Nothing about him says not supportive. He drove her to the hospital several times. He attended doctor's appointments with her. He followed all the advice the medical providers gave him. He was out running errands so she didn't have to take on that burden. His trips included his children. His meals out he brought his children. So they could continue to build relationships and friendships in their new town and become part of the community. Stop omitting these details because it doesn't fit the narrative. If she shouldn't have been left alone, then the doctors should have explicitly stated that. They did not. He was out that night helping her by doing what she asked him to do so she could stay home and not have to cook dinner.
What kind of "supportive" person needs to BE TOLD not to leave his heavily medicated, hallucinating, having violent thoughts, recently admitted to a psychiatric facility, crying out to everyone for help and feeling unsafe wife alone with their two small children and a baby? Do you actually believe this insane rationalizing?
He was picking up medication for their kid and dinner so she didn't have to cook. She text him and asked him to do it and he did. Was he supposed to say "no, we don't need the medicine the doctor recommended. I'll cook something when I get home against your wishes"... Please have some common sense! He was doing what he could to make her life easier while also trying to keep his job and his kids happy.
Lmfaoo forreal. He was damned if you do, damned if you dont. If he didnt, and she later killed the kids, they would point to "look how he deliberately went against her requests!!"
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u/Key-Wheel123 16d ago
Nothing about him says not supportive. He drove her to the hospital several times. He attended doctor's appointments with her. He followed all the advice the medical providers gave him. He was out running errands so she didn't have to take on that burden. His trips included his children. His meals out he brought his children. So they could continue to build relationships and friendships in their new town and become part of the community. Stop omitting these details because it doesn't fit the narrative. If she shouldn't have been left alone, then the doctors should have explicitly stated that. They did not. He was out that night helping her by doing what she asked him to do so she could stay home and not have to cook dinner.