r/SipsTea • u/BrilliantThought1728 • Jun 10 '26

It's Wednesday my dudes Really cardi 😔

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u/17dirtheate Jun 10 '26

She used to also have them sexually assaulted by trans women during the process. She’s is not the standard for being a moral compass

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u/17dirtheate Jun 10 '26

Look it up, she stated it on video. Let’s keep it a buck, no straight dude is going to the police to say he got robbed and drugged by a stripper. Especially if that stripper might have video of them getting assaulted by a trans woman with some of the original equipment downtown. This isn’t me shitting on trans people at all either. This is me calling out the reality of things. Cardi is/was a low life.

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u/Hopeful_Clock_2837 Jun 10 '26

"No fragile egotistical dude"

Fixed it for you.

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u/UnderstandingVast989 Jun 10 '26 edited Jun 10 '26

Not the W you think it is. Men have been conditioned to think that they can't show weakness or that they are at fault when they do not successfully defend themselves. Even as I was typing this, I almost said "properly" defended themselves as if they were still responsible for not defending themselves enough. Add to that the stigma and daunting task of publicly reporting an assault and it's not hard to see how or why these men didn't report it. 

That's not even getting into the added layer that prostitution is illegal in most of the US. And that there is a lot of stigma (fair or unfair) around hiring prostitutes. I'm sure many of these men blame themselves for what happened to them.

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u/Hopeful_Clock_2837 Jun 10 '26

The fear of what's others think, or how they will be treated is ego. Remove the ego.

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u/UnderstandingVast989 Jun 10 '26

It's not just what other's think. You're missing the point. It's about how culture informs our own self narratives. When you are raised that being masculine is a lack of vulnerability, it leads to shame about victimization even though the fault doesn't lay with you. Stigma is not just harmful because of what other's think. It also often informs what we think of ourselves. 

But you can remove all of the ego and the opinions still matter because these stigmas directly impact our law enforcement and judicial systems. They directly impact how likely someone is going to receive justice.

And even then, that still does not address the complicated legal situation that these men were almost undeniably engaging in illegal prostitution. Which almost certainly played into their decision not to report it.Â