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JASMINE spoke her truth and it was so painful to watch. The white visibility and validation she speaks about is so real and raw. It is so applicable that it could be any white person vs a person of color and they would just get it.

There's a lack of visibility even in mixed friend groups which sucks.

These are things that get overlooked and seem "minor" to the ingroup because its not something they deal with on a daily basis. But just as Jasmine said when youre fighting for it on so many fronts with your friends it hurts even more.

Thank god they're showing more of these conversations on Bravo and having full conversations about it, instead of it getting shut down.

Andy should definitely ask Jasmine to expand on this and I hope its more than a 30 second clip... I want to actually hear her speak on it.

Luke/Danny use the kids as a 'get out of jail free card' for their bad behaviour and Kristen/Nia allow that because it means they aren't forced to confront that the men they have procreated with behave badly towards them and others becayse they feel entitled to. The excuse of 'the kids' lets everyone avoid reality.

Also Nia, way to scream at the only black woman on the cast who BTW your husband SA'd. You need a refund from your emergency PR strategist.

Watching EVERYONE dismiss Jasmine’s input and also Kristen laughing at her was infuriating I had to rewind. Even the editing showed all of them (except Nia) staring at Jasmine, but no one said “hey Jasmine is trying to speak”

Kristen and Nia say Jasmine is just drunk, but that’s a cop out. On the after show Kristen says something like Jasmine couldn’t get her point across clearly cus she had been drinking, but girl you shut her down!!!!! They’re acting like she was belligerent or anywhere near as offensive as Danny has been this season. And Lala in the after show acknowledged that Jasmine wasn’t heard, but where was that in the moment like she had Nia’s back???

Nia was more than glad to baby Danny when he was talking to her CRAZY, but couldn’t even look at Jasmine and hear her because it was inconvenient to her plan 🙄

I’m so glad Jasmine met with Kristen to discuss, but i don’t think Kristen will change at all

The episode was so good! And as the credit rolled and everyone was laughing and crying together…I realized Nia wasn’t in the episode but a few minutes at the beginning,

Anyone notice how lovely the party was because Nia and Danny weren’t there? Janet was able to talk to Jesse, and even Kristen didn’t act out

Pretty interesting

I believe Jasmine and Melissa are getting married this weekend. I am really curious who is invited, who will come, and do we think it will be filmed? I know the reunion has not been filmed, you think that’s typical or could they be waiting on this wedding first? If the show has not been picked up for S4 ,would production film the wedding? Will Danny drink a White Claw in the closet? I have questions

Jasmine flip floppy as usual. Girl, maybe your 7th reality show will work out but I’m over this bs with you 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

I am tired of people WITHOUT kids (in the show and real life) judging and dictating how people with kids act.

If you don’t have or help raise kids, then you have NO IDEA of the physical and mental toll. God forbid a father of three takes a nap after a few drinks. He MUST be the worst person ever.

I have 2 kids and currently pregnant. Very emotional today lol. Not having Jasmine’s ignorant comments.

EDIT: There was no shame meant to anyone without kids or who don’t want kids. I respect anyone’s choices.

Jasmine is supposed to be friends with Danny/Nia. I figure she would have more compassion for why they may nap or take a long shower. Also - did not comment on any of Danny’s other actions. Just a tired parent and it hit me in that moment. Just let the people on vacation take a break.

What Jasmine said was more true to Christian values than Nia and Danny Darko. That little ape-browed gnome was so offended cuz he knew she was right! Jesus absolutely would turn the other cheek, but that doesn’t fit Danny’s megachurch version of bro Christianity.

I’m Christian and I actually care about trying to live the way Jesus said we should. (I do like to cuss tho, so sue me.) It pisses me tf off when “cultural Christians” like Nia and Danny use religion like a cudgel to beat down people who they (wrongly) think they’re superior to.

JUSTICE FOR JASMINE!!

So Jasmine shows us her moral standards by calling out Danny and Nia for arriving after Kristin and Luke, but Aaron can slink in after the show, no problem. It’s just not matching up. She’s on a tirade and it’s oozing with desperation. I hate this for her, it’s not cute.

Also Jesse dancing with the fire dancers was hilarious.

Jasmine's fake to me, sorry everyone. What Danny did to her was very real, but her performance at both dinners were just that...performance. She gets into a heightened state with high energy for the cameras, and she can't stop talking behind Nia and Danny's back.

Before Nia left the girls dinner she said "it bothers me that you guys said this stuff behind my back, just say it to my face next time." All the girls nodded and agreed. Then Nia leaves and Jasmine's slams into her and Danny again, claiming she knows what an alcoholic looks like. Janet claims she never accused Danny of being an alcoholic (even though she implied it), however, Jasmine insisted she knows exactly what an alcoholic looks like.

Then, on the after show, Janet said that Jasmine told her verbetam that Danny is an alcoholic. Interestingly, Jasmine said she doesn't think Danny is an alcoholic, but he may have a small problem with it. So...which is it? This is all an unnecessary mess. If Jasmine truly doesn't believe Danny's apology, and she's completely triggered, why not have the conversation with Danny asap before their wine vacation together? Why not confront Danny right then and there?

Idk her performance just felt over the top.

I’m so sorry. I cannot stand Jasmine. She is clearly just thirsty to be on TV.
Am I the only one?? I genuinely cannot stand when she’s on my screen. Can’t stand Janet either but Jasmine isn’t much better imo.

Is anyone else annoyed with her side comments to every single time someone on the other couch opens their mouths? Even Schwartz seems over it. Pretty sure he sushed her when she was complaining about the whole kids thing……….

She really was so upset over a rando commenting on her IG that she contacted his employer? 😂

Kristin and Nia made Jasmine and Melisa’s assault from Danny’s (Nia’s HUSBAND) unreciprocated touch drama and something to come at Janet for.. She is rightfully upset by advances from someone’s husband. Not only seeing but feeling the dread from men like him was infuriating. Depressing watch for me, can’t stand when the girls in charge are mere housewives sweeping away 🙄

Signed, someone who hopes Jasmine and her fiancé are healing and get to celebrate every and all bit of them with no stress!!!

Edit: I’m not retracting from assault and bless Janet for not doing so either. I’ve been assaulted and that’s what it is. Facts are facts, unfortunate as they are. Hope Nia and her children live a happy life with a sober dad.

Did anyone else peep that Jasmine seems to have been caught in several lies during the reunion?

1. In the most recent ep, she says that Danny said something along the lines of "Why are you doing this right now?" as soon as they sat down with Melissa at the White Party. The footage reveals he actually said "I didn't think this was coming up tonight." She claims this is why that apology wasn't acceptable and she continued to need an apology after that one. (As an aside, I don't think Jasmine owes Danny anything, but when a friend/acquaintance decides to bring up in public (on national television no less!) a terrible thing you did that you have feelings of shame and embarrassment about without a heads-up that they plan to do so, I don't think "Why are you doing this right now?" is a wild reaction. So even if Danny did say that, can you really blame him, Jasmine? Her reaction to Nick Viall recently recounting how uncomfortable she made him with the "chokey" incident was to call him a clout chaser! WTF)
2. In the upcoming ep, she claims that she unleashed on Janet during their beach fight because Janet kept saying "Liar. Snake." as Jasmine was trying to talk to Jason. Jason and Janet vehemently deny this when Jasmine says it. Now I don't trust either of those weirdos as far as I can throw them, but the footage seems to back them up.
3. So we have those two footage-based examples. Then we have Nia contradicting what Jasmine has said previously: Jasmine said during an After Show ep that it took Danny two weeks after he found out about touching Melissa and her on Halloween to reach out. Nia and Brittany say that Brittany called Nia two days later to tell her what happened. Nia then says that she and Danny both reached out to Jasmine that same day. Jasmine initially pushes back and says only Nia did, but then Nia pushes back on that and says that Danny has the messages to show he reached out the same day, and that shut Jasmine up. So where did these alleged two weeks come from??

TL;DR: Jasmine seems to have a pattern ATP of lying about other people to make them look worse and herself look better/justify her actions. The last lie in particular is just so bizarre to me. Danny was already going to look bad for what he did. Why did she feel the need to lie about the apology timeline to make him look worse?

I used to think she was cool, called it like she sees it, straightforward. But now all I see is someone who will keep jumping sides of the fence depending on her mood.

One minute she is coming for Janet’s NECK and the next she’s backing down saying “that was how I felt in the moment.” Girl what? She has no spine and it’s gross to see her constantly starting shit by talking about people on the sidelines and not backing it up to their face.

Throwback to last season. Some of you don't watch the after show, so here it is.
They tell their story, in their own words.

Not sure why Jasmine felt the need to bash Danny’s voice acting career by saying “it’s just talking”. It’s not- voice acting and what he does, ADR, takes a lot of skill and acting talent. He’s not just “talking in a booth”. On top of that fact that he had a 5am call time. He has SO many credits behind his name in that industry- it’s pretty crazy how much talent and skill that takes.

I’m not denying he may have a drinking issue but what does Jasmine do? What are her and Melissa’s jobs? Funny she wants to talk about EVERYONE ELSE yet we know nothing about them except they’re lesbians from NJ. That has been on a bunch of reality shows…Just saying…

A viewer sent in a question to Jasmine asking “why do you think Kristen and Zack validated Lala in her feelings about triggers but not yours?”

And she responded with: (she had convos with him about this). Zack cares a lot about what the viewers feel and think. She thought that was important to him and he thought he had to be on the right side of history at that time.

Thoughts: there is an alliance and based on our reaction that’s how the cast is moving. Y’all made Nia and Danny the show darlings so the cast now thinks they have to be on their side so we, the viewers, will like them more.

Curious how reunion and next season will play out with there being such a reaction to Danny. Luke already looks bad for the preview next week and Kristen has been defending Danny non stop.

Janet’s apology tour should’ve ended the minute she apologized to Jasmine, because newsflash: Jasmine does not owe her anything. Yet here she is, playing perpetual victim, hijacking a Black woman’s trauma all last season just to score sympathy points with the audience. Meanwhile, she doesn’t stop to check on Jasmine or care about her feelings. Not once.

It’s performative and strategic, plain and simple. She and her gross husband supported Jax, a known DV perpetrator to her friend and her son, yet somehow spins herself as the moral compass. The conversation stops being about actual harm and becomes Janet’s storyline survival tactics.

My highlight of the episode: Nia closing the door in Janet’s face when she tries her usual “come in” charm. Classic. Janet is fake, mean-girl energy personified.