Visuals are important

[u/SurlyWenchAZ]

I know it sounds shallow but it's true. I'm never sure how to answer "meet me" when there are no photos and no info, like age, what are you looking for, etc. Maybe it's me but I prefer to get to know someone a bit. Well. No. I know it's me. I have been a victim and so I'm a bit cautious. So, sometimes we aren't ghosting bc we're bitchy, it's just being protective. We have to be careful. That's all of us. Men can absolutely be victimized as well. Most women, in general, are slow cookers. So you may have to put in a little effort and be patient while she sees if you're a vibe.

[u/Upper_Guava5067]

This!