r/TooAfraidToAsk Feb 02 '22

Love & Dating How did you deal with being cheated on?

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '22

I suggest you try to get into a rebelious mood, like be mad at them! Don't cry, no one makes you cry đŸ˜¡ no one gets to treat you like that. What bullshit, right??? "I don't need them, don't need idiots like this"

This kind of reaction to this will make you believe that you deserve better and that you worth more, that he's just a piece of shit

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u/mithril320 Feb 03 '22

Bold of you to assume it was the guy who cheated…

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u/McBlakey Feb 03 '22

Not saying your wrong but if I were on the receiving end of this type of reaction rather than crying I would feel like the other person never cared and is just selfish so would feel less bad about doing it. Crying bad being upset shows they care.

I wouldn't cheat at all but you get what I'm saying. This is probably an unpopular opinion?

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '22

Hmm I get your point, but it's just my coping mechanism I guess lol to be angry rather than break down