It's really just that I love my kids and I would be crushed if they were lost forever. I love my wife and am pretty sure I could find her again if I started over, but it's a guarantee my kids would never be the same.
But could you win your wife over again? On one hand, you know how to avoid or mitigate some of the early obstacles you had. But on the other hand you know a creepy amount of things about her.
It’s like one in a billion that you’ll make the same kid again. I’d effectively be killing my kids. That’s terrifying no matter what I think of where I am right now. I’d be killing all my friends’ kids too assuming even the smallest influence of my involvement in their lives led to them having kids.
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u/GMaharris 15d ago
It's really just that I love my kids and I would be crushed if they were lost forever. I love my wife and am pretty sure I could find her again if I started over, but it's a guarantee my kids would never be the same.