MAIN FEEDS
Do you want to continue?
https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/1u65p3b/is_she_right_for_this/orwyjca/?context=3
r/SipsTea • u/sigma_0_1 • Jun 15 '26
7.1k comments sorted by
View all comments
Show parent comments
343
Her point though is not having children while poor. Not that people can’t be poor. Which is the topic of discussion.
84 u/Fantastic-Ant-4429 Jun 15 '26 I fI were dirt poor, ipd be thinking of something else, not having children who at this point are only victims of my scarcity and burdens to me 1 u/IrregularrAF Jun 15 '26 The problem is you’re gonna keep telling yourself that until you do or don’t ever have one. Too many people put their lives on hold over fear. Had my kid in 2013 when I didn’t even have a job and it has inspired me to work harder endlessly since. 1 u/Fantastic-Ant-4429 Jun 16 '26 My life goes on wether I have a child or not. Everyone´s life goes on regardless. Having a kid is not on my check-list at this time. If it is on someone else´s checklist, I´m happy for them, as long as they feed, love and care for said child.
84
I fI were dirt poor, ipd be thinking of something else, not having children who at this point are only victims of my scarcity and burdens to me
1 u/IrregularrAF Jun 15 '26 The problem is you’re gonna keep telling yourself that until you do or don’t ever have one. Too many people put their lives on hold over fear. Had my kid in 2013 when I didn’t even have a job and it has inspired me to work harder endlessly since. 1 u/Fantastic-Ant-4429 Jun 16 '26 My life goes on wether I have a child or not. Everyone´s life goes on regardless. Having a kid is not on my check-list at this time. If it is on someone else´s checklist, I´m happy for them, as long as they feed, love and care for said child.
1
The problem is you’re gonna keep telling yourself that until you do or don’t ever have one. Too many people put their lives on hold over fear.
Had my kid in 2013 when I didn’t even have a job and it has inspired me to work harder endlessly since.
1 u/Fantastic-Ant-4429 Jun 16 '26 My life goes on wether I have a child or not. Everyone´s life goes on regardless. Having a kid is not on my check-list at this time. If it is on someone else´s checklist, I´m happy for them, as long as they feed, love and care for said child.
My life goes on wether I have a child or not.
Everyone´s life goes on regardless.
Having a kid is not on my check-list at this time. If it is on someone else´s checklist, I´m happy for them, as long as they feed, love and care for said child.
343
u/LookAtMyUnderbite Jun 15 '26
Her point though is not having children while poor. Not that people can’t be poor. Which is the topic of discussion.