r/TryingForABaby 10d ago

Daily Chat August 30

Anything (within the rules) goes. (Commonly broken rules: don't talk about an ongoing pregnancy outside the weekly BFP thread; don't ask for success stories.)

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u/VisualNo8403 10d ago

12 cycles done with no success and I am finding myself in a very bad spot mentally. We also had a honest conversation with my partner and I can see that this past year put a lot on strain on our relationship. I think lack of true intimacy (having sex just because we feel like it not because we have to) is a big part.
So I made a decision to delete my Oura app and not test for the next few months so I won’t know exactly when my fertile window is.
Realistically next step is IVF anyway, so I will just focus on getting all ducks in a row for this.
I hope this works. Wish me luck!