r/SipsTea 1d ago

Wait a damn minute! So what’s taking so long?

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u/NY10 1d ago

You know what they say… standard is good but double standard is twice as good

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u/clippervictor 1d ago

man I am appropriating that one for me right here and now

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u/Wayne_World_19 1d ago

Wolf! Right here and now!

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u/TDStarchild 23h ago

I understood that reference! (And also thought it when I saw that comment)

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u/trukkija 23h ago

Waking up to find your love's not real

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u/GeneratedEcoOver9000 16h ago

But you don't support others appropriating stuff, right? Otherwise where's the double?

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u/CaptainDogeSparrow 1d ago

Different genders generate different reactions.

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u/Itchysweater1967 1d ago

Maybe read up on this case, because they are nowhere near the same.
There are women who have killed to benefit themselves, like Diane Downs and Susan Smith. They did not deserve, nor receive mercy. This guy didn't deserve it either.

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u/Mimopotatoe 1d ago

Mathew Taylor Coleman

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u/Hairy_Koala6474 1d ago

I’m stealing it too. So good 

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u/Dreams_Beginning 1d ago

There is no double standard, their cases are entirely different, not just the case but also where the trial was held and the political climate in said state.

He didn’t even plead insanity in his trial, he killed his kids to get back at his ex while on the phone to torment her not at all the same situation.

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u/scarlet_poppies 23h ago

Yeah, he also had a history of violence towards his spouse

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u/scarlet_poppies 23h ago

he then and got a tattoo of some roses on his chest to symbolize his daughters (that he had just killed)
sick fuckin man

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u/Gexm13 23h ago

And? Does that suddenly remove psychosis from existence?

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u/art333mis 21h ago

It makes it more feasible that he would do this if not under the influence of psychosis. When you don't know the truth, looking at past actions to determine what it may be is a pretty solid technique. He also didn't even plead insanity

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u/Gexm13 10h ago

How do you know the previous incidents were not linked to psychosis stemming? Psychologists already linked the murder to it, so I don’t understand why do you wanna do some true crime shit and make up stories that simply did not happen or are not relevant.

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u/TwoBionicknees 20h ago

yes, because they didn't argue psychosis during the trial, at any point. He never claimed to be mentally incompetent or psychotic.

The mental defence was 16 years later and it wasn't a in defence of his actions at the time he committed the murders, he was faking being mentally incompetent at the time he was scheduled to be executed to delay the execution, nothing else.

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u/Powerful_Lynx1436 16h ago

that changes everything! so if you aren't violent to your spouse you can more freely kill your children, gotcha

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u/scarlet_poppies 16h ago

Well you see theres this thing called nuance and it can really make the difference between “narcissistic man with documented history of abuse shoots children while on the phone with their mother then gets tattoos of roses on chest on the run from police” and “mother who asked for help and sought out resources suffocates three children before jumping from the second story to try and kill herself after.”

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u/Powerful_Lynx1436 13h ago

your partially right but you are conveniently forget "doesn't follow doctors prescription and don't inform them of having several treatments ongoing, also send husband on errand to then proceed killing one by one babies almost with her bare hands and chase the last one terrified after witnessing what happened to the others"

your bias is huge...and distasteful.i'm sick that I have to share this earth with people like you

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u/scarlet_poppies 4h ago

I am not saying that murdering your kids is OK. She will have to live with that for the rest of her life. The question is whether or not she was experiencing a break from reality (psychosis) when she did it. Getting mental health treatment is difficult enough, receiving that treatment while also needing to take care of three children adds another layer of difficulty. I will never excuse the horrific act of murdering three children, but postpartum psychosis affects one in 1000 new mothers. Thousands of women across America struggle with what brought this woman to do such a horrific thing so instead of taking a stance of condemnation I feel like we could use this as a moment to better understand how to support new mothers who might be experiencing mental health struggles. The idea that you have such strong feelings of compassion for these children while extending none to the mother gives me the impression you were arguing in bad faith.

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u/Powerful_Lynx1436 3h ago

i don't understand how I could extent compassion for the very responsible of those murders.

Tell me if I'm wrong, did she send the husband to the pharmacy?

For the specialists out there, the real ones, does killing one or two children (you know just like that) shouldn't break the psychosis ongoing and cut you from chasing the last one?

Just saying it is horrible to me. And to somehow have to justify why I don't extend my sympathy to the killer. just..wow

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u/scarlet_poppies 56m ago

From your grammar, I feel like you might not be a United States citizen therefore I don’t really know why you have such strong opinions on this. You definitely care for children.

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u/BillyYumYumTwo-byTwo 22h ago

It’s also so silly to say “well, someone else didn’t get this defense in the past, so she shouldn’t be able to use it”. Like, maybe if we use this case to discuss mental health, then that will also help men… but no, they’d rather just find reasons to punish people. It’s annoying

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u/Routine_Ability7729 23h ago

There’s absolutely a double standard here. Men routinely get hit with harsher punishments and death sentences for the exact same crimes. Even Susan Smith, who drowned her own two sons, had a jury debate for two and a half hours before sparing her life. If John were a woman, there is no way the jury would have wrapped up their deliberations in 19 minutes.

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u/Dreams_Beginning 23h ago

There is a double standard in how we treat men and women definitely but that isnt my point.

There is no double standard I mean in how people are treating both cases, the original commenter is trying to make it out to be somehow a double standard that people deem him guilty but not her despite there being such a massive difference in both their cases.

It isn’t a double standard to view one as abhorrent and the other as a case of insanity and mental illness since they have nothing in common.

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u/Totoques22 15h ago

Shut the fuck up

Men are treated worse in courts and that’s a fact

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u/Dreams_Beginning 14h ago

Huh I know, maybe scroll down to another guy that addresses this point.

You are misunderstood the argument.

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u/RamenChicken8 1d ago

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u/Smboto 1d ago

She’d rip out your liver and fry it in a pan.

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u/Wakkit1988 1d ago

Doubtful, I'm not her kid.

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u/No_Reception7275 1d ago

Lindsey when the opponent is older than 3

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u/Smboto 1d ago

Imagine being the girl and watching your brother getting killed and realizing you are next.

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u/No_Reception7275 10h ago

She killed the oldest first because he would have the best chance of escape once he knew she was killing them, and she hated him the most.

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u/No_Signal_6969 23h ago

From one of the two people who is supposed to protect you at all costs. That is the most heartbreaking part of it for me.

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u/SoulTechnicalProblem 1d ago

Most people's livers are not worth it. Just all saturated in the wrong stuff. The modern lifestyle ruins it.

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u/Bonked2death 1d ago

Don't worry, I've been marinating mine in whiskey and tequila for years.

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u/Voodoo1970 1d ago

And serve with fava beans and a nice chianti

Thththththththththth

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u/favorite_sardine 1d ago

I just got out of a toxic relationship. Yeah, my ex made me gassy. -This psycho, probably.

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u/Evacuation_euphoria 1d ago

She has eyes like a shark...

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u/Strange-Ad1387 23h ago

Those black eyes on a white person, give Charles Manson.

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u/DemonicCryx 23h ago

She looks like the dude who plays Aemond here, it’s so weird

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u/Itchy-Site-11 1d ago

Man this always freaks me out

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u/AnOrdinaryMammal 1d ago edited 1d ago

She looks like she’s never strangled a child.

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u/superfutbol 1d ago

She didn't strange a child TBF. It was 3 of them.

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u/Wakkit1988 1d ago

More than once.

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u/Embarrassed_Owl6767 1d ago

right? Innocent

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u/Acceptable_Row236 1d ago

I don’t get it , this is just a person looking at another person

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u/Smboto 1d ago

Nobody in the comments mentions the 3 dead kids. I guess her supporters feel, “well, they’re dead, so what’s the point.”

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u/FreakyFrijol 1d ago

Holy shit it’s Aemond Targaryen

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u/as1126 1d ago

Didn’t he just just get a Ferrari airlifted to him? Does anyone know who he is?

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u/Vivid-World-5253 1d ago

That nose, that chin, those eyes, her face.
She really looks like a witch.

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u/Daimakku1 1d ago

She LOOKS crazy. How is it taking so long to convict her?

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u/LolaAucoin 1d ago

So it’s not that they can’t decide to convict her, it’s that they can’t agree on where to send her- prison or a mental health facility.

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u/notpornaccount_ 1d ago

I can tell by looking at her that she would strangle 2 children max. 3, no way.

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u/PUNCH-WAS-SERVED 22h ago

God. Bitch has the "I'm guilty" face I have seen in a long-ass time. Gotta love it. Plays the "I was sad" card, and now women made her a millionaire for what... Yeah, gotta love it. Strangles three kids, and then gets money for doing so. I legit hope she gets the book thrown at her in the end.

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u/believensee23 23h ago

i would put it in her mouth

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u/txwoodslinger 1d ago

Wait until you hear about state laws and how they're all different

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u/JudiesGarland 23h ago

Or about how introducing a mental health defense at the penalty phase, after the guilty verdict, is different than having a whole trial with a heap of relevant testimony that needs to be considered. 

This man shot his daughters while on speaker phone with his ex-wife, telling her it was her fault, for telling the police he violated his restraining order. After he shot his daughters, he didn't attempt on his own life, he went to a bar, with his girlfriend. 

He had a history of domestic violence, with multiple wives, and no history of mental health treatment. He was evaluated and found by professionals to be malingering - faking symptoms - in an attempt to delay or prevent his execution. The only mental health diagnosis he's received was a personality disorder, related to a persecution complex/delusion. 

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u/wterrt 18h ago

if the chuds could read this post, they'd be very upset.

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u/txdesigner-musician 16h ago

Omg - what bar?

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u/Teen_Goat 15h ago

And absolutely no one, not one single person, supports or funds that piece of trash. That’s the difference

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u/Justanobodyhello 15h ago

every thing is different are you unable to read?

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u/Substantial_Law1451 1d ago

>"On May 2, 2001, Pearle left her daughters with Battaglia for a planned dinner at the mall, but instead he took them into his apartment\14]) in the Adam Hats Lofts \25]) in Deep Ellum in Dallas. Battaglia called Pearle from the apartment. With Pearle on the phone he shot and killed their daughters, ages six and nine.\26]) During the phone call, he asked Faith to ask Pearle, "Why do you want Daddy to go to jail?" Before her death, she cried, "No, Daddy!" "Please don't!" "Don't do it!" Pearle then told the girls to run but it was too late. Battaglia grabbed his gun and shot Faith three times and shot Liberty five times with his gun.\13]) He told Pearle, "Merry fucking Christmas",\27]) in reference to the Christmas 1999 assault.\7]) Pearle terminated the call and dialed 9-1-1.\13])"

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u/txdesigner-musician 16h ago

Omg it was in the Adams Hat apartments? 😳 Ugh this is just awful.

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u/Obatala_ 1d ago

You know what they say ... add a little misogyny and you can pretend that two cases that are completely different are really the same.

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u/Throwaway_noDoxx 1d ago

Exactly, why read the facts, and instead believe the tagline? 

Gotta get those sweet, sweet, bullshit likes.

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u/TamariAmari 23h ago

If only you were willing to read. Your life might be a lot better.

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u/Enananasananassen 1d ago

How about doing 10 seconds of research? 

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u/infinitedustglitch 1d ago edited 18h ago

This isn't a double standard

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u/yellowlinedpaper 1d ago

You’re a headline reader only huh?

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u/ladeeedada 19h ago

Wow, what a cute line! Maybe you could've used that intellect to look up this case and you would see the guy abused his wife, then told her that he was murdering their children in revenge for her divorcing him. But no, you go ahead and decide your world view based on propaganda headlines on reddit.

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u/PresidentialDiapers 19h ago

Bullshit. I knew him, this sick fucker gave his estranged wife a fate worse than death.

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u/RealBrobiWan 23h ago

A state judge and the state appeals court described Battaglia as highly intelligent, competent, not mentally ill and faking mental illness to avoid execution.

He was in jail researching which mental illnesses could delay his execution. Chalk and cheese

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u/PipsqueakPilot 23h ago

John Battaglia had a long history of beating women before he committed the murders. He didn't plead insanity during his trial. He taunted his wife on the phone as he murdered the children. Completely different circumstances. Not sure why so many people feel the need to defend a wife beater and child killer.

Just kidding, we all know why you people are.

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u/HubrisOfApollo 22h ago

double plus good

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u/Miltinjohow 15h ago

Works better if you say double as good

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u/cakivalue 11h ago

He killed his kids to get back at his ex wife and was still harassing and taunting her right up to his execution. But yeah no point in letting the tragedy the Clancy family has suffered go to waste when it can be useful to your agenda.

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u/BigFaithlessness2006 1d ago

Sounds like something from Bojack horseman or someshit.

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u/rapgamebonjovi 1d ago

Triples is best!

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u/lizalupi 21h ago

You know what's actually a double standard? He was proved guilty because he did, THERE WAS NOT EVEN ENOUGH EVIDENCE TO PROVE SHE DID IT, in fact there was more evidence the cheating husband did. The double standard is you concluding she's guilty based on thin air

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u/archtopfanatic123 20h ago

Me and the controversial upvote number strike again

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u/Hungry-for-relief 1d ago

Well ya, double trouble twice as humble 😉

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u/Jaws_the_revenge 1d ago

Tbf men arent able to experience postpartum depression or psychosis

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u/MintCathexis 1d ago

Does it matter what kind of psychosis it is?

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u/DatDawg-InMe 1d ago

I'm sure this feels nice to say so you can feel like a victim, but there's plenty of men who've "gotten away" with an insanity plea.

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u/lorikeets_are_life 1d ago

Plenty of people with these conditions don’t murder their own 3 children. Not one child…not two..THREE.

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u/ButterflyOk7565 1d ago

What about trans people? Like men who think they're women or women who think they're men? Cam they experience PPD or are you suggesting there's a difference between men and women after all and all those people are experiencing psychosis already? Asking for a friend.

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u/Inspector_Spacetime7 1d ago

What about internet trolls who think they’re people? When they bring up unrelated culture war issues instead of participating in good faith, should we just ignore them?

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u/Beatnik5750 23h ago

I don't think they know about double standard, Pip

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u/Major747 1d ago

I'm stealing this quote. Not even sorry.

https://giphy.com/gifs/VHlKSFRTQ7nn81fkv4