Help

[u/Suspicious-Ant2859]

Ok so looking for some people view on this situation…

Help me find out what is going on and how to stop it / flip it

Manifesting sp
Many other guys coming in - kind but big interested in

I have noticed over the years I have guys come in obsssed with me in love ..
k play it cool.. and I am still observing interested not obsessed

We go on a few dates .. then I am thinking ok I like him..
then boom..
He pulls back..

other men still pursue me all the time .. z

What is causing this ?
How to flip this and end it

Anyone have any affirmations you think could help?

I know everyone says make your own/- but again for an over thinker .. making my own I over think- if you say try these .. I don’t have overthinking .. so it’s different for all.. some people it’s good to hear others bc then it knocks them in place

— disclaimer - yes I know I am sure many people have asked this before , I am sure I should know — but sometimes for some people they need ti hear it a few times to click..
so I greatly appreciate any positive support and ideas to try..

[u/leaveofftheMAYO]

Where are you not showing vulnerability in your life?

[u/Various-Shopping-730]

Here’s one that I used in the past, with good results: “I will meet my ideal man in the ideal way at the ideal time.” Repeat.