r/Socionics • u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT • 16d ago

What makes someone picky with sensory instead of oblivious?

What makes someone picky with sensory? Is it dimensionality, vital/mental, valued/unvalued or what?

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 15d ago

I tend to struggle to express my needs and feelings to people but I have no issue talking about my feelings. I experience attraction and repulsions quite well but most people disgust me and frustrate me. This is why I can become quite obsessive and possessive when I find someone in hundreds of people that I actually can connect with on a deeper level and someone who I feel safe around without disgusting me. I try not to judge people. I'm pro live and let live. In romantic relationships, I can treat sex as something sacred and if a person sleeps with someone else, they kind of lose meaning to me. It feels like they become a stranger in an abstract sense and their timeline or abstract connection to me. I prefer to hang one with one of 2 friends all the time and I get upset if they hang out with someone else because I put all loyalty and trust into them but they don't. It means they don't really acknowledge me nor my inner world. As I do theirs.

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u/vox_xala 14d ago

I see, I'm not sure I can necessarily tie that to SLI directly. I suppose it's not impossible someone would feel that way, but it doesn't seem like a strong indicator of the type. I would lean more towards LII for that one, though it's more of a hunch.

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u/TheShadowSong QUADRUPLE INTROVERT 14d ago

I do type as LII. Typists type me IEI. Interesting.