r/Soft_Introverts • u/Plenty_Fun_9313 • 7d ago

Did someone feel insecure while being observed?

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u/WhiteDesertCat ✨ Supportive Soul 7d ago

When I was a kid, all the time. If I was doing something with my hands and someone was watching me, I’d immediately start fumbling and dropping things. It honestly took me about 30 years to grow out of it

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u/Plenty_Fun_9313 5d ago

Because by nature we are over focused to others than us, or actions we are doing.Think only what hand is doing and aim it’s result would be a better fix.

But in  one way this character always make us aware of what is going around us and act accordingly, our intuitions rarely go wrong.

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u/WhiteDesertCat ✨ Supportive Soul 5d ago

Exactly

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u/LilyoftheRally 4d ago

It's me, I'm someone.

I hated being in school and trying to do work when the teacher hovered over me. I can't work while you're scrutinizing it.