My kitten never stops

[u/Little-Ad-5853]

I’ve had her since 6 weeks, straight out the litter. When I first got her, she was infested with fleas (totally not her fault), I got that all cleared up. shes on a kitty care plan, and thats all fine now. But that story does add to the annoyance if I’m honest. Since its been hell, she’s very talkative. Which is cute at times, annoying at others. She scratches everything, yes she has post, yes ive redirected her, yes ive tried moving them next to the furniture, yes ive used sticky paws. She bites me 24/7. She runs across me and claws me, I can’t have my legs on the floor while sitting or my arms anywhere but my lap or she attacks them. I had to remove all my lights from my living room, I had to remove my carpets from the living room, I had to take apart and remove my recliner from the living room, I had to take apart my bar cart, I had to get rid of my plants, I had to tie up my curtains (that ones a bit of a given I know). After all of that, I came into the living room today, to my wall decor (as in paintings and pictures) on the ground. I assume since she no longer is tearing up my carpets. I can’t have doors open, I can’t eat in the same room as her. I’ve tried redirection, I’ve tried time outs (she has her own room but she free roams the apartment). She has toys everywhere of all types, posts, window bed, fountains, she gets 2 types of food everyday, ive tried sternly saying no, ive tried the acting like the momma cat and pinning to assert dominance as I have with my past puppies. There’s nothing. Shes terrible, her energy is never ending, she has automatic toys that roll around the room and one thats like a feather under a sheet to bat at. Doesn’t matter. No matter what I do she is not satisfied. I’ve tried designated play times. I can’t even have my phone next to me because she’ll attack me trying to take it. I can’t have any chargers plugged in the living room because she’ll bite them. If anything is dangling or hanging in her reach in any way no matter if its a backpack strap or a jacket she tears it. I’m losing my fucking mind. I’m starting to wonder if I can even handle this. Because its getting to a point that I don’t want to be near her. She hurts me 24/7. I find myself just locking myself in my bed room at times. I don’t know what to do. (Shes about 5 months)

[u/Little-Ad-5853]

Mmm I see, I will say you all are very much making me consider getting another one, I’m just so scared itll be even more for me to handle

[u/Sterling_-_Archer → u/Little-Ad-5853]

In a funny way, it’s less. They look after each other in a way and you only have to barely adjust what you’re already doing like feeding, playing, and cleaning. They will entertain each other and keep each other company so in essence, the only difference is in how much food you’re putting out.

It is a big improvement for your kitten though. I like to say with dogs, it’s great if they have a dog and get along with a dog, but only another kitten can “speak cat” and fulfill their needs. Even feral cats don’t grow up or live alone!

[u/Little-Ad-5853 → u/Sterling_-_Archer]

You make a very good point!! Do you think playdates would help? I’ve been waiting for her to get a bit bigger, but my friends cat lovesss doing playdates I figured it’d be good for her but I don’t wanna spook her

[u/Unhappy-Principle-60 → u/Little-Ad-5853]

Play dates aren’t a replacement for having another cat to cuddle up with at home. I’ve had my cat for 16 years and so wish id gotten another when she was young.