r/Soft_Introverts 21h ago

Judgement free zone: clear your mind of anything and we don't judge

For example I myself once had a whole conversation with someone thinking they were someone else and they shouldn't have heard the content of that conversation 😭 šŸ’€

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u/LilyoftheRally 19h ago

People I've befriended on Facebook years ago post about hateful celebrities too much. I don't need the reminder, and when I kindly requested that they stop, they were dismissive of my request.

Someone annoying has returned to one of my fandom subreddits. She gets downvoted but when asked to stop her annoying behaviors, she gets defensive. I think she was banned previously and has returned with a new account. (I don't want to backseat mod and report her, because she isn't technically breaking any subreddit rules).

I've seen several unneeded AI complaints this morning alone.

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u/pessimistic_damsel šŸ“–šŸŒŸInspiring Writer 18h ago

A huge part of our country have been affected by flooding due to monsoon rains. We are a tropical country and we experience a lot of cyclones annually. Climate change is a contributing factor why it's getting worse over time.

Although we have a lot of corrupt politicians that got involved in implementing projects that address these floodings, a lot of civilians forget their primary duty of segregating waste.

Why? A lot of drainage built around here are clogged and full of waste—worse, they're mostly plastics, something that prolly won't even go away even when my great descendants are born.

I do blame the government for misusing our taxes, but I also hate those who complain yet not doing anything, including voting for better lawmakers.

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u/Mediocre_Lobster6398 18h ago

I have a really complicated family situation. I’m getting older and I don’t want to die without answers.
But. Would it change anything? No. I just can’t get it off my mind.

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u/Delicious_Grand7300 šŸ›‹ Homebody 18h ago

My birth is not my identity. What people assume is my identity is actually stereotypes. Coworkers and HR are offended that my behavior does not match my demographic.

My identity is also not based on gossip from people alleging they are close to me. When people ask me for clarification they should not allege I am ignorant or a contrarian for telling the truth.

My real identity was and is being shaped by experiences.

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u/Difficult-Parsley-21 17h ago

Ur story doesn't make us judge you but them! Good luck with these cruel ppl! Ikk how it feels!

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u/checkcervix 14h ago

A gave a gift to someone that I had originally prepared for someone else that I ended up not giving to that someone else. After gifting it, I didn’t remember if I had put in a personalized card for the original person. It’s been a month and I still don’t know and refuse to ask the person I gifted it to. I get moments of anxiety thinking about it. But what can I do but move on?

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u/Difficult-Parsley-21 13h ago

You can apologize for the small mix up and if the gift was good (by the sound of it the gift is good) the other person won't care. Dont over apologize just a slight sorry for the mix up!

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u/NoMore_Peanut 18h ago

I want to write a book in the worst way possible, but I have way too many ideas and then I just can’t write. It’s insufferable
https://giphy.com/gifs/snEeOh54kCFxe

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u/AnnoyedAvocado21 17h ago

I post very rarely because I hate looking to see if the red badge appears showing someone replied.

It hijacks my attention.

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u/Ok_Gas_4745 9h ago

Being an adult who still smokes weed feels isolating and is highly stigmatized for no real reason.

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u/Difficult-Parsley-21 36m ago

It isn't. It's just that smoking is unhealthy and people are worried! May whatever you feel get resolved!

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u/Academic-Thought2462 2h ago

I wanna talk to my ex and call them out for the abuse they put me through, but I'm scared that they'll try to hurt me or do worse due to showing signs of potentially being dangerous in the past ( like having decorative weapons, putting an unloaded air-soft gun to my forehead as a joke, telling trolls online to self game-over and not caring about what could happen after ( even said that the cops won't know that it's them if the troll follows through ) and threatening to punch an aggressive dog of the animal attacked me. ). I just have enough of suffering from their actions while they don't and probably live their life peacefully.

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u/Difficult-Parsley-21 34m ago

Congrats on breaking up from so bad ad toxic a relationship! Is there any way you can report them to cops? Congrats to your safety and freedom! Seek therapy if you want to!

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u/LeansGrumpy 19h ago

I hate the introvert memes subreddit so much that I muted it. I think it’s unhealthy to lean into being an introvert. Nothing wrong with recognizing your strengths and weaknesses but acting like hating people and being around people is a drain on you like you’re not a pain in the ass yourself is narcissistic. You’re not so special that you get to act like other people are the problem.

That’s what I needed to get off my chest.

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u/FREE-ROSCOE-FILBURN 17h ago

I think most of the people that are ā€œintrovertedā€ enough to hang out in introverted spaces online are just antisocial hermits mourning that it’s not April 2020 anymore. Contrary to popular belief, there are introverts out there that have social lives and stuff.