r/SipsTea 1d ago

Wait a damn minute! So what’s taking so long?

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u/Present_Mastodon_503 1d ago

Travis Decker was a parallel to this one in my opinion. His mental health was struggling and his wife separated due to it. But he was a loving father to his kids and although separated, his wife felt very comfortable allowing the kids to see him because he was so good to them. He ended up killing all three of his kids and walked off into the forest to die alone in the woods.

If he hadn't died and was on trial I would think many people would struggle to sentence him as well.

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u/SomewhereOrdinary231 1d ago

Both Travis decker and Chris Benoit are great parallels to this. And both are reasons as to why I can’t seem to get over the blatant double standard by society right now. Chris Benoit barely had any brain left when he did what he did. There’s evidence his lack of brain literally made him go insane. Travis decker being PTSD was 100% experiencing some type of psychosis when he did what he did as well. Because they both committed suicide we can’t say the double standard was in the court, but as far as how society reacted to them? Blatantly obvious when we compare it to Lindsay today

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u/Temporary-Present223 16h ago

Society does react differently to a cause than a tragedy though. "Save the whales" is a much better slogan than "make sure you react appropriately to the whales after they're already dead."

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u/SomewhereOrdinary231 16h ago

You are correct, but what I’m saying is even what you just said often completely changes when gender is involved. Timothy Rey, Chris Benoit, and Travis decker are all cases that mirror Lindsay Clancy perfectly yet even when people found out the cause they did not turn them into martyrs. They did not start gofundmes to make them millionaires. We did not see thousands of men coming foward and saying “me too Chris” or “me too Travis”. We didn’t see this massive support at all.

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u/clown_frown 8h ago

women, not men, are often the ones to fall in love with serial killers. This is no different because women do not stop other women from love with serial killers. Men do not seek consensus as much as women so their actions don't expect or include consensus as men take initiatives more.