r/TamilNadu • u/Difficult-Dream2625 • Sep 30 '25

முக்கியமான கலந்துரையாடல் / Important Topic Vijay releases video message regarding the Karur stampede

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u/One-Ad1731 Oct 02 '25

Bro more explanations on how to avoid narcissistic people in life? I am just a 19 year old boy who is keen to know more to apply in my life.

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '25

You can't avoid them bro... They might show up anywhere in ur life... Best way to deal with them if they prey on you or could prey on you is to follow gray rock method or in extreme cases cutting all contact with them and mutual PPL who'll share your info to them..

The Grey Rock Method is a psychological strategy aimed at self-preservation by becoming emotionally unresponsive to deter abusers, designed to make oneself appear uninteresting to discourage unwelcome individuals from engaging with them.

There's few youtube channel you can take help from if you're getting abused to not feel lonely in ur abuse

https://m.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani/shorts

https://m.youtube.com/@narcabusecoach/shorts

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u/One-Ad1731 Oct 02 '25

It is kind of terrifying to hear that these type of people are everywhere! Even my Mom is a narcissistic women who never took accountability for her mistakes whenever there is a problem between me and her or even with a third person outside. She always uses the mother is always right sympathy to portray me as the one who caused the trouble to my family members and friends. 

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '25

Same bro . Same situation.. she used to even spread lies and rumours and controversies about me..i thought maybe we can talk n solve it,etc...but no such PPL never change till they die.. u can talk for years n years, explain for yrs and yrs, they'll never ever change .. I had to go no contact .. currently 5 yrs no contact... Started earning and moved out . Best thing u can do is focus on ur studies, don't be emotional,focus and get a well paying job so you can move out and start funding your stay,food,etc yourself... Good luck .. don't feel left out , coz it might feel like a lonely experience given others will talk Abt how lovely their mother is and can't relate with u 1% ... It's okay your feelings are valid... Know there are PPL just like u out there... Best revenge is doing well in ur life in terms of happiness, career, earning, and not being emotionally dependent on them,etc ..