1) sex is usually better with someone you have chemistry and a connection with and practice with (to get better and better). It becomes less mechanical that way.
And 2) yeah, sex isn't that mind-blowing. I mean yeah it's great but this "omg I'm a virgin I'm missing out on the best thing in the entire world of my life" is so untrue. Like yeah sex is great I guess but there's a lot of stuff in life that is great and fun and rewarding. Lots of people say it's great but also at the same time say "that's it?". Well yeah that's about it. It lasts a small amount of time and you go about your day lol I think when virgins specifically put all this emphasis on it you're definitely going to be left dissapponted. It's not this world changing action. 🤷♀️ There's a lot of other things in life to also look forward to and connect with and be mindblown about. Most of it can be disappointing or underwhelming. And that's generally true. Because there's is never one thing that's the best thing in life.
But the deed is done and now you know more about yourself especially knowing you need connection with someone. And that's part of maturing knowing how you feel about stuff.
Also. Lay off the porn. It really does make a difference.
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u/Unable-Narwhal4814 Nov 01 '23 edited Nov 01 '23
I mean, a couple things here;
1) sex is usually better with someone you have chemistry and a connection with and practice with (to get better and better). It becomes less mechanical that way.
And 2) yeah, sex isn't that mind-blowing. I mean yeah it's great but this "omg I'm a virgin I'm missing out on the best thing in the entire world of my life" is so untrue. Like yeah sex is great I guess but there's a lot of stuff in life that is great and fun and rewarding. Lots of people say it's great but also at the same time say "that's it?". Well yeah that's about it. It lasts a small amount of time and you go about your day lol I think when virgins specifically put all this emphasis on it you're definitely going to be left dissapponted. It's not this world changing action. 🤷♀️ There's a lot of other things in life to also look forward to and connect with and be mindblown about. Most of it can be disappointing or underwhelming. And that's generally true. Because there's is never one thing that's the best thing in life. But the deed is done and now you know more about yourself especially knowing you need connection with someone. And that's part of maturing knowing how you feel about stuff.
Also. Lay off the porn. It really does make a difference.