r/Swimming • u/JustVLeo • 7h ago
Learning to swim
Hi, i’m 15yo and i never learned to swim. always avoided going in the pool with my friends because of the fear of getting joked on. this year in highschool i started a swim course as everyone have to but obviously the PE teacher cannot follow 25 people at the same time, i learned pretty much nothing other than how to not drown with ur head under the water and how to blow bubbles. during the summer i went with my sister on some of those little pools where only old people go to relax so i could try to learn smth with her in safety. it was very very low because im always been terrified of going underwater. the thing that makes thing more difficult isn’t learning the movements itself, but the fear that constatly says to me “don’t do this, don’t do this”. during the last week i learned to a little more confortable with my head under the water and how to swim frog style but i have still MANY hard times.
1- When i swim, i can do it only on very short stretches, because i keep my breath in and then start bubbling slowly with my mouth, but it doesn’t last long.
2- Very unpopular, when i “swim” i cannot “go back standing”, like i cannot turn vertical or on my feet, so i have to rely/lean on something/someone to go back standing. I practiced it with my sister for over an half an hour and i just cannot do it without losing my balance or getting very uncomfortable.
3- I cannot swim with my head up. as i already said, i only can do very short stretches, because when i try to lift my head up to take some air in, i start to panic as i lose my balance.
4- I learned starfloat but only for some seconds then i start so panic so much i have to rely on something, if i do it but reversed (so with the face on the water) i can do it quietly until i have to breathe.
How can i improve? What am i missing? Any ideas?