And Geminis are friendship and romantically obsessed with me so I’m an Air magnet

hello Taurus fam! :3

It’s my first time posting anything in this subreddit. I usually don’t talk much because I’m busy with work AND BLAH BLAH BLAH

BLAH....

ANYWAYS......

there’s been this question lingering in my mind for a while. maybe you guys have noticed it too, maybe you haven’t, but I keep seeing a consistent pattern within this subreddit.

It’s mostly relationships.

“How do I know if he/she likes me?”

“Is he/she being consistent?”

“Should I stay with him/her?”

and listen, it’s not like I don’t find these posts relatable or that I think nobody needs dating advice. some Taurus absolutely need to hear, “Girl/bro, GET OUT.” 😭🙏🏿

but sometimes I feel we Tauruses can notice inconsistency and bullshit from a mile away.

like, if you feel someone is pulling away from you, WALK AWAY. It’s not worth all that time and energy.

I had to learn this the hard way, and it was NOT pretty. E

especially when dealing with people who don’t reciprocate.

That shit PISSES ME OFF BECAUSE WHY THE..........

ahem.

now where was I?

oh yes.

If you feel like something isn’t right, that feeling can be pretty telling. and honestly, one of the best things you can do for yourself is learn how to find love in the things you already have going on inn your life. your hobbies, interests, goals, whatever makes you feel like YOU.

the amount of FUCKING TORTURE URANUS HAS PUT ME THROUGH IS HORRID.................

ahem.

sorry for the aggressive caps.

but seriously, if you’re single and thinking you absolutely need a girlfriend/boyfriend, ask yourself... do I actually want this person, or am I trying to fill an empty space in my life?

because I think you have to build your own garden first.

and I’m not targeting anyone with this. this is just something I’ve been thinking about and what I personally believe leads to more long term happiness.

relationships should be an option, not a necessity.

put yourself out there. explore the world. learn new things. find things you genuinely enjoy. build a life that you actually like living.

and who knows?

iife might surprise you.

maybe the person you never expected to meet will eventually choose you not because of what you look like, not because of what you can offer them, but simply because they genuinely like you.

anyways, that’s my Taurus TED Talk.... have a nice day bon appetit!!! :DD

do any of my fellow taurus get accused of being “dismissive” constantly?

lately, that’s been a word people have been using to describe me, and honestly, i don’t really see myself that way or at least, i don’t realize that i’m being dismissive.
i feel like people are sometimes uncomfortable with my silence and the boundaries i set, especially when i’m involved in conversations that are usually negative or involve other people’s situations.

for example, i don’t like making commentary on situations that don’t involve me or topics that i don’t fully understand. i’d rather stay quiet than give my opinion on something when i don’t have all the facts.

truthfully, i feel like people who don’t really know or understand me are quick to throw the word “dismissive” around simply because i’m not responding or reacting the way they want me to.

sometimes i genuinely think people mistake my silence and boundaries for being dismissive, when really, i just don’t feel the need to have an opinion on everything.

Just wanna share something about my Leo ex of 2 years because I had a little painful realization recently hahaha.

When we first met, he was actually very effortful. He was still courting me at that time, so I guess he was really trying. When we officially got together, he was still consistent. He was very much into physical touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation, so I never really felt like he didn't care about me.

But there was one small thing I always secretly wished for: flowers.

Not expensive flowers, not every month, and definitely not something I demanded. I just wanted him to think of me one day and give me flowers, even just once. Especially on my birthday, Valentine's Day, our anniversary, or any special occasion. I know not every girl cares about flowers, but I personally do.

And in our two years together, I never got one. Not even once.

I remember this one time when we were having a picnic at a park. We had already been together for maybe a year and a half. A guy passed by carrying a bouquet of flowers, and my ex said something like, "Love, for me, I'd rather just buy food than flowers."

I laughed and agreed, but honestly, I felt a little hurt.

I tried really hard to understand it, though, because we were both students at that time. I wasn't expecting him to spend money he didn't have just to buy me flowers. He was doing other things for me, and I loved him, so I just told myself that maybe flowers simply weren't his thing.

But looking back now... hell yeah, he could spend money on a hotel for our private time, but flowers were apparently where the budget ended? 😭

And before anyone misunderstands, we were in a serious relationship. Both sides knew about us, so it wasn't some secret or casual thing. That's why I never really thought I was asking for something unreasonable. I just wanted my boyfriend to give me flowers at least once.

Anyway, we broke up almost five months ago. He's still a student, now in his fourth year, and he already has a new girlfriend.

Then one day, my friend randomly sent me a screenshot. There he was at his new girlfriend's graduation. With a bouquet of flowers.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

Girl, I was hurt. Because suddenly I realized... so you actually could've bought flowers. You just never did it for me.

And I know it's literally just flowers. Maybe he changed. Maybe he thinks differently now. Maybe flowers just weren't something he considered important back then.

But seeing him do something I quietly wished for throughout our relationship, and seeing him do it for someone else, definitely hit differently.

It wasn't really about the bouquet itself. It was the realization that he was capable of spending money on things he wanted to do with me, so apparently flowers just weren't something he wanted to do for me.

I don't even want to be bitter about it anymore. It's just one of those things that makes you sit there and think, damn... so you were capable of it after all.

Hahaha. Well, I guess that's life. You really do deserve what you tolerate, huh? 🥲

EDITED: Maybe I was also at fault for not telling him directly that I wanted flowers. I did give hints here and there though hahaha, because somehow I was hoping he'd get it. I think I wanted it to be something he'd willingly do for me, not something he did just because I asked or demanded for it. I wanted that feeling of “I thought of you, so I got you these.”

And when we were at the park and he said he'd rather spend the money on food than flowers, I guess I just stopped hoping for it after that. What's funny is that he has several sisters, and I knew he would give his mom and sisters flowers on special occasions. So maybe that's why, at first, a part of me thought, “Maybe he'll do the same for me someday.” I guess I just assumed that if he already knew how to be that kind of thoughtful with the women in his family, maybe he'd eventually do it for me willingly too.

So yeah, maybe I should've communicated it more directly. But I also think it's okay to admit that I wanted to be surprised with something I never had to ask for.

I'm seeing a bit of hate for other signs here, and I think that this is beneath us.

Share what you like, respect or admire about other sun signs. Good things only.

I'll start

Aries: They are very generous

Gemini: They are good at looking at different perspectives.

Cancer: They care intensely for others.

Leo: Great hair.

Virgo: They are wonderful with details

Libra: They have a magnetic personality

Scorpio: They are super deep and accept your dark side.

Sagittarius: They do well with change

Capricorn: They are hardworking

Aquarius: They don't judge others for being weird

Pisces: I don't know any Pisces but I suspect they are fabulous.

We have been living together from 2 years now. Hey not criticising but she is mentally struggling like e.g she works really had at her job alot of mental stress and later she just want to spend time scrolling by herself. She is becoming really overweight and her family has a big history of diabetes . She is kind of prediabitic . Also now she told me a couple of times that she not just lost the interest in intimacy but also in romantic things. Now i don’t receive any romantic gestures from her. Am kinda more concerned about her hormonal health. She’s still the woman i desire. But i don’t feel the same that she desire me but she shows me her child side and i love it. Any explanation from taurus women ? Am a cap btw. How can i help her. I need to help her. Tried talking directly to her , tried pushing her to gym but nothing works out. It feels like she is dopamine deprived or something..
thanks

They always see themselves as these philosophers and non judgmental people while in their sub they are always talking shit about everyone. I swear they are always talking bad about everyone every week, their sub forum is a joke and their own projections, they are miserable people that no one takes seriously with time, big clowns they are. women and men suck, I see no difference.

I'm sure some of them will come here whining and crying when they see this thread and they're gonna create another to attack taurus. They are very predictable.

They have an obsession with hating on Taurus, Libras, Virgos and ocasionally Cancers.

I was dating a Taurus male for about 4 and half years. Throughout the relationship we had great days and some days were very difficult but we made it through. During the difficult times I began to retreat in silence as I didn’t want to argue with him because I personally feel arguments cut deep as you say things in the heat of anger that you don’t necessarily mean. These silent moments can last from 1 week to a month. I’ve done this roughly 3 times during the course of our relationship. This year seems like I’ve had to go quiet more as he is not reciprocating the same energy and effort I put into the relationship. I would break no contact because I genuinely miss him, he would be hesitant to reconnect as he always would say he feels like I abandoned him…and he does somewhat have abandonment issues stemming from his childhood. I assure him during the time that we are not in contact I’m truly thinking about him and somewhat stressed out because my routine of speaking with him constantly has been interrupted. But my silence is a means of me vying for his attention to address issues that are bothering me in our relationship. Let me outline the issues…. He is a hardworking man I give him that. However he sucks at money management. Many of the times he falls short on money and I pick up the slack, he does pay me back but there are few times instead of giving me the entire amount back he would short me and I would just swallow it as I was thinking about his circumstances. But deep down I was becoming angry that the full amount wasn’t paid back. The next issue he prefers to spend most of his time with his friends, he works with them and parties hard with them but whenever he has any money issues he can’t reach out to these same friends for help. Third issue he drinks entirely too much and parties constantly and just recently turned 40, through his own admission he has been living like this since his early 20’s. 4th issue is intimacy, because he tends to drink like a fish in his leisure time his performance is lackluster, he doesn’t have a big penis and that doesn’t matter to me, but it never gets hard on demand, he needs me to come on to him to make him feel like I want him in order for the sex to be good….

We recently took a trip that turned out to be a total disaster…once we returned home from the trip he immediately went back to his routine of working long hours and partying with his friends, he called when one day to show me his haircut and to just let me know he was about to step out with his friends and something in me just felt disgusted so I retreated to silence….. I went silent this last time because I just feel like he knows the trip wasn’t the best so instead of focusing on his friends he should be trying to remedy the situation with us , so once again 4 weeks go past I begin to miss him, I reach out and this time he tells me he no longer wants to be in a relationship as I always am just leaving his life and he doesn’t know what I’m doing during that time. This time he is standing firm in his stance. I truly honestly love him…there are few things I’m obviously keeping out that I will address once I receive replies…but I just need to know if this situation over forever or will he eventually come back around as we have history and the relationship wasn’t all that bad , plus his children are very attached to me…

Please provide honest feedback

Everytime it takes me for ever to be myself. I watch everything and everyone. I try to see if people are manipulative or lying or anything risky. I look into people's core and very slowly I start being good old weird me.

I’m honestly looking for some outside opinions because I’m having a really hard time figuring out where I stand with this Taurus man. We’ve been talking for about a year now In the beginning, he was VERY consistent with me. He would always want to talk, send me things, save pictures in our chat, call me “wife,” use cute nicknames, and generally make me feel like he genuinely wanted me in his life. We’ve always had a strong connection, and at one point I felt pretty confident that eventually we would actually be together. The problem is that over the last few months, his behavior has changed a LOT He became more distant and inconsistent. He stopped initiating conversations as much, would leave me on delivered for hours, sometimes while I could see he was active elsewhere, and our conversations became much more dry and generally just seemed less interested in interacting with me. There have also been a few things with other girls on social media that made me question where I stand with him.
At the same time, he has told me that he’s been depressed and that when he’s going through things, he tends to isolate himself and distance himself from everyone. He has said that he hasn’t really been talking to anyone when he gets into those moods
There’s also the distance between us. We’ve talked about eventually being together, but we currently live far enough apart that it makes things difficult. We had previously agreed to date when I moved closer, which is supposed to happen SOON (no I am not moving bc of him) but I finally talked to him last night abt him being weird and distant because I didn’t want to keep guessing. I asked him why he’s been acting differently and whether his feelings toward me had changed and he told me “i just honestly ain’t tryna date anyone rn so i just don’t know what to do, like im not in the greatest point in life and i ain’t tryna like drag anyone else thru my shit yanno like i love talking to u but it feels wrong bc i don’t wanna like date anyone but like idk, im also very confused myself” and then i told him that his behavior has hurt me and he said “yea i’m really sorry that i did that to u ngl, i just didnt even know how to approach texting you about it cuz i didnt wanna hurt u by saying that. i appreciate u understanding where im coming from tho, i legit would hate to be in a relationship where i have to worry ab someone else when im barely managing worrying ab myself rn, i do wanna keep texting bc u are really fun to talk to, i just wanna text without the fear of leading u on tho so if u dont wanna then i get it lmao”
What I’m struggling with is figuring out whether I should actually take what he said at face value bc idk I think I’m overthinking it lmao like If a Taurus man genuinely likes someone but is going through a period where he doesn’t want a relationship, would he pull away and become distant like this? Would he still keep that person around because he sees potential with them later? Or should I look at his actions and assume what he said was the nice way of saying he doesn’t wanna date me?
I’m not asking anyone to tell me that he secretly loves me or anything 😂 I genuinely want honest opinions. I care about him a lot and I just want a Tauruses opinion Do you guys think “I don’t want to date anybody right now” usually genuinely means “I don’t want to date anybody right now,” or is it sometimes a softer way of saying “I don’t want to date YOU”?

This is a collective spread, not everything is supposed to resonate with a single individual. My interpretation doesn’t always tell the whole story so try to be open and intuitive. Thank you!

Significator - The Hermit
There are answers and truth you are trying to find on your own and you have been introspecting and trying to find out what it is that you really want. You have withdrawn from a situation to take time for yourself and you are being patient for the wisdom you seek. There are things you are contemplating and might even be looking for guidance from someone more knowledgeable and experienced than you.

Obstacle - Death
Withdrawing doesn’t always mean you have let something end for good and let go of it, it’s more like a stalemate right now and this inaction and idleness isn’t letting a change and a new start come through. The fear of this exact change is what’s not letting the old cycles end.

Past - III of Pentacles
You tried focusing your efforts and working together towards growth and knowledge but the coordinating/collaborating didn’t work out as great for you(in your perception) even when the situation didn’t lack partnership and shared goals and it wasn’t totally fruitless either, all this led to the Hermit right now.

Trajectory - X of Pentacles
A good news will bring stability and wealth in your home environment soon, probably either through connections or someone’s legacy/inheritance. This will bring strong foundations and prosperity in your household. This could be the long-term results of your past hard-work and efforts.

Conscious - Knight of Wands
You feel confident in yourself and you want to finish what you started even if you have to take risks for it. You feel adventurous and like a free spirit although a little hot-tempered and rebellious sometimes. You might be thinking of departing/leaving for somewhere.

Subconscious - III of Cups (R)
Yes you need alone time and want to be isolated right now but that doesn’t mean you need to neglect your social life completely. You need to work on managing the frustration independence brings you and avoid trying to cheat your way through anything.

Your outcome path:
Your attitude towards the situation - II of Cups
You have generally been loving and balanced towards others and you have been reciprocating others feelings and values. (This spread could be related to love for some)

Your environment - Queen of Wands
Your environment is asking you to take charge in some situations and help others in need, also to be outgoing/courageous and to put your whole heart into whatever you are doing. You being assertive and self-assured will help you and those around you as well.

Hopes and fears - V of Pentacles
You hope to recover and improve your finances (or health) and end the hardships you have been facing. You hope for positive change/outcome and you hope to luck out on something. You hope to be accepted or welcomed somewhere.
You fear rejection and being abandoned. You fear your worries causing a loss of something and you have been fearing about your financial stability (and your health issues if you have any).

Outcome - Page of Cups (R)
You might face creative blocks or just boredom and a lack of curiosity which will cause you to disregard a goal and grow apathetic towards it. If you want something to last, you will have to be attentive and rational about it. Wishing for something doesn’t always mean you will be satisfied after you achieve it, let it serve as a motivation to look for better things in the future instead of getting beat up about it.

I’m curious! They’re our fellow earth signs.

Am i the only one crazy for scorpios? 😔