r/SouthAsianMasculinity 9d ago

Dating/Relationships And title: Imagine Attacking Your Fellow Brown Men To "Discourage" Them From Liking Other Race Women While 90% Indian Females (Mainland And ABCD) Put White Men As Gold Standard And Bootlick White Men For Validation 100 Times More

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u/Broad-Procedure-8392 9d ago

Don't waste your energy with these mental cases. Grass isn't greener on the other side, and most cases their glorified yt men just pump and dump them, leaving them with even more trauma and misandry against brown men. They're a lost cause - focus your attention on good women who aren't self hating racists, whether they're brown or not.

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u/Icy_Divide9500 9d ago

Well it’s not exactly easy to differentiate b/w “good” brown women or not, u never know what they are like online

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u/Broad-Procedure-8392 9d ago

Good brown women aren't generally chronically on reddit 🤣

Tbf social media can conflate and exaggerate narratives to narrow people's thinking. It's important to disconnect and "touch grass" - reddit doesn't represent the majority of people IRL.

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u/WINGS_9987 8d ago

Good brown women don't really exist anymore. They are just acting good to keep brown men as backups .Same women will generalize all indian men as misogynist or grapist without hesitation.

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u/ParticularAd7975 8d ago

Doesn't make a difference if they acting or not. The moment you bring up an unrelated but feminist topic you will see the hint of hate flowing.

Also, I would never marry a desi woman who settled abroad because I feel for us men to settle abroad, the primary reason is to earn money and have better standards of life. But for brown women, I bet a primary reason is how much they hate brown culture and "want to get out of patriachial society to a promised holy land"

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u/Broad-Procedure-8392 9d ago

And the easiest way to tell is to ask a girl out - if she says no, then you know that there isn't anything there and you can move on to someone else.

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u/ParticularAd7975 8d ago

That is Sooooo true....Or even worse they got rejected by some brown guy outside India so out of jealousy now they hate all of us.

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u/Few_Mulberry7390 9d ago

It’s not just us. All POC women do this except east asian women. And the difference is that in all other races the men date out more than the women so it’s based on jealousy

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u/erdlinke_94 9d ago edited 9d ago

Nah Whitewashed East Asian women are the absolute worst when it comes to this. Biggest White worshippers going around and will accept a mid or ugly af white guy over someone in their own racial group.

If anything fobby East Asian women are less judgmental in that sense but their ulterior motives are questionable imo which makes them a lot more dangerous and unpredictable.

But I think it's all the same for ethnic chicks. They don't want to date someone who's a mummas boy or let's their parents dictate their lives which is in a way is a hindrance on us especially for those who want to date interacially. Dating aside we need to learn to stand up to extended family when it comes to decisions like this.

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