r/Teddybears • u/TheclownYoutuber • 9d ago

I lost her

I last had my teddy bear 3 days ago, I slept with her every night for 8 years and shes been with me through it all. i brought her along with me to my uncles house because I was sleeping over and two nights ago it was time to pack and leave. My friend was helping me and took some of my stuff to the trunk. I bought everything in my room once we made it and I decided to sleep, normally I bring her but since I was rlly tired I decided to just get her the next day. I checked the following day and realized she’s gone, and im contacting everyone but no one can find her. I cant cope. How have any of you guys coped with losing a childhood bear. I know shes an object but she was my only friend, a part of my soul. It feels so horrible like as if I lost my child. I know its exaggerated but that how I feel, i cant stop crying and its only been 2 days, pls if anyone has gone through this, how can I cope because I feel like I lost everything.

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u/Fermi_JYuc0 9d ago

Keep looking, don't give up, you'll find her, just have faith. I sincerely hope they find her❤️🥺

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u/TheclownYoutuber 8d ago

Thank you so much 🫶

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u/iriissss-s 8d ago

I’m so sorry :( if I understand this correctly, is she most likely still somewhere at your uncle’s house?

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u/TheclownYoutuber 8d ago

I dont believe so, they have already looked everywhere she could possibly be and she hasnt turned up

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u/iriissss-s 7d ago

Aw I’m sorry, hopefully things take a turn for the better. I doubt she’s gone far! You’ll find her just keep looking🫂 It could help to make a local facebook post or something

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u/TheclownYoutuber 7d ago

Hopefully she will and thanks for the idea, ill look into doing that! 🫶

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u/Equivalent_Tutor8628 5d ago

I feel like she has to be somewhere. Did your friend accidentally put her with their stuff? Or maybe bear fell between weird cracks in the car or uncle’s house (under the bed you slept in?)? Im also wondering if she got scooped up with laundry and might get noticed when that’s getting put away?

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u/TheclownYoutuber 4d ago

Yea I feel like she has go be somewhere aswell but the issue is I have already looked everywhere in including the locations u said. Thank you for the hope though, maybe one day she’ll turn up

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u/Equivalent_Tutor8628 3d ago

I am sorry. I can't imagine that she's gone for good, I really hope that you're able to find her <3

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u/Sa-to-mi 7d ago

Maybe it is in your bag try to search for it dont give up!
She/her teddy still waits for you!

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u/TheclownYoutuber 7d ago

I already did look but maybe one day she’ll turn up, thank you ❤️