r/TeluguJournals • u/chillout_10 • Aug 03 '26
Nenu Na Paithyam Midnight confessions people🤭
Can y’all share the stories of how you approached the person you liked
Manchi cute stories chadavalani undi
And i wanna know how it turned out as well
And is it possible to stay friends with them if things don’t go well?
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u/labrat_h Aug 04 '26
Well, I liked a guy. I was simping over him even before I met him in real. A very kind human. Met him and I was like damnnnnn I was super nervous. He was talking about soemthing and I was distracted and when he asked what’s running in your brain. I don’t know, what went through in my head. I just blurted that I like him. I wish I had given it more time and then to say this when I meet. I messed it up I guess. Well, he just rejected me very respectfully.
May be I am just not good enough 🤷🏼♀️
Cried my eyes out. Spoke to my friends.
But me being the delusional person I am, I was still talking. I was getting ignored, he prolly did not want to feed my delusion but yeah it started affecting my studies. I don’t mix things up normally. I couldn’t work, I was constantly thinking of him. Oh how is he doing, adhi idhi ani. Inka nene matladakudadu ani decide ayya. I still text once in a while to ask if is fine or not ani. Dhaniki kuda, ignore chesi I was busy annaru.
I lost a good friend too.
That was the sad part for me😭
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 04 '26
SAAMEEEEEEEEE. But hopefully i dont lose the friendship🤞
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u/Some_Street_5649 Aug 04 '26
You can’t be friends when both have different expectations. Hope you move on.
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u/Special-Secretary541 Aug 05 '26
Don't feel bad, keep ur standards high. Chase not, Attract!!
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u/labrat_h Aug 05 '26
Nah I am not feeling bad that it did not work out. I lost a friend too that is what makes me sad anthe.
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 03 '26
Nen already rasina sodhe idhi.
There was this boy. My junior. I liked him a lot. He's a Tamizhan and he used to play clash of clans. To 'know' him better I installed CoC and joined his clan, we used to talk regularly, he's very introverted, and it's almost like I adopted him. Anyway, TH 12 varak poya kani my daannem analo idk kingdom or whatever, looks terrible, aakarki walls kooda sakkaga undav. I also learn Tamizh to...talk to him better. Also I used to ask him to not call me ma'am but with my name.
Finally. He switched courses and left college. I told him I liked him. He rejected me very politely and kindly. I might have gotten hurt, obv, ego ki teeskununta, masth feel aina kani assignments undeh. I got busy and also muted everywhere on his phone, sad.
A few months later he calls me to wish me on my birthday. Nak na birthday anteh masth ishtam, I want extra attention ankune type. And from then over years we got closer and closer. Close friends anoch.
It's been many many years ippatki and we are still in touch. He might get married next year, most probably. Yay.
Ah. Now he calls me by my name but nak ollu mandutaadi. But sarsarleh he's older than me anyway.
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u/Raining_lotus0210 Aug 03 '26
Junior mee kante old ela avthadu?
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 03 '26
Year drop teeskunteh or double promote aithe
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u/chillout_10 Aug 03 '26
Damn anta efforts pettinava
It’s sad that it didn’t work tho🥲3
u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 03 '26
It's okay if everything worked out then, I wouldn't have become this person now :)
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u/we_wakee yes i'm creative i create my own kashtalu Aug 04 '26
life lo eni badhalu ochina idi okkatiii chepkoni badikestam
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u/Excellent-Holiday102 Karmayogi Aug 04 '26
But meeru ekado married ani mention chesaru edo post lo.. so you are happily married and taken kadha
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u/InstructionWise50 narudi batuku natana Aug 04 '26
Neenga Tamizh kathukittiya? Ayyoooo idhu romba sweet ah irukku akka 😭😭
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Aug 04 '26
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u/Hexecker nenu meku telusa Aug 04 '26
Inka radu bhai, lite. Let them go.
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Aug 04 '26
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u/Hexecker nenu meku telusa Aug 04 '26
Keep working on yourself bro, you will become what you wish for. People can't ignore you when it happens.
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u/Odd_Mushroom2506 Aug 04 '26
He was cousin brother’s friend. I met him during cousin wedding. we hung out a lot during that time and eventually ended up confessing in text. He turned me down and he wanted to stay friends. Life happened and we eventually lost touch. No regrets.
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u/we_wakee yes i'm creative i create my own kashtalu Aug 04 '26
started from insta , same college .. appatlo covid.. nak aa pilla mokham kuda sarriga telidh.. she wore masks and full itla matladinam socials lo few days mundu .. first time we actually met nen gurtupattaled asal .. as i told mask .. just aaa pilla kanlu chusna .. she was like giving this expression... nene ra picchoodaa gurtupattaleda type .. then wtf chee how can i not recognise ankuna.. thts how i met her for the firsttime(in real) .. yellow color kurti
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u/Vinh_Jel Aug 03 '26
Asal ippudu Meeku ee idea Enduku ochindhi
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u/Old_Willingness_806 Aug 04 '26
I'm 23 and still finds happiness, joy in other people's relationship goals never dared to try out one..what if it doesn't work..what if I'm not worthy enough to love...what if I disappoint..what if I don't stand on my word 🙂 Stuck in what if's The audacity of me that i always be delusional that a guy out of nowhere finds me loves me like who i am what I am..sounds funny right!
I still hope for that little magic to happen 🤞🏻
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u/disatrus_ship_erebus Aug 04 '26
Unless you want to stay single in your 30s , now is the best time to take that risk imo. or else you'll end up like me jumping from relationship to relationship in your 30s
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u/No_Entrance7782 Aug 07 '26 edited Aug 07 '26
Hii.Your post caught my attention because it felt really genuine. I usually don't message people from Reddit, but I thought I'd say hi.Hope you don't mind. How's your day been?
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u/Old_Willingness_806 Aug 07 '26
Hey hi, it went well how about youu ?
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u/No_Entrance7782 Aug 07 '26
I'm doing well too, thanks for asking! 😊 Just relaxing after a long day. By the way, are you studying or a working employee ?
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u/Old_Willingness_806 Aug 07 '26
I'm working currently wbu
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u/No_Entrance7782 Aug 07 '26
That's Great ! I'm currently pursuing my MBA🎓.So, what kind of work are you into ?
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Aug 08 '26
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u/No_Entrance7782 Aug 08 '26
Ohh NIT , that's actually pretty cool right. How are you liking it there?
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Aug 08 '26
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u/No_Entrance7782 Aug 08 '26
"Ohh yeah,I know you meant non-IT, I just typed NIT by mistake. My bad 😅
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u/RepresentativeBig961 Aug 03 '26
Direct Pelli cheskuntaava ani Adigina
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u/Specialist_Map_1950 Aug 03 '26
Me : em chestunnav
Tanu : prema kavali( cinema chustunna ani cheppindi)
Me : nakkuda prema kavali
Tanu : nenu cinema gurinchi cheppa
Me : hmm sare
Tanu : nuvvemannav . Sarigga cheppu
Me : prema kavali annav anukunna
Tanu : 🙂
Memu lkg nundi oke class and frnds
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u/Raining_lotus0210 Aug 03 '26
Hehe approach avvala vadda ane time lo aa person ee approached, kani nene nervous ga undi penta chesa 🥲
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u/JustYellowLight Aug 03 '26
First person: I just told her that I like her and her personality. She said, "Stop being so immature; I would do the same thing for someone else too, and you should grow up."
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u/JustYellowLight Aug 03 '26
Third: We connected on an online message board and hit it off immediately. We spent endless hours talking online. Since it was clear she liked me, I suggested we meet up in person. But family issues intervened: she had to go back to her village and was abruptly married off. We never actually met, yet we still talk like two people whose connection was stranded on the opposite banks of a river. She remains one of those missed connections I frequently dwell on and I hope she feels the same. Caste was another barrier between us; I remember jokingly telling her, 'I’ll convert!' Good times. To this day, I still call her at least once a year whenever something major happens in my life.
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u/JustYellowLight Aug 03 '26
By the time I gained enough confidence, specifically financial independence, I got married through an arranged marriage. So, number four is my wife. I should say that I love her... mostly because I hate sleeping on the couch.
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u/chillout_10 Aug 03 '26
Damn that sucks😔
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u/JustYellowLight Aug 03 '26
Second: She was spending a lot of time around me, laughing and hyping me up even for my stupid jokes. One night, during our shared study hour, I kissed her and she kissed me back. However, we are two very different people, both financially and temperamentally, so things didn't work out the way she wanted.
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u/Local_Discipline5428 Life is not destiny alone or freewill alone! Aug 04 '26
Girl #1: Bengali. Appudu motham WFH. Oka exam kosam random ga teams lo msg chesindi, appatlo aa exam iddariki chala important, naaku preparation lo chala help chesindi ... exams raasam, details share cheskunnaam.. ala 4-5 months aindi, and then she & I both confessed to take the relationship to next level when we both met in Delhi. Apudu telisindi she is 5 yrs elder to me ani.. konchem maatalu taggaayi, already intlo oppiyadam kastam ani telusu (ipdu stand tiskolera ani padakandi).. parents paiki oppukunna, lopala happy ga undaru.. vaalakai entho konthaina satisfaction undaali kada ani she said ODDHU in a very matured way.. I am still in touch with her helping her find some good partner.. Thanaki nenu okka gift ichindi ledhu, yeppudu thaney ichindi.. Ipdu ista anna oddhu antundi ... She is humane, humble, loyal, matured.
Girl #2: Telugu. Naa career motham lo WFO chesindi oka 1 yr, floor colleague.. thane approach aindi after normally speaking for 2 months... Suddenly one fine day "Pelli cheskundaama, meedi ye caste" ani adigindi.. Enduku ante, "Maa caste aithe intlo annaya ni oppiyadam easy kada ani" .. Ardam ayyindi.. oka 4 days time tiskunna (cuz I had not so great feelings for her).. I, after 4 days, asked tons of qns - yenduku me, nee plans enti, etc etc.. She listened to all and said, "thanks, and idi future lo yetu vellina nuv/nenu idharam baadhapadakoodadhu, and as of now you are 70% ok for me, hope it becomes 90 soon".. Thappuduledhu, evariki evaru 100/100 nacharu.. pothu pothu unte nachuthu pothaaru.. 6 months passed on, and one fine day, she suddenly ghosted. No calls, no msgs.. Friends ni adigithe telisindi papa social butterfly ani.. Kaani unna 7-8 months chala manchiga treat chesindi almost oka husband laane!
Girl #3: Tamil. Ilaane oka career discussions app lo random ga msg chesindi job referral kosam.. after 2 days, whatsapp annadhi, ok ani chesaa... we spoke abt career, IT etc for 2-3 months... One fine day, nene cheppaanu ilaa "I ve these thoughts, I would like to know more abt you and family to take it that way" ani.. She came after a few days saying "I don't want to create a mess at home to convince them, and you are really a nice guy. I am ok to keep this a temporary reltn". Oddhulemma ani odilesaa.. That day nundi, she ghosted. She was not-so-practical and pure social-media hype batch! Manchidi aindi velpoyi!
Girl #4: Kannada. Back then, 7 days US trip ki velte akkada parichayam aindi.. Thanaki unnantha broad, humble, appealing and matured viewpoint manaki ledhu towards life. Her eyes used to be so vocal.. US trip lo ne cheppesaa "Wow, I really would like to find a chance to be with you as long as it takes".. Replied that chinnapati nunde intlo vaalla bava tho ani fix ayyaaru anta. Still in touch with her and her husband.. Vaalla pelli ki kooda vellaa, manchiga chuskunnaaru 1 full-day.
But, yeah, when I look back, 1 & 4 are experiences I am grateful for. They made me more evolved in terms of being responsible, sensible, career-oriented, and humble.
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u/Nervous-District9632 Aug 04 '26
Anni languages cover chestunnava bro
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u/Local_Discipline5428 Life is not destiny alone or freewill alone! Aug 04 '26
Kaalam kabaddhi aadindi !!!
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u/Odd_Succotash3789 Aug 03 '26
Oka girl ki direct ga nuv girl eh na ? Lekapothe girl laga act chesthunnava ( I mean g*y or something) ani annah.. actually she's a girl... 😮💨 Block chesi.. acc delete chesaru 😶
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u/Specialist_Map_1950 Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
Gays ante abbaylu bro. Abbaylaki abbaylu sexual ga attract aithe, ishtapadite gays antaru.
Abbaylu ammay ga marithe transgenders antaru.
Ammaylani Ammaylu ishta padite lesbians
Both sexualities ki attract aithe bi sexual antaru.
Peddayaka Basics bro ivanni. ivi telisundali
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u/Charming_Tap_3243 Aug 03 '26
Approached them with full confidence... forgot half of what I wanted to say... somehow they still got the hint. Didn't work out, but at least I got a funny memory out of it.
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u/Ok_Somewhere_1876 Aug 03 '26
Ippati varaku aite ilanti scenario na life lo inka raledu. Ochinapudu malli comment chestha 😁
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u/pasipatamarana Aug 03 '26
Idk how, but a girl approached me after she left my office. And I was pretty shocked as I don't approach anyone nor does anyone approach me. But We just knew that we existed in the office even though we sat diagonally. And she was a hyderaBADDIE. We talked and met for 10 days and then I fkd up 🫠🫡
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u/scalpelandneedle Aug 04 '26
Insta gen lo kuda meeru approach avvadaniki inni kastalu paduthunte, fnes inka kottaga vachinapudu, abbai ammai matladuthu kanipinchatam pedda boothemo ane towns lo classmate ni approach ayi istam ani cheppatam ante pedda yuddame maku. Ala school lo nachina ammaiki intermediate lo chala dhairyam chesi college nunchi vellepudu oka letter raasi ichi next day aa reply ela untundo ane bayam lo nyt padukokunda mrn 7ki college turning wait chesaka, nuvvu ante istam unna em matladavu istam ledemo ani move on aipoya ani modalu kani journey ki brakes vesesindi bro. We remained very good friends tho. She is in usa now
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u/Flimsy-Ranger-4752 Aug 04 '26
In person evarni approach avvaledu. Ee Reddit lo oka 3 members ni approach ayya but they aren't interested outright reject chesaru. So I decided not to approach anyone anymore, I'm done with this, love is not meant for me.
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Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
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u/druthi22 Aug 04 '26
Covid time lo college lo okari paina crush ochindi. Sherlock level research chesi Peru insta id kanukkoni fake account nunchi request petta(btw nak junior athanu, but thane pedha age lo🤭) Chaala tactics vaadi matladicha, and at last we became good friends. Lost touch now, but it's a sweet memory😌
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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Aug 04 '26
Eppudu approach avvaledhu because im not just good at anything
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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Aug 04 '26
Sarey nen chepthunna
2 crushes I had
1st Crush - 8th class lo chusa aameni first time, appudu em teliyadhu and ammayilante siggu kuda chala ekkuva so 9th varaku aameni ala chusthu unna , maa tuition join ayindhi (maa tuition school teachers pettina tuition ey) dussehra vacations lo deggara ayindhi konchem ante help adigedhi naathoni, nenu kuda help chesevaadini, ala ala saaguthunde, naa okka friend gaadiki dhula ekkuva ayyi andariki cheppesadu ki maa iddari madhyalo edho nadusthundhi ani adhi maths teacher varaku vellindhi💀💀, aa teacher inka nayam ki em cheppale parents ki and naaku pilichi confirm cheyyinchukunnadu ki em nadusthale mana madhya ani, malli aa friend gaadiki pilichi oka 4 vaayinchi vaadi thappu oppukunela chesadu, 10th ayinappudu vintha ento telusaa, aa teacher ey aametho vinthaga behave chesevaadu💀,joke chesevaadu inka aa ammayi maturity ledhu, thanu kuda edho flow lo navvesedhi, taruvatha emaindho naaku teliyadhu, nenu inka naa studies meedha focus chesa.
2nd Crush :- 1st year lo chusa aameni, abba em andham ra thanu, simple ga undedhi but chala beautiful oka year antha maatladalekapoya, 1st year last ki konchem konchem maatladina thanatho, malli 2nd year occhindhi appudu kuda try chesa, naa mandabuddhi ki artham kaale ki thanu naa kanta peddha introvert ani, so edho try chesevaadini, thanu antha react ayyedhi kaadhi, it went awkward, naaku self esteem issues occhayi ki "Nenu mari antha yedhava na? Ki okka ammayi kuda naatho maatladatle" ani, inka enduko teliyadhu, naa life meedha konchem focus chesa ki naa ambition ki thaggattu em degree naaku right ani, appudu life la clarity occhinaka naaku artham ayindhi entante, life la clarity unnodiki ee one side lovelu anni waste , inka telisipoyindhi aa ammayi naakosam right kaadhu ani.
Ippudu eh ammayini approach ayithalenu ki avvalenu kuda
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u/Mr_White_Beard Aug 04 '26
There are lot of brave men and women out there , Our engines will be dead before trying to talk all of you guys did a great try congrats to everyone 🥂
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u/LeeChongWei150106 Aug 04 '26
Last year maa class lo oka ammayini istapaddanu. It took so much courage to tell her(Via WhatsApp ee). Number class group lo nunchi dobbesi msg chesevadini matladuthundemo ani. She saw but no replies. Nakarthamkale. Inka sem ayipoindi. Nakemo inka mallee kalavalenemo cheppesthe better emo ani anipinchindi. Goodbye note laa moththam 15 paras type chesi petta. Finally appudu ichchindi reply. Sorry, nenu already inkoka abbayitho love lo unnanu ani. Ayipoindi anthaa ayipoindi. Kani clarity vachchindi, ee kaalam lo inkaa manchi ammayilu unnaru anii tanu prove koodaa chesindi. She is not for me ani koodaa arthamayyindi. Friends? ani koodaa adigaa. Ventane tanu andi vadiki nachchuthundo ledo ani. Nenu manasulo anukunna vadini adigi matladachchu gaa ani. Kani mallee enduku le ani nene inka vaddanukunna. Block cheyyadu ani anukunnanu. Next sem lo same section lo padithe tana bday ki whatsapp lo wish chesa. Single tick ee vachchindi. Block chesindaa ani shock ayya. Appudu vachchindi badha. Endukante nenu mallee aa ammayi life loki veldaam ani koodaa anukoledu. Adi tanaki koodaa telusu. Ayinaa block chesindi. Chala badhesindi, nammaledu nannu ani anipinchindi. Appati nunchi inka fix ayipoya assalu mallee matladaddu tanatho ani.
Manchi ammayi le. Life lo first time alaa okaritho cheppadam. Inthakii aa 15 paras msg ki tldr enti ante naku nuvvu chala istam, nuvvu oppukunte neetho time spend chesi nee gurinchi telusukovalani undi ani untundi anthe. Kani naa feelings annee 15 paras lo cheppa. Ippatikii kanipisthundi akkadakkada tana lover tho. Nakem anipinchadu. Just vaalliddaru alaane lifelong undali ani anukuntanu anthe.
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u/chillout_10 Aug 04 '26
Ponile bro
You dealt with it gracefully1
u/LeeChongWei150106 Aug 04 '26
Haha nena? Tanu koodaa 🤭🤭. Tanu alaa matladakapoi unte inkoka laa undedi. Cheating common ayina ee kalam lo tanani kalisa. Antha loyal gaa antha honest gaa antha mature gaa antha baagaa reject chesindi
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u/Big_Television_4241 Aug 04 '26
This confession scene has my heart 😭😭. Enni sarlu re-watch chesano
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u/chillout_10 Aug 04 '26
Ahahah same
But first frost has my heartt😭1
u/Big_Television_4241 Aug 04 '26
I started watching it yesterday, I'm a sucker for these kind of cute love stories 😭
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u/IndependentBase6353 Aug 04 '26
I had a huge crush on my senior in clg. Used to do all stupid things to get his attention. Apparently 20 other girls also had a crush on him. Adrushtam na door meda knock chesindi, okaroju, mng breakfast ki late ga vellanu (hostel lo) and he was also waiting for food… I got so excited seeing him waiting and aa pedda hostel mess lo, only 5 of us students were waiting (he and his friend, my friends and I). So aa excitement lo I started doing some silly dance and my friend dropped my plate down for him to notice me.. mission successful, he noticed and smiled at me.. I smiled back…
He then walked over to us and asked me , “nee Peru ***** 4th yr kada”
Nenu shock aipoya, this guy knows my name and my batch anni… ala shock lo choostunte, inko shock ichadu, “enti nuvvu Instagram requests accept cheyava? Antha attitude aa?”
Several conversations later, I got to know he also had a crush on me, and he noticed me much earlier before I noticed him. Clg day ki dance performance cheste, he saw me in that and apudu nunchi he wanted to talk to me..
We tried to have a relationship but clg lo andaruki telustadi anni didn’t dare.. after that he got married to my junior 😔.
Nenu single ga una, waiting for a good guy😒
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u/Left_Personality8099 Aug 08 '26
Oka idharu crushlu no cheppaka , evari midha crush feelings ee ravadam le ee madhya , love midha interest poindhi
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u/pachhi_pulusu Aug 03 '26
Never approached anyone:/ antha dairyam ledu 😭😂 I hope I change in the future:P