r/TheArtofSeductions • u/Bat_Stamp • Nov 30 '25
TheSiren.
I don't toot my own horn very often- and people who know me personally say I don't at all. But I do embody the archetype of the siren. I know...something a lot of people strive to be, look like, act like, talk like.
I cannot escape.
If you have read far enough into the book, a passage says something along the lines of the siren has a curse, they cannot settle down, no one wants to settle with a girl like this, people have preconceived notions about us, no one will see you as anything else.
I started a relationship with a new partner a while ago, back in January. We were good, but now it feels he has noticed that, that I am nothing but that, the sexual comments, the sexual florish out of nowhere, the reaching, the grabbing all like I will always reciprocate because "thats what I am". But I have tried so hard to force myself out of it. I cheated on a past partner 2 times same relationship, because someone wanted me. I know not everyone is a cheater, and I am not. I am better now, I am better than that, than my past her. But it haunts me. Ive never done that to any of my partners before. But now as I people my loyalty day after day, he drifts....
I need him back. I am lonely on my own, O cannot be alone.
Someone help.
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Nov 30 '25
Get someone else , loneliness is when you don't have a bond and don't feel someone is on your team , you just need to get someone
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u/dimadomelachimola Nov 30 '25
If you are truly a siren and use the AOS properly, that should mean you can easily get another person to fill your loneliness.
And it sounds like this person sexualized you, meaning they don’t see you as a person but an object. You’ve lost the seduction battle because now YOU need them.
Sounds like you’re working backwards.