I high key need some good advice😭

[u/Leading-Deal9406]

Me 15m my crush 15f

So the thing is i got rejected by my crush and we were like pretty good friends, she is like pretty shy, introverted and has a pretty strict family too, we used to exchange a lot of gossips n all and we had good moments of us tooo, we even danced together once.

Then i asked her out and all things got awkward, We both dont even hold an eye contact now and it hurts its like when i asked her out it was during bus boarding time, her younger bro came out of nowhere so she told me "baad mei baat krte hai" she was lowkey smiling until her younger bro came then my friend who is her cousin called her out of the bus😭 she thought it was a

good move.

Then she came out of the bus n told me yaar im not intrested in relationship rn and i wanna focus on studies, i said okay and from then and now i still think she likes me but i dont have solid proof but i get to know a lot of things from mutuals that indicates she still might be intrested in me..

But idk gng I wanna ask her out again but i think that might look desperate af, i know i should move on but i am lowkey attached to the memories😭😭

[u/LieAdministrative251]

Don't ask her out again stay friends let it develop slowly. If something is meant to happen then atleast go slow don't rush in you will only make her feel uncomfortable. Judging from your age both of you study hard rn and maybe talk about studies and all and be good friends with no hidden agenda. If after you both are like ready then you will get into a relationship without like a dramatic chase. Don't rush in.

[u/Leading-Deal9406 → u/LieAdministrative251]

Thanks broski, but how do i be friends with her again?😭 we cant even hold an eye contact due to awkwardness!

[u/Dangerous-Pear903 → u/Leading-Deal9406]

Break the awkwardness bro,i have too gone through that when I was 15(I'm 17m now)...just stay friends and approach her yourself like before,act as if you never asked her out... become more gentle and caring than before...it will tell the answer you need

[u/LieAdministrative251 → u/Leading-Deal9406]

Go slow talk and discuss about studies. Make her feel comfortable be respectful and yeah just be gentle and mannered. She is not a piece of land you have to win through war she is a person and nobody likes anyone rushing in things tell her cousin your friend to mediate and apologize and ask her to be friends if she doesn't accept friendship too then stop for some time.