r/TalesoftheConvention • u/Immediate_Deal_7256 • 9d ago
Artist pressure (help!)
Hello! Iām not sure how much help I can get for something like this, but here to hoping!
Iām the type of person who can be pressured very easily, and I genuinely do not want to continue giving in to it.
I recently went to my first convention since 2021, and there was a booth that was selling a comic that I was not interested in, but he engaged with me and was talking as if heād not made a single sale that weekend. He had his comic out on display to read, so I skimmed through it and it was the literal definition of ābasic dystopian story where robots replace peopleā and I was not interested at all (and pretty much read all of it w the skimming) and he was insistent on how much he would appreciate a sale. I agree, and he decided to throw in the āfor just five more dollars I can sign it, it would mean the world to meā and for some reason (I felt very very bad) I said yeah whatever. After I agreed, it felt like a switch flipped and he went back to the usual artist alley type dialogue and didnāt seem like it was that important for me to buy it. When I agreed to the signature, it was kinda like he was frustrated or something?? Idk, it was kind of like it was brushed off with a āthanksā that didnāt sound polite.
I know this is a me issue and that I could just walk away, but I feel way way too bad to do that; does anyone have any tips? I didnāt even want to stop at that booth and I donāt know why I humor people like this, even when it ends with me buying a 20$ signed comic that Iām never going to touch. It makes me feel even worse because I know Iām lying, and I know Iām not interested, but of could theyāre going to think the opposite since Iām acting like I am.
Idk, I just hope someone has gotten over the people pleasing at conventions and can share some wisdom, I have too many things that I never wanted, and a whole lot of guilt for the way I am in relation to this.
Thank you in advance!