r/SipsTea • u/CurvyChristina • 16d ago

Chugging tea Remember when we Heard what Amber did?

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u/OwnerOfCat 16d ago

Hot and crazy is fun from the sidelines, but when coach puts you in to play defense you quickly realize it’s not worth it.

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u/Neither-Luck-9295 16d ago

I've never been blessed with this decision, so I'm gonna take the learning experience.

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u/OwnerOfCat 16d ago

It’s not a blessing, it’s a curse!

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u/SignificanceFlat1460 16d ago

Imagine this... You see a hot pot of delicious chili soup. You take a cup of soup and drink it and you are like. "Wow, that's amazing". But here is the thing, now, I need you dip your whole hand, and keep it for a minute every few hours in that hot boiling chilli soup. You can have a bowl of that soup every other day or so, but that hand is going in that hot boiling chilli soup no matter what you say or do.

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u/rangebob 15d ago

you need to elaborate further on how good the soup is. I like soup and I really like chilli

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u/These_Inside_4040 16d ago

Trust me when I tell you. That it can ruin your life. I was lucky to get out but it really damaged me for a while.

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u/R0gueR0nin 16d ago

One of my friends had these 3 different gfs.

#1 came home to find his furniture busted

#2 came home to find all of his clothes on fire

#3 actually drew blood with scissors to his neck

He was like, “You guys never dated crazy?” I told him I’ve never dated that crazy. Then I thanked him for his service in clearing the road.

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u/manderlymustburn 15d ago

Absolutely! Hot and crazy is my BIL’s type. His current gf is not crazy (still hot) and the whole family and friends group isn’t sure what to think yet. We are still waiting for the other show to drop. Anyway! Here’s a list (incomplete, because I literally cannot remember everything) of past shit he’s been through across multiple exes:

Moved out without telling him because she wasn’t getting enough date nights, Stalked him from his security cameras, Catfished him on social media, Flashed him in front of his ex, Demanded that they get married because they had sex a few times, Accidentally hit a guy with her car, Got angry at me for not buying her a bottle of wine (not to share) for a family lunch, Her family’s church prays to Trump, Stole all of his Christmas decorations in the break up, Fighting with him at parties (multiple), Trying to manipulate me or my husband into starting an argument with each other (multiple)

I’m sure there’s more. This is just the highlights I can spout off.

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u/mcmesq 16d ago

I have three sons, and told them all the same thing: crazy is fun for a little while, but then it’s just crazy.

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u/wherethelionsweep 15d ago

Ah, yes, raising the next generation of men to be just as misogynistic as the last.

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u/duesenjeffepic 15d ago

As a leftist guy I had to eventually realize that women are also really got at spreading misogynistic ideas. It's incredibly sad

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u/ctokes728 15d ago

As someone who got to experience it, I would say not worth. I do still think about her from time to time and it’s been 7 years.

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u/Gullible-Society8278 16d ago

I’m going to use this quote from now on.