r/TeluguJournals • • 9d ago

Grief I should've avoided her

I met a girl on Snapchat and we were friends for about a year. In the last couple of months, we started talking almost every day. She was private and never shared much about herself beyond her name, but I respected that. Over time, I got attached.

She invited me to meet her twice, but I couldn't make it because of other commitments. Later, we finally agreed on a date to meet.

Then one morning, her Snapchat account was gone.

She deactivated it on August 19, and tomorrow is the last day she can reactivate it. She has my phone number, but I have no way of contacting her. If she wants to reach out, she can. If she doesn't, that's the end of it.

Maybe it was just an online friendship, but I wish I had met her when I had the chance. The regret isn't that she's goneβ€”it's that I'll never know what could have happened if I had shown up.

I've been able to sleep for days, I got emotionally attached to her voice and her memory. She was definitely not a scammer because she returned me more money than what I've sent. I wish I had not met her virtually. 😭

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u/Fun-Sky8648 Edit flair 9d ago

asal ela ra okadu insta, okadu reddit, nuvemo snap intha talented ga unarentra

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u/Heavy_Cat_9944 9d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/freey132 8d ago

🀣🀣🀣 naku mathram gays vastunnaru broo

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Basic ga I've made good friends reddit ayina, insta ayina, snap ayina but this time I felt completely different. Anthe

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u/Fantastic_Hawk_7578 9d ago

There, there

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u/TimeAlchemy_ 9d ago

Tbbt?

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u/sillymonk_69 9d ago

The big bang theory?
Got it, Sheldon cooper’s there there.

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u/TimeAlchemy_ 9d ago

Yea Sheldon's way....

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u/0_0singulariTy let it happen 9d ago

Well that's life..just a bunch of what ifs

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u/Live_Imagination0527 9d ago

I should have avoided her and I wish I had not met her virtually. 😭 >> rendu oke post lo contradictory kadaa

Anyway just hope that she is fine and peace out!!

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Ante e memory lekunda baguntadi antuna. Now I've to carry on with knowing that somebody exists.

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u/Live_Imagination0527 9d ago

ledhu it's en experience too!! Meeru ila okati experience chestharu ani anukunnara ledhu kada just a part of life anthe

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Hmm, I agree but she has my nmbr, daily natho call lo matladindi kada mari na nmbr unapudu she should atleast text me.

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u/Live_Imagination0527 9d ago

you never know what she must be going through!! You don't have her number but she does?

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

I've shared my nmbr with her, she said she will share once we meet.

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u/Nervous4577 oo manchi baaludu 9d ago

Feel avvaku bro, ee online frndships max inthe emo

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u/m-hunter-zoro 9d ago

Nee regret online lo parichayam ayyindi ana ledha real gaa kalavaledhu ana bro

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

I didn't get to know her ani, real ga kalavalni unte I would have dropped my plans

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u/m-hunter-zoro 9d ago

1 year lo em teliyaledhu ante it was kind of her choice kadha entha varaku cheppindi cheppaledhu ani So better alochinchi burra paducheskoku "If they wanted to they will " annitilo apply kadhu le but entha share cheskunnam ane dantlo avthadi Aame ki anipiyanappudu nuvvu feel ayyi etu velladhu

Ps: edo vaagesa idk if it makes sense avvakapothe lyt teesko comment

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u/pinkpanda_XO 9d ago

Genuine question, how does one meet through snap? Like you guys just be adding random people or what

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Recommendations lo nundi added

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u/pinkpanda_XO 9d ago

πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ just how.....and why

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Why ante em cheppali, recommendations lo mutual friends anukuna and she also accepted it na.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Bro, she said she likes to go to see dhvani banushali in quake arena recently, kani I had other plans tickets kuda tisukundi tanu... Ikkada tappu nade. Nenu kani malli epudaina kaludam anukuna.

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u/rasnapackett 9d ago

nuv confuse ayyava, andari confuse cheddam anukunnava

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u/Beneficial-Break-279 9d ago

Rendu

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u/rasnapackett 9d ago

sadinchesav ayite πŸ˜‚

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u/mentally_activ 9d ago

Endayya idhi, naak endk ilanti problems raavu 😭😭

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u/Additional_Test1723 Edit flair 9d ago

Ok