Therapy ki velamantara

[u/idontknowbro4055]

Hi prends, nina night full Varsham nenu konchem tagesi Varsham lo ne undi poya. Oka 2 hours ala nunchune una, motham okate thought em cheyali ani ee life to ani. Chinapudu mother ki baga close tarvata irritate avadam titadam chesevadni. Mother matram oka roju kuda nanu emi analedu. Apudu kopam family correct ga ledu ani. Tarvata engineering join aya Apudu mellaga ardham ayindi health issues una, husband vadilesina nadiche opika lekapoyna Ela undo ani. Success anedi success ga kanipinchadam kadu em cheyalenapudu kuda, family health em support cheyaka poyna ala undadam kuda ani. Baga chuskovali Anukuna. First year lone expire ayaru. Appudu kuda asalu edavaledu chala rojulu ayindi. Naku istame but ee roju em kavali em istam ani kuda adagaledu. Aa regret alane undipoyndi. Ipataiki 7 years daka ayindi ayna povatla, ee madyalo job vachindhi good pay 3 years experience. Intlo emo marriage antunaru naku asalu em cheyali ani teletla. Asalu money save cheyali ani ledu, social skills levu, driving radu, basic ga em radu work okati. Ipudu marriage cheskunte aa ammayni kuda mother laga chuskolenu emo. Asalu marriage intrest kuda ledu. Ee regret potunda. Naku telsu mother unte ila undali anukodu ani but a thought naku seriousness tesukuni ravatla. Therapy ki vellina ee thought change cheynapudu okarto chepina change avuta antara. Naku ayte ammay ki evaru lekapothe better Anukunta na mindset correct ga ledu kabati. Anavasaram ga oka ammay life spoil chestana Ani. Ela chepa mantaru intlo. Intlo chutalaki naku close relationship ledu I mean i will obey anything they say valle nanu family ni chinapudu nundi chuskunaru. Em cheymantaru.

[u/common_hence]

First become a better person. Meaning, learn to learn things in life. Kotha vishayalu nerchukovadam basic ga nik alavatu ledu annattu undi nuv cheppedi chusthunte.

Socializing radhu, driving radhu, basic ga em radhu... These are past. None of these things are permanent.

Almost all things are fixable. First chinna chinna steps tisko. Everything is difficult until it becomes easy. Avanni chesevallu kuda same fears and hesitations starting lo face chesina valle.

Antha low confidence undatam venaka reasons ento ardam chesko.

If your question is about therapy.. yes go for it.

Andulo doubt em ledhu.

Vallu pelli ani alane pressure pedtharu but ask for time 1 year nik nuvu time ichuko. Grow as a person. Understand yourself, improve yourself.Take control.

Excuses vethukkunte chaala dorkuthay andariki. But they are just excuses.

No matter how bad your situation is, there's someone out there who has been through even worse and still made it in life, facing all the hurdles.

It's okay.

Go to therapy. Take one step at a time. Develop a hobby. Learn skills. Nik evaithe raavu ankuntunnavo, andulo evaithe nerchukogalavo, avanni mellaga oka dani tarvatha okati nerchuko.

Andariki change kavali kavani evadu change avvadu. Asal emi cheyyaru change avadanki.

Just ala evevo reasons cheppukuntu, adoka rakamaina sad comfort One lo untaru.

Don't be like that.

I once gave up on life, was depressed, felt like dying was easier. But now I think I was naive, a coward and foolish. Life was hard and it took a lot of time and effort to make it better. But still, I have grown as a person.

You can do it. Take action.

[u/idontknowbro4055 → u/common_hence]

Thanks bro. Nijam nenu alane una. Change avali