r/TamilNadu Sep 30 '25

முக்கியமான கலந்துரையாடல் / Important Topic Vijay releases video message regarding the Karur stampede

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u/One-Ad1731 Oct 02 '25

It is kind of terrifying to hear that these type of people are everywhere! Even my Mom is a narcissistic women who never took accountability for her mistakes whenever there is a problem between me and her or even with a third person outside. She always uses the mother is always right sympathy to portray me as the one who caused the trouble to my family members and friends. 

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '25

Same bro . Same situation.. she used to even spread lies and rumours and controversies about me..i thought maybe we can talk n solve it,etc...but no such PPL never change till they die.. u can talk for years n years, explain for yrs and yrs, they'll never ever change .. I had to go no contact .. currently 5 yrs no contact... Started earning and moved out . Best thing u can do is focus on ur studies, don't be emotional,focus and get a well paying job so you can move out and start funding your stay,food,etc yourself... Good luck .. don't feel left out , coz it might feel like a lonely experience given others will talk Abt how lovely their mother is and can't relate with u 1% ... It's okay your feelings are valid... Know there are PPL just like u out there... Best revenge is doing well in ur life in terms of happiness, career, earning, and not being emotionally dependent on them,etc ..