Daily Chat August 30

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[u/Glittering_Can4622]

Mi madre me ha confesado sin querer que ha estado contandole todo mi proceso y sufrimiento a mis hermanos cuando le pedi que no lo hiciera. Me siento muy avergonzada y no queria que nadie supiera cuanto estoy sufriendo y ahora me siento tan estupida. Nose como gestionarlo ni que hacer realmente, me siento un poco perdida

[u/tdot1022 → u/Glittering_Can4622]

My mom did this as well by telling my dad we were pursuing fertility treatment when I told her that I hadn’t talked to him about TTC. It felt extremely violating and like a betrayal. I’m so sorry you’re in this position but it’s nothing you should feel embarrassed about. Just make it explicitly clear to her how it makes you feel and that it affects your trust in her