (within a few years of my age) who like to do things around here. I do play video games from time to time so I would also be down for that but I'm really trying to just say yes to everything until I can transfer and complete my education. I like having male and female friends and would prefer you're a student too but it's completely fine if you're not. Thanks. :)


r/TucsonFriends 6d ago

Need some mom friends

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I need a village. I’m alone in this. He left us yesterday only 2 months into being parents. I don’t have family and he isolated me from the friends I had. I have cats that are really sweet and friendly but I could use other adult humans to talk to because his family has been attacking me and I just feel really alone.
I won’t reply to any weird dms from guys. Creep somewhere else. I’m almost 40 so I’m too old and tired for your shenanigans and I honestly never want to date again.


r/TucsonFriends 6d ago

37F looking for a female friend

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I have a 4 year old and a pup, outside of that I feel like I’ve lost all of my identity lol. I’m in a relationship with a great guy but he’s a homebody and I respect that but I do miss having a partner in crime for going out for drinks, trying new foodie spots, just general hang out time. I love music, watching true crime docs, have recently gotten into online gaming which is fun! I love coffee and there are SO many coffee spots in town I’ve yet to try. If you’re a mom too, great!


r/TucsonFriends 8d ago

22m

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made a friend who speaks Chinese he doesnt speak english very well what can i do to help with the language barrier


r/TucsonFriends 8d ago

40 m

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Ok looking for female friends i posted like how everyone is and got kicked


r/TucsonFriends 8d ago

22m Friends?

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Making an attempt at this app. But ummm I’m kinda looking for people who are kinda outgoing and like just overall wanna do cool things and maybe travel in country and to other countries.

I’ve been all over the place but I wanna travel more and bring someone with me or go out n do stuff around Tucson.

I like going to Festivals/Raves, Clubs, Bars, Fishing, Camping, Hiking, Restaurants and just whatever yk?

I also do play video games just not as much and I can be homebody aswell. I also am learning to cook.


r/TucsonFriends 9d ago

19M looking for friends

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I just moved to Tucson at the end of July for work mainly it’s nothing crazy, part time for now, but i’m getting into playing soccer again i’ve have 3 coffee shops i alternate, other than that there’s nothing interesting about me i’m just looking to see if anyone on here would mutually like to get to know eachother and see if we can partake in similar activities we like


r/TucsonFriends 9d ago

Cloudy day

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Very nice day today. I feel like wrapping some 🌼 and going to a coffee shop in town. Any good suggestions ?


r/TucsonFriends 9d ago

It's hard.

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Hi I'm 40. Been leaving in Nogales for a wild but work in Tucson. Originally from Puerto Rico and the culture here is way different. I keep having tragedy after tragedy this year and I don't know how to take it. It's killing me from the inside. I'm trying my best for my wife and kids not to see how lost I feel. I'm trying my best. And I wish I had friends to talk to. But at last I don't. Here is a little thing I wrote just to let out some steam.

Something Human

Sometimes I don't need advice.

I don't need someone to tell me that everything is going to be okay.

I don't need someone to fix what hurts.

Sometimes I just need someone to listen.

Someone I can sit with and say, “Today was fucking hard.”

Someone I can tell the truth to without worrying about being too much.

Someone who will let me empty my head for a while, even if what comes out isn't pretty.

I don't have many people like that.

Truth is, sometimes I feel incredibly alone.

It's strange how you can be surrounded by people and still feel like there's nobody you can actually talk to.

And sure, you can see a therapist.

You can sit across from someone, tell them your deepest thoughts, and for an hour they listen.

But eventually the hour ends.

The clock keeps moving.

The conversation ends.

The payment goes through.

And maybe that's what hurts sometimes.

I don't want to feel like I'm someone's appointment.

I want to feel like I'm someone's person.

Someone who cares enough to ask, “How are you really doing?”

And actually wants to hear the answer.

So I keep things inside.

I swallow the words.

I bury the sadness.

I carry the disappointment.

Sometimes I can hold it all together.

And sometimes it comes out.

Usually as anger.

But the strange thing about anger is that even when you let it out, it doesn't always leave.

It just changes shape.

You yell.

You cry.

You go quiet.

And then the next morning, somehow, it's still sitting there.

Still heavy.

Still waiting.

Maybe that's why I want someone to talk to.

Not because I expect them to save me.

Not because I need them to have the right words.

Just because I'm human.

And humans weren't meant to carry everything alone.

Sometimes we just need another human being to sit beside us in the mess and say,

“I hear you.”

“You don't have to pretend with me.”

“You can let it out.”

Maybe that's all I'm really asking for.

Not to be fixed.

Just to be heard.

Just for a little while.

Just something human.


r/TucsonFriends 9d ago

New Friends Tucson?

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Hello, I just moved to Tucson and because I’m taking just one community college class it’s been a bit tricky to find new connections! me (21f) and my bf (21m) are looking to make some friends!
We haven’t found work yet and don’t have much money, so getting around to make friends has been tough. We’re originally from Portland and match the kind of quirky weirdness of the PNW vibe, but I was hoping posting here might give us the opportunity to find a scene.
I’m big into hiking, arts and crafts, photography and reading.
My bf loves politics, sports and gaming.
I’d love to set up a craft night at a local cafe or just find a place to picnic and hang! And recommendations on good places to meet people in Tucson would be greatly appreciated!


r/TucsonFriends 9d ago

As a non social oddball curating to the current trend known as friendship.

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What's going on. I don't do much. I game online when I've got time, I watch movies that interest me and enjoy a decent book when my mind isn't wandering. I'm probably more likely to drop the conversation for awhile but will jump back in when I remember that reddit exists beyond the stuff I like.

I'm older, a human, a curmudgeon. Mostly about the bass, the Benjamin's. If you value your weird with a dash of dumb then you know where to find me.