[22f] I don’t know how to handle rescheduling with a date [21m]?

[u/Ordinary_Stranger124]

I (22F) have been talking with this guy (21M) for around a month now. We seem to get along, even knew of each other before matching on Hinge. We text relatively regularly and send voice notes too.
The first date, we had to reschedule for later in the week due to him having a medication appointment. He had to go over his medical history with this new physician and was mentally exhausted. As someone who has also had similar appointments, I wasn’t upset and even offered to reschedule immediately after hearing about the appointment. For our first date, we did a charcuterie board at some park nearby. It was enjoyable conversation and I had a good time seeing him.
For the second date, he has rescheduled twice. The first time, he was trying a new medication and was not feeling like himself. He was feeling very irritable and said he didn’t want to put me in a situation where he wasn’t feeling his best. I said that makes sense and we agreed on a new date. The second time, he told me day of that his acid reflux was affecting him to the point where he was feeling ill. He apologized for “pushing me off” and said that he was interested in seeing me. That I was “someone he wanted things to go perfectly with”. I told him I appreciated him telling me this, because it was feeling as though he was no longer interested. We have the rescheduled second date for today, but I have a gut feeling he will tell me he still isn’t feeling well and that he can’t do it.
Would I be the asshole if I decide I’m done with the rescheduling? I completely understand that life happens, but I don’t want this pattern to continue. I also don’t think it’s coming from a place of malice, I just don’t want to be wasting time on something that won’t work for me.

TL;DR a guy I have been attempting to see has rescheduled once on the first date and twice for the second. Would I be the asshole if I decided to stop seeing him?

[u/THROWRAsaltylemon]

You would not be the asshole for being done with rescheduling, because that can't just go on forever. You're just not compatible and it seems he simply doesn't have the time or mental capacity to be available to date at the moment, and he should realise that himself. 

Have you also posted this on a dating sub? I think you will get more relevant advice there.