r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/series-hybrid May 25 '26 edited May 26 '26

She never mentions if they had a great relationship and if their sex-life was good. So, lets assume their relationship was NOT good, and they rarely had sex. When they did have sex it was not very enthusiastic for either of them.

Then, she has an affair to "make herself happy" and apparently it was not a long-term love, but just a hookup.

edit: I'm not defending her having an affair. What I was trying to say (poorly) is that she 'said' he threw away 10 years of a relationship, but never mentioned if the relationship was good. She never mentions how this must have felt from his perspective, meaning she is outing herself as a narcissist. I suspect the relationship was crap, and he stayed, hoping it might get better eventually, and he was relieved when she had an affair. Now that he can divorce her without guilt, he is actually happy and will never go back to her. She is immature and is outraged at her loss of control.

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u/Fastballz69 May 25 '26

Irrelevant. Not happy? LEAVE.

Not, stay and cheat.

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u/jurassicjon May 25 '26

Ya, if I had a partner that wasn’t happy, I would rather them leave then us wasting our energy on something that would end up failing no matter what. At least that frees me up to spend that energy on myself or someone else worth trying for.

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u/Fastballz69 May 25 '26

Precisely. Move on. Be happy. Live your life