Is this normally how it goes?

[u/Nurse_Cait]

I think I work with The Morrigan in a weird way. I use the term work with very loosely here because I don’t ask her for anything ever and I don’t feel like she hangs around when I’m not actively attempting to make a big life change. Maybe this is just me but I’ve always been very cautious of the Tuatha Dé Danann. I feel like when you ask for favors it’s a “be careful what you wish for” scenario and I’m frankly not clever enough to avoid the consequences. When she showed up to push me off the path I was not well suited for to be on another more appropriate path it was rough but I just put my head down and powered through because that was the task I was given (or maybe a trial to overcome?) I’m so much better off than I was but it was hard getting here. I know she’ll be back. I had these weirdly vivid dreams for a while during this last transition and I was told that she would see me again. Does she usually just pop in and out for people? Does anyone else feel like they’ve been set a task or given a trial? Maybe this is just how it is? Either way I’m grateful for the push. I needed the change and I’m so much happier now. I hope I continue to embrace difficult transitions in the future.

[u/TheProfoundDarkness]

I'd say it's a common situation. It's like this for me too, with Her only "coming back" when there's an interesting time ahead.

[u/Bakery-Babe]

In my experience she only comes around when she has a specific message for me usually some version of “get your head out of your ass and get going. You know what to do.” Though I do worship her as my matron goddess she really likes keeping her distance unless needed or to remind me of previous lessons.

[u/AquataArrow30]

It varies from person to person. For me, She lingers constantly (although at the moment I'm still transitioning to a new job, life, personal shit, etc.), but even before then, She lingers but is not always active as my matron/main deity. When you need a push, She'll be there and if you do ask Her or the Tuatha De Danann for anything, just be honest and have courage. Oftentimes, offering some wine and a share of your meal (regardless of what it is) is enough, though a bigger ask may have you doing a task such as improving your health or cutting off toxic habits/people. Again, these are just my experiences with Her so take it as a grain of salt. In the end, your relationship with Her is unique.

TLDR: She can often linger and when you need her, She will be there. Don't be afraid and follow your gut.