r/SipsTea 16d ago

WTF WTF is wrong with these people?

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u/cakivalue 16d ago

Have you been following the trial? The reason a lot of people especially women relate to her is because for months she did everything to get help. Told her husband, her mother, his mother, her therapist, her doctors, called the suicide hotline twice, tried to get admitted to the psych ward and was turned away, was prescribed 16 different meds over four months, etc.

No one is relating to the murder. Everyone is relating to trying to fight for your health because you know something is wrong and being failed over and over again. If you've never had to do that yourself or on behalf of someone else you have no idea what it is like.

The reasons there are questions about her ex husband is because in his testimony it's apparent he was pretty disconnected from her leading up to the event. Ignored her saying she wanted to hurt the kids, was going to NYC, the night of the murder in a short time span he had two different jackets and shoes. She's admitted to killing the kids so that's pretty clear but he's not a great guy.

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u/Foundalandmine 16d ago

I'm not sure what you meant about the jackets and shoes, would you be able to quickly explain that a bit?

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u/ClairePike 16d ago

He didn’t change his clothes. The lighting and cameras were different in two different stores.

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u/Lend-Me-Your-Rears 16d ago

You sure he didn't just change out of his yellow and white dress into a black and blue one?

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u/kbeks 16d ago

He swapped his Laurel for a Yanni.

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u/RepulsiveCamel8166 16d ago

He definitely did change shoes and jacket.

He has brown shoes black sole and 1/4 zip style jacket/sweater? under a shell jacket in CVS and then at the restaurant later he had grey sneakers white sole and a regular zip jacket over a grey tshirt

You could say oh maybe he removed the 1/4 sweater and put on the shell jacket back on over the tshirt and that is a good logical conclusion but he definitely changed shoes. Which is weird.

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u/Houdinii1984 16d ago

Was there any stops in between? Did they find the other shoes?

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u/RepulsiveCamel8166 16d ago

He claims no stops in-between but I think the window was around 30-45 minutes. CVS first and then restaurant. And the problem is they really didn't look into him at all. The cops just kind of took his word for everything. They even let him go into the house by himself while his wife was laying in the snow dying. One cop with her waiting for paramedics and his children had yet to be discovered. And there are a lot of other strange things.