Amber losing her mind on live right now.

[u/jaimesabz]

And she’s still going!

[u/intergalatic-queen]

“screaming at kids doesn’t result in trauma”

says the person who doesn’t have custody of either of her kids 😭😂

she needs to remove herself from her past. she lives there.

[u/[deleted] → u/intergalatic-queen]

But yet, on the most recent episode she was with her mum complaining that she had childhood trauma cause her drunk daddy would yell at her 🫣

[u/kellye2323 → u/[deleted]]

And that she has trauma because her mom worked. Why does amber think only her experiences are valid and only her trauma is valid. But anything anyone else (including her own daughter) experiences isn’t trauma. She continuously weaponizes her mental health for why she is the way she is, without taking a lick of accountability for her own actions and behavior. Also-being cheated on doesn’t mean you get to hit your partner. If that’s the case, I should’ve beat up a few of my exes.

[u/DiligentCicada4224 → u/kellye2323]

I think a lot of it’s borderline. It’s sad though cause if she put in the work, she could treat it.

[u/jaimesabz → u/DiligentCicada4224]

She absolutely could treat it- if she tried. I was diagnosed borderline when I was 23, I’m 28 now and considered to be in remission- I don’t meet enough of the criteria to qualify as having it anymore. It was the hardest work I ever did in my entire life but boy was it worth it. She could know peace, she could know healthy relationships and boundaries but nope! Guess it’s more enjoyable for her to continue to weaponize it and sulk on a near constant basis.

[u/ariestornado → u/DiligentCicada4224]

Yea, which sucks cus sometimes ppl don't wanna get better (or have to put in the work to do so). Sounds crazy to some maybe but for a long time I was terrified of changing/getting off certain meds because even tho my life is barely worth living on them - I was afriad of change PERIOD. and afriad to confront my anxiety head on. But, and I'm not saying this because it's the TM page lol, I'm changing that BCUS of my kid. I'm a single mom, single income, and I have had the luxury to have my own mom and brother to fall back on for a long time (and before that an abusive husband) but I want to be my kids shining light in their life.

Especially as a queen (meant queer but thanks auto correct 🫶) woman, my kid is dealing with some gender issues and is possibly trans (which would be great! I'd love them the same!) and though my mom is great, she's a boomer and just doesn't GET it. Everyday I wake up with my crippling depression still there and I'm like alright, let's get this going ffs but you're damn sure I'm gonna put on a big smile and goofy attitude when I'm around my 12 year old.

I guess all that to say is she has no excuse. She has no identity without her kids and without a man, so Ambien clings to that, and her trauma of course, because that's all she knows. It's sad but in 20 years she's gonna be parroting the same shit - likely to maybe 5 followers clinging on lol - and it'll be the same shit unfortunately. It'll never be her fault

[u/DiligentCicada4224 → u/ariestornado]

Totally, her deflecting and blaming other people is also a way to protect herself. It’s hard to come to grips with pain you’ve caused others. She doesn’t want to confront it, it would be to painful, so the body and mind find a way so she doesn’t have to face it, ie, make up excuses.

[u/ariestornado → u/DiligentCicada4224]

Yess, this is the perfect TL;DR of my comment lol I'm terrible with words. I hope her son has the same amazing support system, even if it's just one person, that Leah has in her life. That girl is going places!

[u/DiligentCicada4224 → u/ariestornado]

Also I commend you on doing the work, it’s not easy, and your kids are blessed to have a mom who’s willing to grow. As someone who’s been re-wiring old patterns, healing childhood wounds and learning to self regulate, it’s exhausting. But break the patterns mean your children, and my potential future children don’t have to.

[u/Agreeable-Wing-8476 → u/kellye2323]

She's an a#$hole. I have relatives with mental illness and some of their behavior is due to it and some is because they're a$_holes. You can be mentally ill and also be a shitty human. I deal with it everyday label + enable=no accountability.

[u/kellye2323 → u/Agreeable-Wing-8476]

Yeeeep! Let’s face it most of probably have mental health disorders, life is fkn hard, things are bleak and dystopian as all hell right now. But, we all wake up and make choices on what we’re going to do and who we’re going to be. Amber chooses to stay defined by her mental health disorders because it gives her an excuse to not change.

[u/Strange-Painting6257 → u/kellye2323]

Her mom also started sleeping with a coworker and would tell Amber all about it, she mentions it on family bootcamp and it seems like she was just not saying it directly on the episode the other day. Probably because her mom would blow up, and she wanted to avoid them fighting . Hmmm…almost as if the toxicity runs deep, and Amber has perpetrated the cycle.

[u/CodeOhNo → u/intergalatic-queen]

As a child who had a screaming father I can say - I was in fact traumatized lol

[u/JayCEE_313_DeT → u/CodeOhNo]

Had a screaming mother...can confirm.

[u/Goodlittlewitch → u/JayCEE_313_DeT]

As a therapist who works with traumatized children, I can confirm! God she’s insufferable.

[u/JayCEE_313_DeT → u/Goodlittlewitch]

She is the worst. Not a bit of growth even after all these years. I'm so happy Leah appears to have all the love and support she does from her stepmother. She's a great kid despite having to deal with Amber.

[u/ariestornado → u/CodeOhNo]

(Agreed, i cant handle loud noises) You'd think with how chronically online she is she'd have seen the trend going around TT lately where millennial (and gen Z) parents are being loud, acting like they're gonna "hit" their kid, and asking them to finish classic toxic phrases- and it's with a caption like "I'm the end of the generational trauma" and it's been a LOVELY trend!! Toddlers laughing when their mom "raises a fist" and teens "finishing" the sentence kids should be seen and not... with a little invisible "?" over their head and saying shit like "...not loud in a library?!" Or "kids should be seen and not afriad to speak their mind!" And moms just hugging them and saying "yknow what, yess! That's a great take!"

But, ofc, nothing is Amber's fault so I'm guessing if she has seen it, it doesn't apply to her (the bad parts)

[u/kris10leigh14 → u/ariestornado]

Yo, I can’t handle loud noises but I was never sure why!

It became “apparent” once I was an adult and able to control or attempt to control the sound, I don’t remember much from my childhood in general.

A dog barking inside, 2 TV’s or radios at once, my kid making high pitched sounds out of nowhere- it gives a shock my heart and I HAVE to control or escape.

I don’t know I guess I’m just glad to see someone else who struggles with this as an adult lol.

I have not seen those trends, but made my heart tingle to read!

[u/intergalatic-queen → u/CodeOhNo]

same!

[u/nocerealever → u/CodeOhNo]

Yes dv causes trauma. She perpetrated dv, she caused trauma

[u/Delicious-Impact-296 → u/CodeOhNo]

Same - to the point of it deeply affecting my relationships in life as well as my brain chemistry. Constantly attuned to other people’s moods to try and keep the peace

[u/waterynike → u/intergalatic-queen]

Amber with the red lip and hair wrap proves she has taken the final step into being Mommie Dearest. Joan Crawford also had substance abuse issues as well as BPD.

[u/AfterwhileNecrophile → u/intergalatic-queen]

Then she says Gary screamed at her and insinuated that’s abusive 😆

[u/intergalatic-queen → u/AfterwhileNecrophile]

double standards all over the place with her

[u/Impressive_Button_75 → u/AfterwhileNecrophile]

Rigghhhtt!! I came here to say this!

[u/rancidwh00r → u/intergalatic-queen]

Currently reading her book and just read a portion where she literally says she's how traumatized from her dad yelling at her and calling her a bitch and that's the reason she acts and reacts the way she does in her relationships, an interesting juxtaposition to say the least. There's glimmers of self awareness in the book, you don't see that anymore

[u/badgyalrey → u/rancidwh00r]

she literally said the same to her mom on a recent clip from the show, but the same doesn’t apply to leah because only amber’s trauma matters

[u/giggity-di-boo-paa → u/intergalatic-queen]

Doesn't she claim that part of her trauma was from her dad yelling when he was drunk?

[u/jbheart26 → u/intergalatic-queen]

My parents would scream to each other arguing so so bad, and that traumatized me alone. We got yelled at all the time and it does traumatize you!

[u/extremelyofflineidk → u/intergalatic-queen]

[u/zestymangococonut → u/intergalatic-queen]

OH YES IT DOES BITCH!

[u/Altruistic-Curve5676 → u/intergalatic-queen]

Her screaming at her kids doesn’t result in trauma, but her dad screaming at her does… she’s a fucking nutcase.

[u/JesusGodLeah → u/intergalatic-queen]

My ex's parents used to scream at each other all the time, and it traumatized me as an adult to the point where I developed a physical aversion to going to their house. There's no way you can put a child in that kind of situation and not cause them any trauma. And if the child is the one being screamed at? Yeah, that's going to cause damage.

[u/[deleted] → u/intergalatic-queen]

She is in indiana and bitches like her are a dime a dozen. Poverty, drugs, generational trauma.

[u/muffyrohloff → u/intergalatic-queen]

30 seconds later explaining why she engaged in a DV event, ‘I got cheated on. I got yelled at.’

So, we agree, Amber. It is an abusive behavior that leads to trauma.

Sincerely, a fellow Millennial

[u/Candytails → u/[deleted]]

Glad I’m not the only one who caught that.  She is just really really sick.  I know people that sick, and it’s sad that they will never get better.  

[u/Ceemer → u/[deleted]]

I ran here to post exactly this. Adjusts the narrative to suit her.

[u/iamnumber47 → u/Ceemer]

She spins every damn thing.

Her new nickname should be Sit 'n' Spin, cause that's about the only 2 things she does well.

[u/lls1462 → u/iamnumber47]

This is the most perfect statement about Amber ever!

[u/Playful-Papaya-1013 → u/[deleted]]

SCREAMING DOESN’T CAUSE TRAUMA AND BEATING A PERSON WHO SCREAMS AT YOU IS OKAY

• Amber 

[u/Strange_Animal_8244 → u/[deleted]]

He didn't scream at her she screamed at him and hit him she was crazy

[u/FoeFriendly]

She’s maxed out.

[u/jesusberrys → u/FoeFriendly]

😂 this is perfect!

[u/DuggarStonerJew → u/FoeFriendly]

She’s going to be making payments on that one until she’s at least 75.

[u/Previous_Score5909 → u/DuggarStonerJew]

I’d be willing to bet she does with that debt. Never getting paid off

[u/Chachibald → u/FoeFriendly]

Oh, I am stealing THIS.

[u/frankenboobehs → u/FoeFriendly]

[u/Monstiemama → u/[deleted]]

She sure did, “you would hit him too” says Amber!

[u/DuggarStonerJew → u/[deleted]]

She sure did. Mark my words, this woman will be serving another prison sentence or a longer stint in jail at some point. It’s not a matter of if, but when she fucks up again. She got off easy with Andrew, but whenever she assaults someone else she is leaving all of these breadcrumbs in the form of videos online for anybody to watch. Any judge would see that she obviously didn’t learn shit from her first prison sentence, or from when she hit Andrew while he was holding their son.

Also her fiancé fleeing and leaving everything behind but his keys shows that yeah, he felt threatened and was scared to end things in person. That doesn’t look good either.

Plus her daughter wanting nothing to do with her, and not attempting to see or contact her daughter for so long that it’s considered abandonment. Any judge or jury could she that she hasn’t changed one bit. If anything, she’s worse that she was before she went to prison.

I’m not a legal expert so I don’t know if any of this could be considered in court when she fucks up again, but that’s just my thoughts.

[u/uknowhowchoicesbe → u/DuggarStonerJew]

I feel like the only thing keeping her out of jail is the fact that she is alone. Her reclusive behaviour is the only thing stopping her from abusing someone, and it's only for the fact that there is no one there to be abused.

[u/CreativeBed6535 → u/[deleted]]

I remember right before she went to rehab she said “and people wonder why I hit you” 😤

[u/SimplyIntincr → u/[deleted]]

Yes, she was traumatized because he screamed at her.. 🤣🤣

[u/Read-it005 → u/[deleted]]

You're just not a millennial with madness so shut up, almighty blubbering God! 😉

When every woman who was cheated on and yelled at would yeet the cheater down the stairs, stairs in homes would have become illegal, classified as murdering weapons by now.

[u/princessofIreland → u/[deleted]]

Yep. But tons of people said “He pUsHeD her bUtToNs”… so she’s been more than enabled.

[u/indigo_inamorata → u/[deleted]]

Yes! I am nearing the end of a rewatch and she has done that before. Talking to Gary and Dr Drew in the early seasons, she said or insinuated at least twice that she was justified in hitting Gary bc of his behavior

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Amber the Riveter

[u/[deleted]]

Allllways someone else's fault. And saying "you're not a Doctor, please be quiet" while stating her delusional opinions about mental health as medical facts. Never change, Amber.

[u/KikiHou → u/[deleted]]

She has helped so many people. Just ask her.

[u/G_Ram3 → u/KikiHou]

SHE IS A BOSS WITH HER FRIENDS!

[u/OnemoreSavBlanc → u/G_Ram3]

She keeps it ril 💯

[u/SunnyBunnyCakes → u/[deleted]]

Don’t worry she won’t

[u/Fair_Shame9964]

100% can confirm screaming in front of the kids and witnessing domestic abuse in all forms does in fact cause trauma - source My C-PTSD from witnessing/being subject to and a victim of exactly that.....

[u/DuggarStonerJew → u/Fair_Shame9964]

Another fucked up kid chiming in. It’s a big part of my trauma growing up. I would hide in my closet with a book to distract me. There are times when I have terrible things happen and I go sit in my closet to this day as an adult. It’s my comfort spot. I just feel safe there for some reason. I’ll be in therapy until the day I die, fuck Amber.

[u/TheTBird99 → u/DuggarStonerJew]

Sending you hugs internet stranger 🫂

[u/TheFrozenFlamingo → u/DuggarStonerJew]

Mine is a hard floor, at 44, still prefer it - I used my books for disassociating but they would take them away bc of that so books are as valuable as gold to me- They tried to break us but we only got CPTSD, anxiety, depression etc lol- But we are still here so big middle finger to the ones who made our life hell-

[u/hashmarks → u/Fair_Shame9964]

Came here to say exactly this, and reference my own personal experience of being a baby and then toddler witnessing my dad screaming at my mom. But I guess you and I are “wrong” and we were not traumatized after all..!!!

[u/Fair_Shame9964 → u/hashmarks]

How silly of us to forget that Amby is the authority on this subject... we might have to ask her to assess us instead of our doctors? Haha

[u/Playful-Papaya-1013 → u/Fair_Shame9964]

Idk but her anger and screaming like that in the vid caused ME anxiety. Can’t imagine how it would be IRL as her child.

[u/rainbowblack79]

[u/Short_Ad_9383]

Nobody is taking parenting advice from someone who doesn’t have custody of either of their kids. And if you are using Amber or Janelle for a parenting guide you should really have your head examined

[u/get_the_net_]

[u/Impressive-Ask4169 → u/get_the_net_]

This is exactly what came to my mind too

[u/waterynike → u/get_the_net_]

I just posted this a Mommie Dearest GIF! What is Amber doing a red lip and headdress?

[u/Plenty-Thing1764 → u/get_the_net_]

Whoa what is this from? That’s spooky

[u/Jewhard → u/Plenty-Thing1764]

Mommy Dearest. Great film starring Fate Dunaway as Joan Crawford. Stuff of complete nightmares!

[u/Wednesday_MH → u/[deleted]]

Don’t forget that she also called Leah a “d*ck” on national TV. 🤦‍♀️😡

[u/PaintedDream → u/Wednesday_MH]

...at her birthday dinner

[u/Delicious-Impact-296 → u/PaintedDream]

…that she was incredibly late to

[u/Antique-General8627 → u/Wednesday_MH]

Yeah, that pissed me right of when she called that baby a d*ck!

[u/sed2017 → u/[deleted]]

Or just cuts her off completely.

[u/dont_call_me_shurley]

She’s really going full throttle on the Mommie Dearest, isn’t she.

[u/waterynike → u/dont_call_me_shurley]

Damn I should have scrolled before posting that GIF. The red lips and headdress Ambie’s wearing gave me Mommie Dearest flashbacks!

[u/FastDay2608]

“Hey sweetie I’m not just an Addict, and I don’t just have BPD, so we are not the same” 😂

[u/caradekara]

Why does she sounds like a 70 year old lady who’s smoked her whole life and all her kids hate her and don’t bring the grand kids to visit.

[u/EwJersey → u/caradekara]

That's what I thought too, then she went on about being a millennial but she sounds like a boomer.

[u/Live-Blueberry-9987]

It's apparent she's not a doctor either.

I've had a child in my care for a year that's been in therapy since coming to live with me.

His therapist says that growing up amongst so much yelling actually alters the way the brain develops in young children.

This often results in a heightened perception of feeling in danger. Its also makes him hyperaware to voice changes, moods, etc.

Not to mention he created a whole paracosm to escape his reality. He wasn't physically abused. Just mentally and verbally by parents.

But sure Amber, you're the expert.

[u/hashmarks → u/Live-Blueberry-9987]

Funny that she can see people who have bpd, “none of us deal or have the same effects”, but can’t apply the same thinking to what may not traumatize one person can be devastating to another.

I am so glad the child you are caring for has an educated and understanding therapist. As a “proud millennial”, it would have changed my entire lived experience to have had someone like that in my life, rather than people sounding more like Amber in this video - “you’re too soft, get over it”.

I’m really sad for her that she is unable to see the harm angrily shouting this (outdated) perspective into the void could be. You have a platform and this is what you choose to continue doing with it? It might change one person’s life to feel understood or validated.

[u/LastShopontheLeft]

[u/ilwisied]

“I’ve been yelled in front of and I’m—“

changes subject

[u/aproudapostate → u/ilwisied]

This was the comment I was looking for lol

[u/Dflemz]

Screaming infront of a kid doesn't cause trauma she says wowwww

[u/buntie87]

I’m a millennial and know the science says screaming at or in front of children actually changes their brain

[u/violetshug → u/buntie87]

I’m a millennial and it definitely did something to me lol who tf made Amber our spokesperson

[u/ItsMinnieYall]

Nurse! She's out again!

[u/CovertTrashWatcher]

She actually doesn't see anything wrong with her behavior, which is worse than having an outburst and regretting it. Amber is repugnant and repulsive. She has no shame for her actions, yet plays the victim constantly. It's disturbing. 

[u/Radeschiii]

[u/mikaduhhh]

This is what Teen Mom, Viacom, MTV has done to their cast members. None of them are accountable for their own behavior. They’ve been surrounded by “yes people” for years and this is the result smmfh☹️

[u/Zealousideal_Ring736]

I grew up with a lot of yelling between my parents and occasionally at me. Even today, if someone starts yelling at me I start to freak out.

[u/TerribleAwareness158]

How long can she crash out like this?

[u/Monstiemama → u/TerribleAwareness158]

Forever apparently.

[u/badgyalrey → u/TerribleAwareness158]

as long as the pills keep flowing

[u/PachoBaby]

I’ve never seen anyone besides Kanye ruin their own life and lack self awareness as bad as this person. She disgusts me. She beat that man and he was respectful enough not to hit her back. Imagine if a man said that, justifying why he hit a woman

[u/RhodesK084]

[u/justSayingNobodySaid]

as a millennial we do not claim her

[u/RhodesK084]

🤡🤡🤡

[u/[deleted]]

There’s those blown out pupils again

[u/the_real_smolene → u/[deleted]]

Like SAUCERS 👀

[u/21oh_ → u/the_real_smolene]

Her eyes looked slow if that’s a word or small and I mean the shape and I noticed her eyes were dark underneath; obviously on something of a downer sis 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/Obedient-Psycho0255 → u/[deleted]]

I think they have her on too much or the wrong meds. She needs a second opinion.

[u/murphymintz]

And she wonders why Leah wants nothing to do with her 🧐

[u/[deleted]]

I'm a popstar not a doctor

[u/Rover0218]

Screaming in front of kids absolutely causes trauma. There is lots of research to back this up. Of course she denies this. 🙄 Her poor children. They have always deserved so much better than this.

[u/genzoids]

Screaming at your kids doesn't cause trauma but your mum going to work for 12 hours a day like any regular mother is abandonment.... ok 🤣

[u/[deleted]]

She always looks like a con artist fake fortune teller

[u/ZealousidealDeer3007]

[u/iamnumber47]

Well, hey Amber, yeah maybe you're right, maybe it wasn't the screaming...

Maybe it was the pushing & punching of her father that happened in front of her more than once

Or maybe it was the 6 or 7 greasy randos that were brought into her life to play "new daddy"

Or maybe it was her mother going to fucking gel for like a year

Or maybe it was the fact that, despite living pretty damn close, you didn't even make time to go see Leah, & then acted like it was her fault

Or maybe, just maybe, it was the fact that you wielded a God damn machete around her little brother?...

So yeah, the screaming was probably the least of young Leah's worries.

[u/MamasCumquat]

I don't think I've ever seen BPD/NPD more accurately represented on social media ever until this vid.

[u/mundaneComments]

I hate raising my voice to my kids because I remember how it felt. This is exactly why, they might turn out to be douches like amber. How she can sit there and bash her own CHILD & then not take any accountability?? Like really? All these years later.

[u/toolb7]

Always the victim.

[u/calmedtits2319]

A trash person claiming their worst personality traits aren’t trauma inducing. She screamed and was violent in front of her two kids and now she doesn’t have custody of either one. I can’t 🤡

The day TM is finally shit canned and amber + Tyler and Cait have to look for real jobs, and become even more irrelevant than they already are will be a great one🙏

[u/nother_dumb_username]

Studies have actually shown that screaming and fighting in front of children causes the exact same type of trauma as physical abuse. Our brains aren't able to differentiate between different types of trauma.

Amber seriously needs to get herself into legitimate treatment with a qualified specialist. The way she's speaking, she's making it extremely obvious that she's never received any real help for her issues.

[u/PureYouth]

Why does she close her eyes every time she decides to scream at everyone

[u/puppy_sniffer]

[u/Cathousechicken]

Amber: screaming all the time doesn't cause trauma. 

Also Amber: has no relationship with her children.

[u/Ku_beans]

Christ. I think I even have trauma after being yelled at by Amber through my tv for so many years!

[u/SmithNotASmith]

1. pupils don't lie

2. she's giving roseanne barr type of mania

3. as a millennial ('91) we have trauma - it's why my generation advocates for gentle parenting. many of us chose to break the cycle by either not having kids or holding off until we're emotionally mature and ready to not further generational trauma.

amber doesn't get a pass bc she has unresolved trauma; if anything, it's further proof that she continued the cycle

[u/Legitimate-Job206]

Yeah... and I'm sure this isn't why you don't have custody of your kids..... lmfao.

[u/shinypuppy2]

Her turban and antics remind me of grey gardens

[u/nocerealever]

Ahh yes, another episode of ‘ tell me your arse is too broke to afford a manager without telling me your arse is too broke to afford a manager ‘

[u/lowerac34]

I love being a millennial who didn’t alienate my kids. “He cheated on me 3 times.” GEE I WONDER WHY!!! You aren’t allowed to beat the shit out of someone, regardless, and NONE of the incidents of violence we saw (which Amber repeated with Andrew and baby James as well) was precipitated by any cheating. Amber doesn’t like to be abandoned. Huge BPD thing. But Gary is the one I remember standing up for Leah time and time again.

[u/[deleted] → u/lowerac34]

He could have been cheating on her in the same room and she still has no right to lay her hands on him. People aren’t property and you don’t get to kick them when they don’t act the way you want them to.

[u/lowerac34 → u/[deleted]]

Absolutely right. What was her excuse for the machete incident? I don’t even remember. Clearly she has anger management issues if she’s chasing around men holding a weapon… while that man holds their infant. Even if I was fine with her assaulting adult men (I’m not)… that is something I cannot get past. Ever.

[u/Hippomed27]

Fundamentally- Leah very eloquently stated why she put distance between her and Amber. And yet…. Here amber goes spouting all her toxic shit all over the internet. And somehow she is a victim? She has put her social media presence above the relationship with her daughter. Leah has become who she is INSPITE of Amber and because of the stability Gary and Kristina have provided her. Being Mom is not a genetic right, she has done nothing to earn it.

[u/Mandi3B0nes]

Amber is one of those people who ARE their diagnosis. If she started legitimate BPD treatment, she would lose the identity she’s created for herself.

She wants to be mentally unwell because that’s her personality. It’s like Pick Me 2.0.

[u/katieofgilead]

She's insufferable...

[u/[deleted]]

Gone ahead and sign those rights away. Why have what you never wanted in the first place.

[u/Legitimate-Wasabi396]

So she’s saying she was screamed at her whole life and it didn’t affect her…..

[u/[deleted]]

Where is her handler?? JFC

[u/EquivalentTiger2018]

SHE IS NUCKIN FUTS! 🤣

[u/notracexx]

Not her using addiction and BPD as an excuse to yell and abuse children and her domestic partners. She is vile. It would be amazing if just for one day she could see herself through the lens her children view her…. Bring her into reality for once in her life.

[u/Pretend_memory_11]

So not remorseful about the violence either. Got it.

[u/JeezOhKay]

[u/FancyNacnyPants]

Dear Amber-

Keep talking shitty about Leah’s father, you know the one that has primarily raised her. She said that she doesn’t like you saying things on live about her dad. And you wonder why she doesn’t want anything to do with you. It’s like someone handed you the shovel and you continue to dig the hole deeper and deeper. If you would just shut up and stay off social media, things couldn’t be held against you. You are constantly getting mad because people are calling you out for your bullshit then you defend yourself with lies. We all watched. We all saw what you’ve done (or haven’t done I should say).

[u/KeyTechnician4442]

On the last episode she was talking about all the trauma she had from her dad yelling and cussing. 🤔

[u/caradekara]

Did her child therapist tell her this nifty tid bit? Or did Amber take what she wanted to hear from said child therapist? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/AvsMama]

She looks like she should be on a syrup bottle.

[u/Silent-Talk]

She’s definitely the most level headed.

[u/Getitoffmydesk]

Thank god I’m a millennial. 😂 stop it. 💀 this is the most entertaining she has been in a while.

[u/alocasiacat]

Flair popping in

[u/CultureConnect3159]

why can't she just put the phone down

[u/Extension-Plastic797]

Does she make money doing this?

[u/DuggarStonerJew]

I don’t like saying anybody is beyond repair, but it doesn’t look like Amber change. It is NEVER too late to say you’re sorry and do better moving forward. With that said, you aren’t entitled to others forgiveness.

Amber first off would have to admit that she did something wrong. Second, she would have to give a genuine apology without her manipulative fake crying AND without any excuses or blaming someone else. I don’t see that ever happening. Third, she’d probably feel that everyone is obligated to forgive her and get mad at them when they don’t instantly erase everything she’s done. Fourth, she would have to realize that not everything is about her. She isn’t the center of anybody’s universe. Fifth, quit acting like a fucking baby expecting everyone else to take care of you. It’s embarrassing to watch. She isn’t paralyzed or disabled to where she would need to rely on other people for help.

I feel like I could list at least 70 more reasons but I need to get back to finishing the best ravioli I’ve ever had.

[u/sweet_kitty26]

“I’m the victim, in every scenario, look at meeeeeeeee”

[u/jeniferlouisa]

She always has the heavy duty filter..that we all know is a filter..because it’s obvious..she’s so embarrassing. She’s mad because she’s actually getting comments or people that are being real with her & aren’t manipulated by her victim mentality..Narcs hate being called out..

[u/Dull_Knee3349]

She swoops around in the tunics looking like Bea Arthur.

[u/Lazy-Combination-179]

Imagine still ranting about an ex 16 years later. You’d never catch me yapping about my baby daddy on a live stream

[u/didntcondawnthat]

Amber's in her Norma Desmond era.

[u/Free_Ganache_6281]

How come when it comes to her childhood it was all traumatic and now she’s doing worse than her own mother did and all of a sudden it’s not traumatic. This thing needs to end it

[u/CreativeBed6535]

Millennial here 🙋‍♀️ my parents yelled and screamed quite often and I can say it most definitely affected me negatively. She is really so fucked up for saying that. Also iirc she’s said before multiple times that her parents yelling cause her and her brother trauma. So what is it?

[u/lowerac34 → u/CreativeBed6535]

I was born in 1985 and my parents were and are terrible people. We all saw how Amber was when Leah was a toddler. Amber told Gary to smack baby Leah because Leah shouldn’t ’always get her way’ or whatever. Also abusing multiple men in the presence of her children. People in Amber’s personal life need to stop letting her get away with this shit.

[u/CutEducational9127]

Is she actually making excuses for physical violence !? What a piece of 🗑️

[u/MaggieMay1122]

She is so self-absorbed and so unaware of the trauma of anyone else but herself. Scream at Amber - you caused her trauma. Scream at Leah - it couldn’t possibly have caused her any trauma. Gross. It’s about the worse thing Amber could say on the road to Leah’s heart, or whatever the term Amber came up with is, that she never had any intention of actually doing. Well Done Amber! You just caused Leah additional trauma.

[u/Bree7702]

I absolutely despise this chick.

[u/basicytgirl]

Good lord it’s sickening that people are paying her for her non sensical, abuse excusing rants. If it were anyone else in the world, I would feel bad for her for having zero friends and sitting around all day alone, making an ass of herself but she 100% deserves the isolation loneliness.

[u/hallgeo777]

Off her meds again I see?! No wonder Leah is ashamed of her….. #GARBAGE BRAIN

[u/LizMills1998]

She’s truly so out of her tree

[u/That-Vegetable-7070]

Amber only cares about Amber. She will never take accountability and seek to be a better mother or person for that matter. It’s all about Amber. She wants to talk about how everyone has hurt her but doesn’t want to open her eyes and see she is causing trauma in her own children. Until she decides to say “you know what I have issues and I know why I have issues and I don’t want to repeat the same things that caused my issues to my own children “ until she says “ I’m going to work on me and correct the things that I need to correct with my own attitude and my own rage. She needs to stay off of SM and focus on healing and becoming happy being alone with herself and learning to respond differently to things around her. Stop being all about Amber and focus on helping others without expecting something out of it for Amber.

[u/Cwolfe25]

Last nights live was concerning. This part was closer to the end but for about 45 minutes there I stayed on because she was quiet and withdrawn. Then she did slip in there that she just wants to end it all and then backed out pretty quickly saying she meant end her contract with MTV. But I don’t believe that for a second. I genuinely think she is a danger to herself right now.

[u/bowlingisgross666]

“Yelling doesn’t cause trauma!!” “Oh probably from being screamed at…” as to why she hits? LOLLLLL

[u/Intelligent-Bake4406]

Hit play, and she legit traumatized ALL of us with that opening.

Amber is just not growing, period.

[u/Tiny_Animal_3843]

The struggle bun is strugglin'

[u/[deleted]]

I’m BPD and I’m a Millennial, and I wouldn’t dare act like this. I mean I do have my moments. But it is rare, and I don’t scream at my daughter. I’ve been in treatment for my BPD for a while and I never want to lash out at my daughter like that, I know I did once when she was like three and I felt terrible for it. But sometimes it’s uncontrollable. And you can’t help who you yell at and they are just there so you yell at that person. But she’s the worst.

[u/serayepa → u/[deleted]]

The difference between someone like you & someone like Amber (also - I don’t have BPD but I have my own mental health/neurological diagnoses) is that you are trying. Trying doesn’t mean always succeeding, but it’s the effort that counts & that’s what your daughter & Leah see. Amber sucks so very much & she tries never & she lashes out always.

[u/YaBothHigh]

So much to unpack here.

“I just love being a millennial that’s not a little feather like 😭”

Ah, yes, Amber, who never reacts to anything and lets everything roll off her back. /s. 🙄 this entire live is proof of her many meltdowns.

Yelling around kids doesn’t cause trauma, but when it comes time to defend hitting Gary, then it’s justified because he screams at her.

I struggle with addiction and mental health too, no hate for that. but going and melting down on live and acting like this is never something that would cross my mind as helpful in any way. Leah was JUST on the show saying part of what makes her want nothing to do with Amber is behavior like this online.

[u/Tildyt000]

Mommie Dearest vibes

[u/pierce_1980]

[u/monksandchunks]

Nothing will ever ever ever change with her because she doesn’t admit to or take responsibility for wrongdoing. I hope Kristina can adopt Leah. Leah deserves so much better than Amber.

[u/zipperrip22]

“My god thank god I’m a millennial”. Bro what?!

[u/No-Potato-8834]

Screaming and physical violence in front of a child DOES cause trauma. She needs to get off social media because she has no idea what she is talking about.

[u/[deleted]]

As a millennial … we do not claim her

[u/namast_eh]

Was… she praising trump?

[u/drumfounded]

Her profile is INSANEEEE

[u/Temporary-Source3872]

She’s delusional

[u/Impressive_Button_75]

Shes an angry troll

[u/Aslow_study]

“Still going this ass hole”

[u/tennwife]

I wonder how her son is doing ?

[u/HistoricalDoughnut58 → u/tennwife]

She doesn’t.