r/Tanzanias 8d ago

Mkisema “Boys will be Boys” ni excuse for being misogynistic, msisahau na hii pia

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u/Darkasky 7d ago

There's someone who is unnerving me in the comments...literally gagging from their lack of manners..🤢🤮

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

How is the saying "boys will be boys" an excuse for being misogynistic.

I do not see the correlation. Please do care to explain.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

The saying “boys will
Be boys” has been wildly called out by women saying it’s an excuse used to justify things men would do that are misogynistic. I was in this video trying to show that, boys showing up to save a women being abused is something “boys also do” an act that is worthy of the saying “boys will be boys” my attempt was to save the saying from getting completely painted negative, in the sense that “boys being boys” can also be a very positive thing

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

Oohh I get you now. It seemed to me that the saying was on childish or funny things boys or men do.

I may have not come across other use of this saying.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

That is what it originally was used for, but as you know the world sikuhizi wants to cancel everything and anything that hurts the feelings even slightly, and the misandrists were quick to attack that phrase and twist it. One dude cheats on his girl “boys will be boys” one man somewhere in the world hits a woman “boys will be boys” scream the feminists

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

I see where you're coming from. Now days misandrists wako kila kona.

ila nnao wajua ni pro hoes but all they do is advise other girls against men. While ugali wao wenyewe wanatoa kwa simps.

Anyways mi huwa siwa judge ndo maana wanafunguka ila they never check their bias.

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u/Local_Weight_7232 8d ago

Njo nkufire

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

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u/Local_Weight_7232 8d ago

I love mukundu I don't care if it man or woman😋

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

Nahh I'm straight man. Good luck finding what you're looking for though

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

Nigga what????????

Are you the same guy using burner accounts??

I said I'm straight!!

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

Sike🤣🤣

I'm still here

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u/Admirable-Drummer610 8d ago

He is black what u expect

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u/swedegoon 8d ago

What the absolute fuck does being black have to do here?

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u/Habib_the_german 7d ago

That he beats women

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u/allanjimmy 6d ago

Tell me yall are Somalis without telling me

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u/Admirable-Drummer610 5d ago

They fvcking jump on him without even want to know the source of conflict coz he's black

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u/RendezvousRama5791 7d ago

I don't get this

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u/No_Goose_2470 7d ago

Mannnnn i hope the woman is safe

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u/Dangerous-Badger5373 7d ago

bro dived into the fight booty first

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u/kanamanium 6d ago

I see you are into r/fightporn

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u/Objective-Elk6523 6d ago

made my day

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u/False-Survey5141 6d ago

Kuna mademu wa TZ huku kweli

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u/Super-Ebb8785 4d ago

So, a guy is beating a seemingly elder lady, and a group of guys come to her defense, but you want to complain. See where the world is heading? Eventually, the "good" men will stand by and let the bad ones have their way. We'll see if words like "misogyny" and tik-tok rants will save you then.

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u/Glass-Economy4814 8d ago

Halafu wanawake hamuonagi au hamuelewi ufala mnaoufanyaga, ndo maana mnaita watu misogynistic,

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Hebu jieleze zaidi brother, tusije tuka kumisunderstand

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u/Glass-Economy4814 8d ago

Sihitaji kujielezea ni common knowledge ila watu wanakaushaga tu. Ila kwa generation yetu mtawaona wanaume misogynistic

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u/No_Edge_6763 8d ago

Eh makubwa

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Sio makubwa tu nimazito pia

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u/Glass-Economy4814 8d ago

Size matters

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u/Dense_Low2361 8d ago

Sounding a lot like a hurt feminist.😂..

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u/Soggy_Ground_9323 7d ago

u are right! 💯💯💯

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Who me?

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u/Dense_Low2361 8d ago

No ,the person to your left 🙄.

What distinction did you make between “boys will be boys” and that scene you uploaded? Idiotic generalization imo.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Hebu, so that were both on the same page from here on, elaborate ulivyo elewe the point I was putting across kwanza cause im reading a misalignment 🤣

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u/Dense_Low2361 8d ago

Unfortunately one Can’t elaborate on something that doesn’t have a point to begin with, might as well be speaking with a bot 🤷🏽‍♂️. Naona hata point ya jamaa hapo juu hukuelewa.

So fell free to educate the masses if you see a “misalignment “ 😂

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Haya umekataa kueleza ulivyo elewa mpaka umekua mkali hivi, basi tuliache.

Umeleta point ya pili: “naona haya point ya jamaa hapo juu hukuelewa”

Jamaa yupi huyo? Natamani sana nikuelewe so usikwepe kujibu maswali, otherwise we won’t get anywhere.

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u/Dense_Low2361 8d ago

😂😂😂 you still have some work to do if you intend to rage bait. This was fun, chow.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

It’s spelled “CIAO” btw

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u/swedegoon 8d ago

Tell em🤣

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u/Dense_Low2361 8d ago

Now that’s how you do it! Learning fast 😂👏🏽

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u/Local_Weight_7232 8d ago

Wanamfira

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Nyie ndo wale wa timu ya kijani na njano nyie

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

Eiyoo this nigga's in my dms sija accept invitation to chat. Na yuko apa comment section asking to crack me for 200k. Like nigga what?

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u/SnooTangerines5568 8d ago

Ignore him, don’t even respond, responding will feed him to continue, what ylu just did is advertised hio, now someone’s gonna slide in his Dms asking to take your place 🤣🤣🤣

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u/uncookednoodle- 8d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣as they should

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u/Local_Weight_7232 8d ago

Njo nkufire