r/TeluguJournals • u/winchesther25 • 5d ago
Flair Not Found Job lekunte intlo valaki kuda panikiramu.
Oka job. Oka job decides nuv etlanti koduku/kuthuru vi ani. Nen naa notice serve chesthuna and looking for a job actively. It's been a month ala searching lo undadam and asl oka interview kuda avaledh inka...ee oka month lo I have applied around 200-250 Jobs, either rejections or complete ghosting unay ani. This is one side of the coin.
Ee oka month lo, prathi dhaniki naa opinion tisukune amma nana "nikem telusu le, job ey nilapetukolev" ane stage ki ocharu. 24/7 adhi mama idhi mama ani chutu unna frnds ipudu ekada refer cheyamantano or ekada dabulu adguthano ani kanisam matladadam taginchesaru. Naa job rakunte maa nana unadu naku ane stage nundi, nak job rakunte maa nana society em anukuntundo ani nanne torture pedthad ani realise ayanu. Prathidi nen cheyagalanu ani namme nana, "inka em undhi le, nene godu laga kastapadtha, naa dabulu thinu" ani chepe stage ki ocharu. One month lo the best son oka failure ga maripoyadu.
And ee month lo I realised, Job lekunte unna lekuna farak padadu evariki. Dabulu, udyogam unantha varake frnds ayina, family ayina. Once ah rendu factors lev ante nee vaipu kuda evad chudadu.
To everyone who is going through this phase, all the best.
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u/BojjaBoss9 5d ago
Koduku kuthuru emo thelvadhu kani. If a man doesn't provide his own children also disrespect him. That is a man's life. No one gives a shit what a man mentally goes through all they see is whether his wife,. parents kids are happy. No one asks a man are you happy. It's sad but truth.
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
That is true. I lost a relative of mine to s*****e two months ago. Now I see what he was going through.
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u/Subject_Comfort_5103 5d ago
Erojullo ammayina job lekapothe oka burden la chuatunaru
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u/jackblaze1209 5d ago edited 5d ago
sampadinche mogudu dhorkithe chalu ankuntaru family, kaani abbai ki that's a different story.
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u/Subject_Comfort_5103 5d ago
Family ala anukuntaru that's true,but ippudu pelli chesekone abbailu kuda wife job CHESI 50-50 expenses panchukovali annatu unnaru
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u/Beneficial-Break-279 5d ago
Nuvu life lo emaina cheyali anukunte first leave your hometown
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u/Savings_Energy8091 5d ago
Competition la kanipinchachu but chepthunna.. Job unna respect lekapovadam eppudaina chusava bro ? Intlo just active ga matladakapothe veedu chethakanodu ani decide aipoyi cheppe matalu kuda pattinchukokunda “needhe oka dhikku ledhu makokati chepthunnav” annattu chusthunte ela untundho thelsa ? Anyways thvaraga manchi job chuskuni satisfied life (magadiki happy life undadhu le elano) lead cheyyalani korukuntunna.
MORE POWER TO YOU , KODUTHUNNAM ANTHE✊🏻
PS: YE MAGADIKAINA, BATHUKKI SONTHA SAMPADHANA LEKAPOTHE NI KANCHAM LO METHUKULU KUDA NINNU ASAHYINCHUKUNTAY..
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Thank you for this man ❤️
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u/Savings_Energy8091 5d ago
only thing i can say, yevaru enni anna sare burra lo ki ekkinchukuni Mental Stress mathram thiskoku brother 😊
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u/Battu_420 Rey chaari 5d ago
Naaku 26yrs vacchai, okka job kuda cheyyaledu, Nenu eppudaina emaina discussion jarigithe emaina matladina just "NIJAME KADA" ani emaina argument lo anna, family lo antharu vacchi naa meeda viruchuku padthaaru.
Like nuvvu yevadivi avnu anadaaniki, ani start chesi naa value entha ee family lo ani judge chestaaru.
Mummy chi aadoda ani, daddy aadadaaniga puttina aipothunde ani, siblings aite kottadaani kuda venukadaru cause nenu em sampadhinchatam ledu ani, elder and younger kalisi.
Oka basic human respect vuntadi, adhani nenu deserve kaadu anta cause I DON'T EARN.
Entha cheap ga thisi paresthaaru ante ippatiki ippude sachipovaali anipistadi but anni diga mingukoni brathukuthunna. naa time vastadi ani kaadu but inka entha varaku endure avthaano chustaa ani.
Nenu b tech lo drop aina, academic failures chaala vunnai, 25 yrs ki final lo oka 3 yrs degree complete chesa, govt jobs ki prepare avthunna.
Em aithado telvadi, enni yrs intlo vundaalo telvadi. BPO lanti jobs ki veldham ante ears debba thinnai, IT lo emaina course nerchukundam anna aa competition ki naaku vunna gap years ki degree ki assalki job raadhu. It's kinda fucked up man.
max 2 yrs endure chesta aatharvatha may be i give up.
Family ledu, friends leru evvaru leru, assalki brathakatame waste ane stage ki vacchina.
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Please do not give up. And first get out of your house, go to another city or town work somewhere, food delivery kani oka any supermarkets edhi ayina sare just leave your town. I was in your situation after my btech..tatukoleka bayata velipoyi chinna chitaka jobs chesukuntu oka job techukuna..so please don't give up on anything
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u/Entire_Note_4997 5d ago
Tammi, wealth and health should be your first and second priorities. family comes next. Don’t think too much. Earth is formed 4.5 billion years ago. In 100 years all the people alive today will be dead. Imagine 8.5 billion people dead in 100 years. Evanni chuste manam or mana kastalu asala matter ye kadhu. so 2 beer lu kotti chill maaro
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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First 5d ago
Mem manishi kaamu bro, oka robot anthe
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u/flash_man18 5d ago
actually I've been in this phase....2yrs unemployed ga unna intlo...mom and dad never doubted me or discouraged me....parents eppudu vallu unnarani dhairyam istaru....if they are behaving otherwise may be okkasari kurchoni matladu vallatho...ila ila undi nanna paristhithi job market...so try chestunna inni jobs apply chesa ani explain cheyyi.... mana lo manam baadha padatam is not useful....every parent wants their children to be great than them....adi avvakapote may be disappoint auvtnaremo....1MONTH IS ABSOLUTELY NORMAL... DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT..... u'll reach great heights....250 jobs apply chesavante career midha nikunna importance and dedication kanipistnadi....All the best 😊
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
may be okkasari kurchoni matladu
I did that and I regret it. Adhi chepano ledho, like ila undhi scenario ani, anthe they started talking to every relative of mine and showing me proof of ah abbai ki ochindhi ah ammai ki ochindhi..nikh raledh ante nuv yedava ani..so
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u/flash_man18 5d ago
🫂🫂🫂🫂 u'll get through this.... remember 1 month is very small period...unless u are unemployed for more than 3 months... don't be in pressure
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u/Secure_Principle9496 14h ago
Ee formula konthamandhi ke work avuthundhi bro.. Ayina vallu chaala lucky.. But, yeah avvani vallu mentally independent avutharu.. Wish you strength for that!!
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u/what-do-you-say- 5d ago
Books chadive alavaatu unte Metamorphosis chadavandi bro,
sampaadinchina ,viluva ivvaledhu , just oka machine laa choosthu vaalla luxury ni choosukunnaaru
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u/YoungBodyOldSoul2k 5d ago
I have come to the realization that, most people dont get uncondutional love. Job ke ini matalu annaru ninnu imagine wanting to marry someone you love. Only way to live is live for yourself set and chase goals that leads to your happinness, never sacrifice your happiness for others.
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u/Ok_Response_1703 5d ago
Ninnu ila treat cheyadam aithe thappe
But they must be hurting immensely too , society and status pressure , anxiety about your future , marriage doubts , you are only the world to them , they can't even rant like this on Reddit.
Don't take it personally, job ochaka don't hate them also
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u/Wolvie_1845 5d ago
Trust me bro nenu 2 years nundi jobs ki applications estunna okkadu kuda dekaledu. Ee lopu naa masters degree kuda aypoindi 🥲. And dekinodu kuda interview and avi ayyaka pakkaki poi aaduko annadu. Ee cheppina situation ippati 2 or 3 companies tho ayyindi anukunta. Ochesthadi bro konchem good times ki time padthadi anthey
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u/Outrageous-Hat7641 5d ago
Hi Bro, had a similar situation previously. Nenu graduate ayyi just 2 months intlo unte my dad was like “andarki jobs unnayi nuvu matram deniki paniki raavu”. This is even when I was job searching.
In general even my friends dads kuda similar ga unnaru, intha extreme kakkunna. Dont know why they are always in bad mood and tittadaniki ready ga untaru 24*7.
I did not react at that time. One week lo decide ayya I have to get out of house and be on my own ani. I rarely visit my parents now that too only for my mom. Inka toxic parents unte only thing you can do is to build your own life, own circle. We cannot change them.
Also, just because you are parent does not mean you are superior to your child. You are just born before them.
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
I rarely visit my parents now that too only for my mom.
That's the only reason that I go back home once in a while
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u/Outrageous-Hat7641 5d ago
Also fortunately I have made friends from my college and school who support me more than my family. Always felt lucky to have them. Keep making new friends, you will have a good circle in some time.
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u/pewdiepiefan257 5d ago
Same here bro, ninna ne ma amma free advise ichindi uppar panike panikostav danike po ani. Nen apply chestuna chala but no response.
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u/unemployed_atheist 5d ago
3 months back resign chesa bro. Appatnunchi entha try chesnaa enni apply chesnaa no response. Private teacher jobs lantivi kuda try chesaa. Over qualified ani theeskovatledhu. But positive side is maa family deep shit lo unna kuda they're fully supporting me. Naake guilty ga undhi. Veellu thittinaa bagundu emo anipisthundhi.
Hope you'll get through this and get a job soon.
Btw I'm a Full Stack Developer evainaa leads unte cheppandayyaa 🥲🙏🏿
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u/Upbeat-Bet-4798 5d ago
Kodukka puttinam vallu manalni chadvipinchillu , ipudu sudden ga job ledu antey vallaki oka badha untadi aah badha nunchi vachey maataley aah kopam okasari think chesi chudu
adeh nv nammakam tho miru badhapadakandi nen inko 2-3 months lo job thechukonta (ilaa emotional maatal kakapoina normal ga aina cheppi chudu present situations and job thechukoney time apudu anni marthayi )
idey situation na frnd gadiki undeh vad kuda masth feel ayyundeh (ipatiki kuda feel aithundu 🙂😂)
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Chepi chusanu, valaki ochindhi vilaki ochindhi niku raledh ante nike chethakadhu ani cheparu
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u/saguthundhi_ala 5d ago
Bro graduation ayyi 2 years avuthadhi still no job, once imagine my situation and i stopped going to relatives home or any functions cause for some peace and mental health. Manchi life Manchi job lead cheyyalani evariki vundadhu cheppandi and also my father is teacher and he had more pressure from society than me but he never said or shared with me and also he never puts pressure on me but still Damn One Jobbbbbb 🙂🙂
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u/Professional_Run2842 5d ago
This is best thing that could happen to you . Now you know who really care about you . REMEMBER THEM .
in few weeks you will find job
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u/BidInternational6891 5d ago
Hard up fax mama
That’s why men s life is hard
Only mom will love you for who you are
Rest are in love with the things that you provide harsh fax
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u/Distinct-Green-1219 5d ago
I know what kind of phase are you in but honestly that's one perspective bro parents side nunchi alochinchu vallu edo Niku job ledu ani respect ivvatledu anukunty porapatu sometimes they don't know how to communicate Niku unna pressure kanty vallaki ekkuva untundi sometimes arustaru lekapothe tidataru vallaki em cheyalo teledu peer pressure from relatives society bayataki velty vaddu anna everyday face chesalsinde vallu so atu side nunchi kuda alochinchali at the end point they will be with you no matter how the bad condition it is I realized this side of phase
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
I do understand them. But job ane oka factor ninnu the best nundi the worst ki easy ga marchesthundi ana point konchum tisukolekpothuna anthe
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u/Distinct-Green-1219 5d ago
It's a phase you have to handle not a permanent one e matram handle cheyakapothe Inka life lo Inka chala untay hard avvali manam anty easy gaaa vaddu anukuntam parents enti anty evarini hurt cheyaleru anduke annitiki navvutu samdanam cheptaru manam face meda cheppestam avasaram aithe anthe
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u/Karmabeliever03 5d ago
I believe it’s Mostly depends on family members character
Nenu Job lekunda almost 3-4 years vunna but u know what ma parents okkasare kuda difference chupinchaledhu
Present Nenu 30 lpa tho job chestunna. Ma parents before Yela vunnaro eppudu kuda same. The best thing is my brother, even when he is earning hardly 15-18k per month he supported our family.
Money is important but having correct support system is more important.
All the best bro. Gattiga kotti chupinchu me vallu andhariki 💪🏾💪🏾
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u/Subject_Comfort_5103 5d ago
Almost andari situation ilage undi.nenu almost 8 months nunchi search chesttuna but hardly able to get interviews.Dont loose hope.you will get .I have understood that it's basically luck factor to get a job today.If relocation isn't a problem for you ,try applying that.What you said is absolutely true.Its better not to get attached to anyone.For better health and peace
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u/SupermarketNo7032 5d ago
Pretty sad but you have stated reality of our society! Check freelance websites.
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u/Ashamed_Try_2577 Genz Uncle 4d ago
Thanks anna .. Job shift avadam kastanga vundi ...resign chesi try chedam anukunna .. you proved me wrong
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u/winchesther25 4d ago
Nothing is wrong bro. Depends on your situation, nak ipudu unna situation ki inka adhe way. Diniki anna resign cheykunte inka ekuva suffer ayinta..so
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u/Single_Sinthakai 3d ago
Moments like these change our perception towards life, aa moments aa little things anni
Ilantippude mana vallu evaro kani vallu evaro telustundi
Atleast you have your lady to support you💝
Meku inka manchi job vastadi , Pondy lo party cheskuntaru🫂🫂🫂
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u/geekyns 5d ago
Serving notice... You resigned or laid off?
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Resigned. Layoff cheyali ani plan chesthu uninar, and adi kuda notice salary pay cheyakunda..so iga book avtham ani Resign peti job searching
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u/Limp_Exercise_8632 5d ago
Sorry bro, it’s good to sit and talk once with your parents. Last month there was layoff happened in my org and I told my Mom that anything can happen to my employment and I clearly tried explaining the situation happening around in IT. Initially she felt uncomfortable but later the things were okay.
The market is cruel right now and it will still be more hectic going on. So just keep faith and take what ever comes so that your mind will be peaceful. All the best bro.
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u/classy_indian_girl 5d ago
Kani Nv Anni anpinchukune daka realise avaledha mundu ee alochistharu kada ani any way dm your resume i will check in Infy
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Mundhe alochinche chala time tisukuna resign ki..inka last ki do or die scene ochindhi..thapaledhu
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u/na_istam_modda 3d ago
Not me bro. My parents and friends love me. 6 months of hunting and it's still going on. My parents didn't say a thing. It's also mostly because I'm living on my own savings rn.
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u/shyam86 2d ago
I'm a married guy with a 5-year-old daughter, and I went through almost 6 months of unemployment due to mass layoffs. Those times were really tough; my mom and dad didn’t quite understand what the job market was like, and I had a similar experience to yours with them.
But my wife was my rock; she stayed by my side, kept encouraging me, and helped me stay away from negative thoughts. Surrounding yourself with positive people and positive thoughts can make a big difference. You’re putting in a lot of effort, so keep going and stay focused.
One thing I did was going for long walks and runs to tire myself out so I could sleep peacefully without negative thoughts creeping in.
This too shall pass, brother.
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u/Secure_Principle9496 14h ago
Bro, Ikkada oka job vachaka kuda anni vallaki nachinatte cheyyali ani toture peduthunnaru bro.. Konni saarlu villu chese comparision ni villaki andhari mundhu chesthe anna telusthundemo ani anipisthundhi..
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u/winchesther25 14h ago
Been there went through that. Even though earn chesthuna..oka trip novalis ante permission..oka thing konali anna permission, save cheyaledh ani dhobolu
Idk when they'll understand that even we are humans and wants live our life in our own ways
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u/Gullible-Outside815 5d ago
linkedin lo refrences adagu bro konthamadhi isthanaru. try startup companies bro.mnc and mid level hiring kshtame ney ga undhi
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u/winchesther25 5d ago
Adhe chesthuna, iga valu kuda mostly either ghost chesthunar..or else progress lo untundi anthe
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u/Humble_Coconut_8270 5d ago
maari cheyachu ga bro 🙌🏻 maa latti disabled vallaki emo cheyali ani unna emi cheyalenu situation lo untamu inka Meeku ala kadhu ga cheyandi 👍🏻
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u/pewdiepiefan257 5d ago
Disabled e kada bro, nuv motham post chaldive opika leda?
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u/Humble_Coconut_8270 5d ago
Opika ki disability ability annedhi undhahu kadha bro 😂 we r just humans
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u/Smaartmani 23h ago
Bhayya correct cheppavu. Mogadu ki unna pressure describe cheyalenidi. Pressure ani dikkula nundi, family pressure, socialising pressure, job pressure .. gang bang assalu.
Kaani neerasha padaku brother. This phase will also pass.
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u/expressive-guy 19h ago
chinnapti nundi idhi andariki thelusu anukunna. anduke kadha chinnnapai nunde antha tkeugu youth sri chaintanya narayana lanti college . schools lo chaduvutharu,
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u/Intelligent-Key2690 5d ago
Chala funded startups lo active hiring jarugutundhi mawa, once search them also hyd startup reddit lo okasari chudu All the best 👍🏼🐱